Tag: Breathing

hemophilia. bruising. and kegels. and deathgrip.

testing testing. i guess i added a visitor message asking if it was the blog function necause this is my first post and i have no idea what i am doing here. first post. much delayed.
so yeah there was something about doing kegels somewhere, and i am a hemophiliac and i think, well, i don’t know for certain but maybe it was the kegels, but now my hole is seriously bluepurplebruised, and hurts like ohholyeverlovingmotheroffuck, hurts to sit, hurts in the restroom, ow. anyone else ever have this as an issue, bruising yourself doing kegels??

i bought the helix syn when i discovered that my housesitting gig was extended somewhat indefinitely. there was no internet unless i used my phone which makes internet hella expensive, so, first thing i did when the gig was extended was i bought the device and that was most of the internet for me.

no internet is magical. and freed up time for experimentation.

but yeah, do your kegels, or so they say. can kegels wreck your ass?

anyway, lots of play with the thing, for the duration of my gig, another 7 weeks.
and now back around people and can’t play with the thing for awhile because walls are thin, but, kegels. Read more »

So Close

Last night I was starting out on my side and was getting a delicious sensation about midway of the north south excursion.
As I inhaled it would pass over and then stop, causing abdominal shuddering while I held my breath. Then as I exhaled, I could feel it ride over the same spot.
So I tried holding my ‘push’ and ‘pull’ at the magic point.
I got it locked on for a bit and experienced a rapidly expanding sort of numbing buzzing sensation throughout my torso.
Unfortunately, it was over in about 8 or 10 seconds.
Never could get back to it.

Alas, new thing = progress!

Press on.

“Edging” while wearing my BIKE CUP in bed overnight, July 27

Hi guys,

Last night I went to bed at 11 p.m. jocked and cupped, feeling really horny. I wore my trusty BIKE CUP Supporter Unit and slept on my side with a pillow between my legs in bed. Almost at once, it felt like an ejaculation coming on, but I staved it off. These extremely sexual feeling however lulled me to a deep sleep. After all, I had a very long day, exhausted with only just three hours sleep the night before.

All night long I diddled and strummed my nipples. Since I am now rewired or rather I am hardwired in the direct connection I have with my nipples and genitals, I felt pleasure traveling traveling directly from my diddled nipples right to my genitals, e.g. testicles, perineum, prostate, cock root, shaft of my penis, and Glans. However, as I diddled and strummed my nipples so sweetly and deftly, every flick of my finger over my nipples was reflected in surges of pleasure in my prostate, or even various areas of that organ. It also seemed that my prostate was shadowing every move as I diddled! I was in such sweet dalliance, edging in the woods, so close to the PONR. I was also Kegeling and breathing gently and rhythmically.

But I have a question for @goldenboy. Can I milk my prostate in that fashion? Take care!

Aneros auto-fucking and Super-O’s : Session for Wednesday July 11

Hi guys,

Since July 4 last week, I have had several sessions that were so powerful and pleasurable that are hard to explain.

So after my session this morning, I will try to explain some of my recent Aneros and Aless experiences.

This morning I had a session which lasted a good 1.25 hours with Maximus, MGX, and Progasm Classic.

Maximus has joined MGX and Helix Classic as Aneros models which start most of my sessions. I have worked with Maximus fairly intimately since July 2012. My first several sessions were abortive because anal peristalsis ejected Maximus. But shortly thereafter the Kegel Exercises developed my anal musculature to contain and better work with Maximus and my larger Progasm models.

I think I have developed techniques to produce for myself Super-O’s and MMO’s with both Maximus and Progasm. Relaxation is key but also enjoyment of my sessions lay the foundation. Having fun and even playing are also keys to relaxation and Aneros enjoyment. “Having fun” and “playing” have sexual undertones. All this have formed my attitudes with which I have approached all my sessions since 2015, even before. Read more »

Here’s how I get to my reliable super-O.

Hey everyone, first time poster. Three year user, own a Helix, a Progasm and my favorite, the Eupho Trident. The below technique works with all three. Happy to explain further if anyone would like! I was unemployed for a month and got to really practice and refine this. (Also, I find that saying words out loud arouses me, so I’ve written this in first person if anyone wants to read aloud and ride the power of suggestion; nothing gets me closer than saying “my ass is gonna cum” out loud [optionally on the phone with another person who wants to hear me cum].)

My technique:
I get completely naked. I lube up and slowly slide it into myself. I’m not surprised when the last inch or so seems to have a mind of its own, the toy knows where it’s going. It’s very well engineered. The head of it is near my prostate, but not pressing aggressively. That’s good. (If you feel any pain from entry, breathe here until you don’t.)

My next goal is to lie flat on my back and relax so hard that I can feel my heartbeat, very gently, in my chest. When I say relax, I mean specifically to release tension. Tension is the opposite of pleasure; it’s a survival instinct. (Do whatever you need to do to make this experience calm, and whatever you can do to make you feel safe getting loud. I find tensing and releasing tight muscle groups helps with this, as does telling myself out loud to relax deeper, deeper, deeper. You may have your own technique for this, I say whatever works. You do you.) Read more »

4 Days of constant pleasure!

It has been over three months since my last blog post. I have not had any news to write about until recently. I work a weekday job with a long commute. I typically work out after work and by the time I get home, eat dinner and take care of things around the house I did not really have the time or energy for a productive aneros session. If I did try a session, I would just get really relaxed and fall asleep. So, lately I have been doing one session per week on the weekend. I have been thinking that that may not be often enough to see much progress. My weekend sessions have been pleasant. I always enjoy the sensations, and usually have some nice p-waves but nothing orgasmic. I would typically insert the Helix, relax and breathe deeply for a few minutes and then do some contractions. I have a vibrator that I have used with my lady-friend a few times and one afternoon about an hour into a session I got the idea to get the vibrator out and touch it to the p-tab and handle of the Helix. I found this to be quite pleasant and stimulating.
This came to be my routine. The first hour of a session would be deep breathing and contractions, and then another hour using the vibrator in conjunction with the Helix. Each time I did this, I would get more sensation and pleasure than the time before. I have been abstaining from regular masturbation in order to increase arousal during aneros session, and I would typically finish a session with a traditional orgasm including the Helix with the vibrator buzzing it. The Super-Ts when I do this are easily twice as intense and twice as long in duration as a typical orgasm. I certainly had no complaints about that.
The weekend before last – Sunday June 17, I was having the most numerous and pronounced p-waves yet, and the Super-T was extra Super as well. The middle of the next week – Wed June 20 I was thinking about my previous session and anticipating my next session and I decided to skip my workout and just go straight home and have a session. Whenever I would think about this I would get a partial erection in anticipation. My Wednesday evening session was every bit as good as the last one had been, and I decided not to finish off with a traditional orgasm Super-T to save my arousal for the weekend.
Friday afternoon I was aroused thinking about the weekend. I came up with the idea to put the vibrator inside the round part of the Helix handle and duct tape it in place rather than touch it to the p-tab. In order to keep the vibrator in place I had to lay on my stomach with my penis between two pillows. This proved to be the best idea I have had yet. I spent the better part of an hour in p-wave heaven and had at least 3 or 4 mini orgasms.
Saturday morning I woke up and went to use the bathroom and after I finished peeing I could feel a p-wave start to build and I had a mini orgasm standing in front of the toilet, with precum covering my penis glans. Amazed, I went back to bed smiling, and immediately felt a warm glow radiating from my pelvis. A few minutes later I had another orgasm, this one stronger than the one at the toilet.
All weekend I was experiencing mild to moderate pleasure in my groin. I had another session Sunday with even better results, just basking in pleasure waves from the Helix and vibrator. I have had pleasurable sensation radiating from my prostate ever since Friday – 4 days in a row now. I would dare say my purchase of the Helix may be the best 60 dollars I ever spent 
I know that some have said that vibrators do not work for them because they numb the prostate. For me there is some truth to this if the vibration is a constant static buzz, but any alternating pattern I have found to be fantastic. So overall I will say that I am very pleased (ecstatic in fact) with my experience with aneros, but my progress has certainly not been linear. It has taken me 4 ½ months to reach this point, and I have felt some mild frustration at times. But I just wanted to tell my story and offer encouragement to others. If you aren’t where you want to be, don’t give up. Keep reading the blogs and forum and try different things, and you may very well find the key to a new kind of pleasure. Read more »

Aneros equilibrium, Aneros resonance, Aneros fishing, etc. : Session for Saturday June 9

Hi guys,

I had a thoroughly enjoyable session with my favorite Aneros models : Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus and Progasm ICE.

For many months recently, I have tried to find out why my sessions have felt so good. I have settled upon some description Aneros terms:

“Aneros foreplay”: Like @goldenboy, I enjoy wearing a jock and cup to bed most nights. Not only does this combination feel so good, but a jock and cup is so consoling. Like a pacifier, they enable me to fall asleep like a baby. When I wake up in the still of night, I like to Kegel in my jock and cup and diddle my nipples. It is so sweet and it constitutes hours of leisurely foreplay. When I wake up in the morning, I am horned, rearing to go with a session.

Last night, I wore a Nutty Buddy Cup in the pouch of an ordinary BIKE jockstrap and over a pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch boxer briefs. My Nutty Buddy Cup “floats” in this combination.

Here is a pic of MLB great, Mark Littell, creator of the Nutty Buddy. I hope you do not mind the kinkiness of this pic! 🙂

www.nuttybuddy.com/

I cannot stress though how the Kegel Exercises, diddling your nipples, and relaxed rhythmic breathing act as rocket fuel in your “Aneros foreplay”. Read more »

Kegels and Reverse Kegels

In the last few weeks I have been trying something new: alternating kegels and reverse kegels. I had never heard of reverse kegels until reading the forum posts. Reverse kegels are done by relaxing or almost stretching the PC muscles. I get the sensation that the pelvic region is “yawning” and enlarging during a reverse kegel. I have used this technique mostly during A-less sessions and the results have been excellent.

I begin with a moderate kegel contraction (approximately 30 to 40%) and hold for several seconds. I don’t time the contraction. I usually wait until I feel a slight quiver or pulse in the muscles or prostate. Then I do the reverse kegel. I often feel the quiver or pulse strengthen a bit. All of this is done slowly while breathing deeply and relaxing as much as possible. After several minutes of this alternation I usually feel a series of mini-Os and occasionally some stronger dry-Os. Once (several days ago) it led to one of the biggest Super-Os I’ve ever experienced. I had full body tingling and shaking. I could feel the distinct build up of a new wave as the previous one was subsiding. If I counted accurately there were three huge waves and two smaller ones before I was finished. I haven’t tried this technique since then. As each session is unique it would be foolish to expect an exact repeat of the previous one. I’m satisfied to be on an interesting journey and appreciative of whatever comes my way.

Very very slow progress sure beats no progress

If you’re not having progress with your Aneros, so long as it isn’t hurting, do keep giving it a go from time to time. There’s a comment in the sidebar that “some guys have spent years getting there”; take that literally.

I suspect I got my Aneros back in 2005, give or take a year. I bought it at the point believing there was only one model and was surprised to receive one called a MGX – this might help people be able to place it in time. It probably took me several years and a lot of effort and exaggerated clenching to get any sort of reaction, and for the longest time I would try the “lots of deep breathing, fifteen full clenches then hold it quarter-way” routine. I might get one pleasant sensation, though not always, then that would be it in terms of anything pleasurable for the session. I would keep trying and trying and get nothing further. There were two occasions, years apart, where I clenched so much that for several (5? 7?) days afterwards I felt like I had bruised myself internally and felt like I was buzzing inside, in a not-at-all pleasant way, to the point where sitting down was uncomfortable. Ever since then I’ve taken it more easily. Read more »

A major Aneros discovery this morning! May 10 session

Recent happenings:

What I wrote on Saturday April 28.

“I am now in day 22 of my second SR challenge. A couple days ago in the early hours of Thursday morning. I may have experienced a wet dream. The most wonderful thing about semen retention. which could be part of the discipline of chastity or even sexual continence, is for experienced Anerosers that it increases most delicious sensations in a guy’s anal tract, even his seminal tract.

“That is what I felt early Thursday morning. I felt like I was going shoot cum! I was certainly in the vicinity of the PONR summit on the mount of sexual arousal. It felt so good! In fact, that is what I feel in a most luminous, electric Aless right now, a good five hours when this morning’s session concluded. However, getting back to Thursday, I don’t think I had an ejaculatory orgasm in my wet dream because I would have discovered a copious pool of semen.

“For this morning’s session, I used in sequence the following Aneros tools: Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, Maximus and Progasm Classic. I think the session lasted at least one hour, perhaps more. It was definitely a good session because that is when I feel when I had a really good fuck session!”

It is really good to masturbate once in a while now! What happened morning at sunrise on May 2. Read more »