Tag: Dry Orgasm

Nipple Orgasmic

Just before Christmas, I had a full body orgasm riding my partner. It never happened before or since. I felt over the moon that night. Even though he was also exhilarated with the result, he hasn’t shown much interest in fucking me regularly. He doesn’t usually like topping and I am not planning to cheat. When I top, I enjoy sex a lot but I am also a much more sexual person than he is. So I decided that I want a to explore the possibility of a receptive orgasm through intercourse using another solution. Over Christmas, I purchased a real powerful fucking machine to test my limits and find out if I could orgasm again from the stimulation alone. I couldn’t reach the same level of pleasure and felt guilty about using it, so in the end I got rid of it. But it was an experience in itself that I can share in another post.

After Christmas, my schedule really intensified. In order to maintain a clear head in this busy period, I masturbated every morning before work. It kept my fantasies and my Aneros at bay. I simply didn’t have time for it. My partner also worked short days and was mostly at home, which prevented me having a session on my days off. I was no longer travelling for work due to Covid, so couldn’t take an Aneros with me for a night away. We had sex occasionally, and it was great, but I still wanted to keep my options open on Aneros. My only option was massaging my nipples quietly in bed at night and I was getting more and more out of it. Read more »

The elusive Aless orgasm

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience. Read more »

Moving forward

It seems that posting my experiences has become a habit. I have to tell you that this last week has been incredible regarding the progress I have done. I still have a lot to improve, but I’m moving forward. Before starting to tell you what happened during yesterday’s session, let me explain myself. As I have been doing a session almost everyday during this week and the amount of new sensations I have discovered is huge, my story won’t be as accurate as I would like it to be. It is possible that I mix information from other sessions or change the order the events really happened. Anyways, all that I’m about to tell you happened.

So, yesterday, I decided to try my prostate vibrator again, as my prostate had become more sensitive during the previous sessions. I have to say that I was looking forward to having a session, as I had some nipple play in the afternoon and I has able to have a dry orgasm for the first time (it seems that my mind didn’t let my body ejaculate in order to be fully prepared for the night). That said, I took a long shower, cleaned myself up, relaxed, put some towels on my bed, lay down, face up, knees up, feet flat, and I started. Read more »

Just did something new.

Disclaimer: i have not achieved super o, only a few small dry os.

So I was jerking off, about halfway through, and I wqs feeling a little different. I was feeling a little bit like I do during an aneros session, a little call to relax. So I did.

Normally with a traditional orgasm a la the hand, you actively get yourself “worked up”, “excited”, and tense until you climax release.

I instead took the methods I use during an aneros session and used them while jerking off. I actively relaxed as much as I could, kept jerking, and relaxed my mental state and got to that sort of drifting meditative feeling you get during a session when you also a little “high” or lightheaded. I kept jerking off, but I also almost completely forgot about my dick, I just let my hand keep going and relaxed my body and mind.

Then I just relaxed more and more, sought after and allowed myself to drift in the lightheadedness. I paid some attention to my prostate and it kinda felt like my prostate was very much swelling and filling my body.

Then I came. The seamen / fluid was normal, regular fluid, not just prostate fluid, and the refractory period afterward was normal, but it *felt* different.

I can only describe it as a prostate-cenrered traditional orgasm. I forgot about my dick, drifted in mental peace like an aneros session, and came while mentally relaxed instead of a tensing and release, though there were contractions as normal. Read more »

Making progress

Hi again. If you have read my previous posts, you know that I am trying to achieve a prostate orgasm, let me tell you how things are going.

Yesterday I decided to have another session making use of my prostate vibrator. My mind is starting to change, as I don’t look for a wet orgasm anymore, I’m focused on achieving a dry one during my sessions. In the afternoon, I had some nipple play that almost made me cum, but I prevented myself from doing so, as I wanted to be 100% for the night. I haven’t had penile stimulation for a week, I only had a hands free wet orgasm (HFWO) some days ago, so I was horny as fuck.

In order to prepare myself, I followed my new routine. I had a shower, cleaned my insides and relaxed. I went to my bedroom, put some towels on my bed and I lay on it, face up, kness up, feet flat. I was ready to start my session. I lubed the prostate massager and slided it in. I took it out and I slided it in again. I tried to relax for a few minutes while I was feeling my ass “filled” with my toy. Once I was more relaxed, I switched it on. This time, I looked for a pattern that would make me feel comfortable. I finally found one, it was as yesterday’s, my toy buzzed, but, after buzzing, I felt 2 beats. So, it was it, my toy started to buzz and hit my ass until it moved and pressed against my prostate. I tried to relax even more and enjoy the sensations. Read more »

New Decade

For me, after several months of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey, I have almost stopped having them.

Then, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights in the last seven days. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »

Cheat Codes

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have combined my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity, I wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Read more »

Levels

One of the times where I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle).

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

Last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance.

It is hard to define this well as I haven’t had a session for a while sadly. At the time of having these I came up with more complex, more beautiful definitions.

Levels 1-12 is my ultimate session, happens every 5 sessions or so. Sometimes requires help (weed). Not always. I only have a session about once a month. So it is rare. Most often I go 1-4. Sometimes 1-8. Read more »

Recap

I have been an avid user of Aneros toys and playing with my prostate for several years now. It started independently of my relationship with my partner, which runs in parallel. Our sex life is amazing and mind-blowing, if a tad ‘traditional’. We have been together since we have been very young and never looked back. We share an intimate romantic bond and have long almost tantric body-to-body sex sessions. I usually top, but we can both be versatile. I was always a more sexual person than he is and is constantly looking to enhance our experience without cheating. But he is rarely interested in anything else. I suppose I am happy with this, but always wanted to personally go beyond ‘nomal’ sex.

Even as a kid I knew something is ‘up there’ and would sometimes have dreams of some sort of anal pleasure, without understanding it. Now that I think about it, I find it almost unbelievable. I just didn’t know what to do with it. I wonder if anyone else was the same?

As a teenager, I was an eager participant in a variety of forums and keenly tried out all forms of masturbation and play before stumbling upon prostate play and the Aneros forum. But my first solo experiences were hardly a success. I tried using a pen or screwdriver handle to simulate sex. I should say that before serious prostate play, anal sex was fun but not as pleasant physically as it is now. Read more »

Making good progress

These past 2 weeks I’ve picked up my helix trident after a few weeks off. It took a few sessions to get back into the swing of things, but in my last session I had a new sensation.

Since I came back to my helix trident, I have been using the “do nothing” approach as much as possible. In my last session I was listening to Shibby’s files and found myself reaching the end of the file.

During this part she was basically telling the listener “if there was a time to climax, it would be now.” At this point I felt my body give in to Shibby’s instructions and I began to feel this sensation starting in my limbs. It was half way between pins and needles, and a vibrating feeling. It felt really strange but I went with it anyway, this feeling spread throughout my whole body and eventually I relaxed so much to the point where I literally couldn’t produce a single thought during this moment and my body was just on autopilot whilst floating in this state.

This lasted 1-2 minutes and was amazing, however I knew that I could have done more in the moment regarding contractions. But I didn’t wanna ruin it by going overboard so I just let it play out.

I’ve heard people describe a dry orgasm and what I felt was similar but different, I didn’t feel like I was cumming but at the same time it was different from my regular p waves. Read more »