Tag: Breathing

Question about first session

Hi everyone. I bought my first prostate massager today and tried it out a a little while ago. I didn’t notice anything for a while, so eventually I just relaxed and focused on my breathing, pulling it in on the in breath and relaxing on the out breath.

Eventually I started to get erect, the sensation got more intense, and my contractions got stronger involuntarily. It got to the point where I was moaning and shaking uncontrollably, but the sensation would then die down pretty quickly. I then relaxed and started over, and this happened a few times.

What frustrated me, though, was that this wasn’t exactly pleasurable. It felt like I was on the verge of an orgasm, but didn’t quite make it. Is this normal? Does the fact that I had masturbated a few hours earlier have something to do with this?

I got close!

I’ve been using aneros (helix syn trident) on and off for almost two years. Been making slow but steady progress, and yesterday I got closer than I ever have before to what I think could’ve became the start of a super o.

I found that the do nothing method works best for me. But not only did I just “no nothing”, I also did 3 steps which are what got me close.

1. Physically relaxing as much as possible.

2. Mentally relaxing as much as possible. This was the game changer and involved me actively clearing my mind and removing all intent and thoughts. (This was also the hardest step because I am normally kinda scatterbrained).

3. Steady breathing. The only thing I actualy focused on was keeping a rhythm of deep steady breaths.

By sticking to those three steps, I started to feel stronger sensations and after a short time my heart started POUNDING and I could feel the blood pounding acorss my whole body and it did not stop until the session ended. While that was happening I started to feel like the world was unstable or shaking and I even saw bursts of color coming out of my pelvic area at one point, like fireworks (I’ve heard people describe this as accompanying a prostate orgasm but had never experienced it before). My body (arms and legs) also started to quiver and shake a little. Read more »

Any porn addicts here?

Prefacing this by saying I do not judge those who use porn in anyway. I’m a recovering porn addict of 20 years. Never got to the point where I had PIED or escalation to seriously taboo or illegal content but definite impact to my ability to become aroused outside the bedroom (i.e. by myself). I’ve been pornfree for nearly 6 months and before my last relapse in June I was porn free for 2 months. So 2022 has been a good recovery year and the one that I think will serve as the foundation for long term permanent porn abstinence.

Anyway, I’ve been using the aneros off and on for the past four years. I can count on one hand the number of times I feel like I’ve gotten even remotely close to a super on and two of those times has been in the last month. So I have a renewed interest in practicing this but obviously so many years of penile-focused ejaculatory orgasms to porn has made it very difficult to tap into innate arousal and experience a lot of success. My routine is usually to put my device in and do nothing for about 20 min other than deep breath and focus on lowering heart rate. I’ll then do some light contractions and try and differentiate between my different muscle groups. Lately I’ve been trying not to rely on any mental fantasy but it’s usually required to get me started with some involuntaries. At that point I’ll stop fantasizing and try and focus only on sensation and let my body do the rest. This is where I’ve had the most success and experience what I think are p-waves. But eventually I lose control of my breathing or try and maintain the right level of muscle contractions and lose everything. Eventually my involuntaries start to feel kind of one-dimensional I.e. I feel them only in one muscle group, usually my rectum and it will take me a awhile to get back to where I was. Read more »

Nearly there – non-sexual imagery

Renewed interest in my aneros after many months of it sitting in my closet. I got close this past Monday after reading the quick and dirty method post. I tried again today and got even closer. Liberator pillow under my pelvis, legs up with feet flat on either side. Almost immediately I got involuntaries but that kinda set my expectations high and led to some frustration after I tried repeatedly to visualize something sexual to arouse me. Tried a couple different positions but then ended up back how I started, and focused on feeling rather than imagery. My pelvic area began to convulse involuntarily and then I started imagining something non-sexual: a cup overflowing, fireworks, a balloon being blown up. This seemed to enhance things and let me focus on maintaining my breathing. I then imagined something sexual and that got me closer than I’ve ever been. I could feel I was just on the verge of reaching the point of no return and moments away from full body waves. But then my fucking hip started cramping up and that kind of ruined things for me. Did some stretching then went at it again. Got to that same point but I just couldn’t control my breathing in a way that wasn’t super distracting! I feel this is my biggest hurdle next to my mental focus. It was a good session nonetheless and has encouraged me to keep at it.

Another good day

Today another great session with Aneros. Slowly understanding my body more it’s been a beautiful journey so far. I have tried different positions with success but today I was on my back normally legs bent. Today put feet up on sofa, this must push my prostate on to Aneros and was so nice stronger feelings. I tried deep breathing and I will say my small p waves turn in to 3 strong wet orgasms. I never had 3 wet ones in a row before. This was good I am left like I need more.

33d Total Abstinence + Eupho Syn Trident/Progasm Jr. = This Post!

No superpowers, and I’m frankly glad it’s over. I feel like there’s a level of meme mysticism built around NNN due to habitual porn-watchers suddenly stopping. At least, I feel like quitting porn early got me through. Maybe I was supposed to do something specific during the challenge besides not nut idk.

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Endpoint was wednesday morning; I started the challenge early to avoid having to wait until midnight of the final day. I didn’t use any porn for these sessions. No weed either. I actually stopped consuming any weed half-way through NNN. No square-assed reason for that, just felt like stopping.

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11/30: Released from the challenge, I finally allowed myself to fixate on sexual fantasies, doing kegels when they’d manifest throughout the day. No orgasms, but quite a few p-waves. Eventually got old. Once afternoon hits, I cleaned, came out w/ towels, laid one down and started fingering. First orgasm after 1mo was a light-yet-deep, very pleasant dry-o from minutes of fingering. Obviously, it’s not the “grand entrance” others would work to after a nut-ban or whatever, but that’s how I wanted to start. 3 followed, each more intense than the last. Once I had enough of that, slid the eupho in, laid down on my back and relaxed.

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3rd timing using my aneros today and it was the best one yet

Today, I decided that it was time to fully dedicate myself to an aneros session. I set the mood a bit and go aroused then laid down on my side to insert initially. The first two times I just stayed on my back the whole time. I then switched to laying on my stomach and elevated my pelvis with a couple pillows. This was when I first started to feel a more intense sensation. I was doing kegels at intermittent intervals and at one point I felt as if my pelvic floor muscles and prostate were kinda doing it without my control. It was extremely pleasurable.
I then switched back to my back where I laid with my legs down and closer together. It felt very tight but I could feel the rubbing against my prostate. I eventually started to move the aneros around a little bit and it was super intense. Me legs started shaking and I was breathing very heavily. I eventually gave in and started stroking my penis and had a very very intense orgasm. Probably not a true prostate orgasm though.
A couple questions anyone that has stuck around to read this whole thing.
1. Is it safe to kinda jiggle the aneros around while inserted? I definitely regret not getting a vibrating one
2. What positions do you have the most success in?
3. Anything I’m doing wrong that you think I should change or give a try?

Thanks!

Second time using, I take back what I said yesterday

What follows is a long meditation and reflection on the orgasm I had this morning. It’s mostly a means for me to analyze what happened and how to steer myself closer to the intended prostate orgasms that come from proper use and habit with the Prograsm. Your feedback, of course, is welcome.

Had plenty of time to myself this morning and I took it for another spin. Relaxed, popped the Progasm in, and tried out a bunch of positions:

1. The classic laying face-down with one leg up
2. Piled some pillows up and lay over them, elevating my pelvis
3. Lay on my back, knees up

I also applied the lube differently this time. Applied to my anus with fingers, but poured a bit into my hand and then lightly cupped it around the Progasm. The result was a nice, thick coating that I’m sure was about to get squeegee’d off by my rectum but I had a thought yesterday that maybe it had a hard time moving around inside of me because it wasn’t slippery enough. I have a hard time reaching in with my fingers, if you get my drift. The dimensions of my body seem to be short arms, long torso, zero flexibility, and I can really only get my middle finger into the sphincter but not much further, hence the dependence on toys.

Position #1 produced an effect but didn’t really feel comfortable. Read more »

First time using, felt nothing but a lump of plastic in my butt

Ordered a Progasm last week and have been beyond excited to get this thing up my ass. I’ve been aware of these Aneros toys for some time and recent experimentation with a curved vibrator convinced me that I needed to try something actually made for hitting my p-spot since I felt like I was getting close but it was difficult to know for sure if I was hitting the spot and found myself twisted into more and more uncomfortable positions in pursuit of the spot. All the reading I did to learn how to hit my prostate suggested that I’d know it when I hit it but no amount of digging around in there (I kid, I was gentle and procedural) hit anything that really stood out to me as OMG RAPTUROUS PLEASURE!!! So the Progasm arrived today and wasn’t out of the box fifteen minutes before I had all my clothes off, the toy lubed and popped comfortably up the back door. As promised, it sits comfortably inside me, and I can definitely feel it up against the spots I was working with the vibrator but still, it simply feels like it’s up there and… well… that’s it. I did some breathing exercises, taking in a deep belly-breath, relaxing, and I could feel the toy slip further upward, which was not an unpleasant sensation, but again, not, ya know, good. I’m trying (and obviously failing miserably) to come at this without expectation, but an expectation of at least *some* sort of sensation isn’t too much to ask, I think. Read more »

Got my Aneros Tempo

After reading the info here and my request for experiences here.
Thanks guys for sharing !
Yesterday on way home by train….had a stop at Amsterdam CS….walked to the Red Light District to visit a erotic shop where to find the luxury brands toys.
The last Aneros Tempo available was for me.

At 10 pm went to bed to sleep but couldn’t resist the craving to pull this toy inside me.
This small toy slipped inside without lube…while my muscles sucked the Tempo inside on the right spot.

Soon my dick lost drips of precum and the sensation felt good…my prostate felt happy and a bit numb.
Tried different positions….but the best way for me is on my side with legs bent to my body….with slow deep breathing i felt the Tempo humping my pleasure spot.
I really got a hard dick since years…but no orgasm yet.

I felt asleep and awake with the Tempo still inside.
Wondering if i could wear this the whole day….the small base of the Tempo was locked between my buttcheeks.
Walking around in the house i felt the metal touching my prostate.
It would stay inside me because of the shape…but wearing this the whole day makes me aroused.

And walking in public with precum spots on my denim trousers is not really fashionable yet.