Tag: Concentration

Progress, maybe?

Hi there!

A few months ago, I bought myself a Progasm Jr. I haven’t had much success with it so far, just mild anal pleasure. That said, I kept trying in the hopes that my body would eventually get used to it, taking from the accounts of people on this sub and other websites. Here and there, I read that refraining yourself from masturbating the usual way for a few days would make you more sensitive to pleasure in other parts of your body.

So I gradually started to space out my masturbation sessions for longer and longer periods of time, and when I felt like I wanted to jerk off, I made sure to always plug in my Progasm Jr, and only ever use my hands when the frustration really got to me. Eventually my toy began to move on its own while I was watching porn and I did start feeling some other kind of pleasure from that, but nothing too substantial. However, something different happened today.

As I usually do before any session, I went to the bathroom to empty my bladder. It would seem, however, that I did a poor job, as I felt the urge to pee half an hour in. I didn’t want to end my session that early, so I pushed on despite the risks, and I began experimenting with that feeling. I tried to concentrate on the area where the urge to pee was coming from, and little by little, I switched focus to a spot right under it that felt really good. Read more »

Decreasing my porn consumption may be helping significantly?

I have been practicing with aneros for four years now, but never what I would call a Super-O. Many sessions where the sensations have been better than ever before, though. I own the Helix Syn, Eupho, and Progasm.

After reading enough posts about the distraction it causes, I’ve decided to begin cutting porn out. This is the end of my second two-week hiatus from it, and recently every other session has started feeling leaps and bounds better than it ever has before.

Porn is still present to some degree in my sessions–I usually warm up with it, and listen to some audio porn during, but that’s now the only time I consume porn, and I hope to continue decreasing this in the coming months.

Tonight, I started to feel the sensations begin to spread from my pelvis outward, for the first time ever, but my concentration was already collapsing, and it was over in a flash.

The session before last, I experienced pleasant tingling and aching in my penis and prostate, which was another first for me.

As amazing as the sessions have started becoming, I’m still learning to strike the balance between “relaxed” and “focused.” I hope I’ll be blessed with continued success, and that you all will be, too!

I couldn’t continue

Hi again. These last days I’ve had several sessions with my aneros and I have enjoyed each of them more than the previous one. It seems that my new toy is about to arrive. I was supposed to have it next week, but it seems that I will have it today or tomorrow, so i’m really looking forward to playing with it. That being said, let’s begin.

Last night I followed my usual routine. I had a shower, cleaned my insides and headed to my bedroom. I put some towels on my bed and lubed the toy. I slid it in and I decided to start with the doggie position, as I wanted to give it another try. I really didn’t feel a thing, but I was comfortable. However, I decided to get on my usual position a few minutes later.

Once I laid on my back and had my knees bent, I started to take deep breaths in order to relax myself. I must also say that this time I put a towel under my hips. I’m glad I did it, my aneros was able to move more freely thanks to this and it really improved my session. After feeling relaxed, I started to percieve my prostate, as the aneros was pressing against it. It was not a strong sensation, but my legs started shaking some seconds later. I also started stimulating my nipples and I focused on my breathing, I was feeling great. Read more »

Think I experienced Pwaves, but cant get further

Had a 3 hour session with the helix last night, where i went from ‘do nothing’ to gentle contractions, occasionally stoking my nipples & smoking weed.

if i really concentrate, i get into a mode where my heartbeat gets fast and so does my breathing. it feels like it’s building to something, but i cant really get over the edge.

Has anyone experienced this and have some tips to share? is this actually a p-wave?

i got about 5 build-ups in the space of 3 hours. they felt really good!!

Moving forward

It seems that posting my experiences has become a habit. I have to tell you that this last week has been incredible regarding the progress I have done. I still have a lot to improve, but I’m moving forward. Before starting to tell you what happened during yesterday’s session, let me explain myself. As I have been doing a session almost everyday during this week and the amount of new sensations I have discovered is huge, my story won’t be as accurate as I would like it to be. It is possible that I mix information from other sessions or change the order the events really happened. Anyways, all that I’m about to tell you happened.

So, yesterday, I decided to try my prostate vibrator again, as my prostate had become more sensitive during the previous sessions. I have to say that I was looking forward to having a session, as I had some nipple play in the afternoon and I has able to have a dry orgasm for the first time (it seems that my mind didn’t let my body ejaculate in order to be fully prepared for the night). That said, I took a long shower, cleaned myself up, relaxed, put some towels on my bed, lay down, face up, knees up, feet flat, and I started. Read more »

What’s with tucking your cock and balls between your legs?

I do enjoy watching videos of people using Aneros, particularly to the point of HFWO, and several seem to like tucking their cock (quite often with erections) and balls between their legs. I’ve tried this myself and find it feels quite painful, or at the very least, sufficently distracting to the point where I can’t concentrate on sexier matters or on enjoying the ride. Tips in this regard to help this sensation be part of the fun, rather than very off-putting, would be very welcome and quite possibly sexy AF.

Super O with Progasm

This was only my second Super O after 4 months since the first one. Took me about 45 minutes. I usually get a lot of involuntaries that turn into mini O’s. This time I was concentrating on not giving in to the involuntaries so that the pleasure would build up and turn into a Super O. Well it worked and at least 3 times with a short resting period in between. I was shaking like a leaf after the third one.

I was moving the toy with my pc muscles and the Progasm was hitting on exactly the right spot until I reached orgasm. I got rock hard each time which I don’t usually get from p play and they were all dry.

I’ve been having more sessions than usual this week, maybe this has something to do with it.

Although I was having sort of a dry spell the last four months I never felt frustrated and just enjoyed the mini O’s I was getting and it was well worth the wait. I think that there’s no guarantee of reaching a Super O every session and that it’s important to enjoy whatever you get in a given session.

What was that?

Ok, so I’m slowly on my journey of awakening, with good progress in each session. During the last session, pleasure built up to a new high. I got to a place where I had the very real sensation that my legs and hips were swaying side-to-side as if I was lying sideways on the shore of a wave pool, each crashing wave, and each withdrawing wave moving my entire lower body by many feet in either direction.
I haven’t read this described in other posts, but I’m curious if anyone else has experienced the same.
I don’t think I have experienced any p-waves yet,(unless that was it,) but I was amazed that it continued for several minutes since I seem to lose any increasing pleasure anytime I get a new sensation. This time, however, my realization of this new sensation didn’t stop upon my realizing it was there, even though it did break my concentration when I realized it was happening.
Eventually, I did lose forward progress, but it blew my mind that this sensation occurred, and this has really opened my mind that prostate pleasure is on a whole other level of experience than I had imagined would be possible.
Can’t wait for a chance to have another session!

Nipple awakening and a wall…

I have been experimenting with alternative orgasms for about two years now. It started with wanting to cum from anal, then learning and experimenting with aneros toys (and my purewand) trying to achieve higher levels of orgasm for longer periods and multiple times per session. I have amazing feelings, up to and including what I would consider multiple prostate orgasms (not what I would consider super-Os). Along with continuing success in both those realms I discovered the joys of masturbating with my nipples to (originally) enhance the prostate experience, but more and more I find myself having sessions where I don’t even grab any toys and focus only on my nipples.

I have fantastic feelings from toying with my nips, achieving multiple (2-3) non-ejaculatory orgasms that are accompanied by torrents of precum. The feelings I get are super pleasurable, and I enjoy them for enjoyments sake, but want to break through the barrier to having ejaculatory orgasms through nipples only as a way to happily end my sessions. I seem to get tense as I am peaking which causes my fingers to lose fine control and either the loss of rhythm, loss of concentration, or just trying too hard gets in the way of going over the edge.

I want to see whats on the other side! Anyone have any advice on pushing through the wall to actually cumming from nipple stimulation alone?? Also open to just hearing others experiences with nipple stimulation to motivate myself and others to keep on playin!

“Dissociation”

I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.

I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.

Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.

Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices. Read more »