I’m struck – they made it! Blog section is back and workin’? Really? Don’t dare to believe it! Congrats, Folks!

Hey, you find me speechless, just writing a comment on the forum, I wanted to test whether this forum isn’t still working, BUT IT IS WORKING! Hallelujah!
Well, after a fantastic lazy morning in bed, practicing the Clench & Hold breathing technique from “Urban Tantra” by Barbara Carrellas, one of the books that made my journey, I’ve already been soaked in precum and had some wonderful dry orgasms later. Then I continued my tease and denial weekend – ooh, sudden blue balls feeling here – edging from time to time until one to three drops of white seminal fluid appear on my piss slit, then stopping any teasing, washing my member and having breakfeast or doing some clean up. On Saturday I have had five ruined orgasms of that kind and today already three, by rights six, because during the last one quite dangerous edging session I made it to three ruined orgasms forming a series.
My horniness seems to be out of earth and my balls feel filled to the brim, heavy from their big load and sometimes ache a bit, but my extreme arousal is worth every little pain, that like just now increases my horniness even more.
As posted lateley, bro’s, keep on this side of the edge, stay horny at home and take care!
Congrats to the staff again, finally we have our blog section back, thanks a ton!
Mart

Multi-Orgasmic Bliss

I would like to share my Aneros journey so far. I’m 49 and since I was a teenager I have masturbated regularly. During my life I have tried many techniques and sex toys and I have even made my own toys. About 12 years ago I discovered the world of erotic hypnosis and I became more or less hooked on it. I developed the ability to have hands free ejaculatory orgasms almost every session. It’s all about arousal and relaxation of your body and mind at the same time.

I read about male multiple orgasms and I really wanted to experience that too. I started blocking ejaculations but the constant edging and cooling down was too hard for me. I came too easy and I could not separate the orgasm from the ejaculation. About four years ago I got interested in prostate orgasms instead. I came across Aneros and I ordered a Helix Syn. I liked the feeling of having the Helix inside of me and it felt good to do the contraction excercises and massage the prostate. However, when finishing myself off, the pressure on my prostate was too much and the ejaculatory orgasm was even a little uncomfortable. I eventually lost my interest because I had no success of ever being close to a prostate orgasm and my Helix was left in the wardrobe for more than three years until this week.

Multi-Orgasmic Bliss – Part II

My Progasm Jr. arrived a few days ago. I really love the design of it and the shiny black color and I enjoy the full feeling of it in my anus. I have not experienced the K-tab before and it definitely gives an extra sensation up my spine. Now there are sensations in four different areas at the same time: the prostate, the anus, the perineum and the end of the spine.

The Progasm Jr. puts at more distinct pressure on my prostate than the Helix. My arousal easily increases until orgasmic level and the Progasm Jr. moves nicely in rhythm with my contractions. I get very long-lasting dry orgasms when the Progasm Jr. autofucks me! I read somewhere that we think of an orgasm as a point in time, something that happens to you. Instead, you need to think of orgasm as a state of being, in which the sensations can become more or less intense. With the Progasm Jr. I certainly experienced this new state of being.

During my sessions with the Progasm Jr. I rested for a while between the long-lasting orgasms and I let the arousal spread to the whole body without any heavy contractions. I now realize that this could be the way of reaching the Super-O. I feel I’m on the right path but I still have a long way to go.

Newbie waiting for delivery

Having discovered the Aneros revolution and this wonderful supportive forum, I have ordered and am eagerly awaiting a Helix Syn Trident.
In the meantime I’ve been practicing kegals and relaxing, thinking about connections down there. I have to say I read an article on here about having a dry O just by contracting the muscle just above the penis, then contracting the perinea and relax!
This has led to me experiencing small but lovely dry orgasm feelings.
Cant wait to get the Helix inside, having read so many brilliant comments on here, I’m definitely going for the “do nothing, relax and explore the feelings” approach!

Why are my dry orgasms so rare?

I think my blog posts are gone but it doesn’t matter 🙂
I’m 32 year old from Portugal with very little sexual experience (just been with other men occasionally and curious to be with a women but in general much less interested in women).

In super resume I’ve had aneros for 8 years now and I’ve got dry os but very rare, and never got a super o.
Some sessions I had in the last week kinda exemplify what I was able to get with aneros and how I think I have much to evolve.

In general my aneros sessions are pretty uneventful.
They generally take 3-4 hours (I use do nothing), and I can get some background pleasure but it generally don’t evolve much.

It’s extremely common however for me to quickly (especially if I just take a quick look at porn or just sexual images) start having some rhythmic movements of the aneros and my dick, because it’s hard when this happens. There rhythmic pulses are pleasant but I won’t call them pleasurable, because they’re just “nice” and nothing special.
Like I said this is extremely easy to get, but also they do pretty much nothing.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?

Hi Guys,

Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.

From the Aneros WIKI The “do nothing” technique is mostly for the Aneros only. The idea is to dispense with thinking about holding contractions, controlling your breathing, conscious relaxing, or anything else for that matter, in favor of just lying there and letting the pleasure and Aneros do their thing. This technique is probably best after you have at least started feeling pleasure from the Aneros.

I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches.

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part V

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part V

Over the years I have visited and read many information resources which have helped me understand the complex variables associated with prostate orgasms and health, I thought here would be a good place to list some of those resources for the benefit of my fellow Anerosians. In no particular order you might find these worth reading and/or viewing.

Prostate Massage in general :

Prostate 101: The Ins and Outs of Prostate Play! narrated by Forrest Andrews of Aneros.
Prostate Massage 101: Multiple, GIGANTIC, Shaking, Full-Body Orgasms! this link also features a podcast interview with Forrest Andrews of Aneros.
Super-Size Your Orgasm – Podcast with Forrest Andrews
#183 Prostate Toys and Anal Pleasure – With Forrest Andrews Of Aneros
Prostate Health with Dr. John Bergman
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners
The Pleasure Mechanics Handbook on Pleasurable Prostate Massage
Prostate Massage 101: A Guide For Beginners
Anal play for men with Jaiya
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (I): General Advice and Manual Stimultaion
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (II): Probes, Prostate Massagers, and Vibrators
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (III): Dildos and Thrusting
Prostate Massage (I): How I Discovered Prostate Orgasms
Prostate Massage (II): Prostate Orgasms
Bedroom Insider- Prostate Pleasure with Jaiya
12 Things You Might Feel During Prostate Massage (You Won’t Believe Number 10!)
Aneros Tutorials
An Intro To Prostate Massage And Epic P-Spot Orgasms
Things to try when prostate massage isn’t working for you

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I tried to send to new Forum members prior to the switch to the new forum format. Unfortunately, I’m not able to track new members now so I’ll only be able to communicate this information sporadically.
Hi Guys, Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday. Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video formerly available on the Aneros website interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to these two podcasts #9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros & Super Size Your Orgasm, w/ Emily Morse & Forrest Andrews (on sexwithemily.com).

I Can not Have a Dry O…

Hi, this is a throwaway account for obvious reasons.

About 2 or 3 months ago I purchased a Aneros Helix (the white plastic one) and I’ve been trying to explore parts of myself that I have neglected. For the past 3 weeks I’ve been going aless because of convenience and now I’m able to achieve a wet hfo consistently (every session) both aless and with aneros, they are seriously the best orgasms of my life but I want to progress myself to dry orgasms that everyone talks about. If anyone could give me advice or a tip I would deeply appreciate it. I don’t know if this is important or not but hardly every touch my penis sexually anymore, and I have sessions usually every 3-4 days.

Can achieve dry O, but how to reach hands-free ejaculation?

Hi there. Longtime lurker here. 29 years old and have been exploring prostate play for a decade. The first toy I ever bought was a pink vibrating Aneros when I was 19. They don’t even sell the model anymore, but it was far too big for my first toy. A couple years later, I experienced my first and only hands-free wet orgasm to date. I was riding my boyfriend’s dick and suddenly just came hands-free. I started looking into hands-free orgasms at that point and purchased the Aneros helix. I have had dry orgasms on a couple of occasions since then, maybe about 4 times, but I’ve never cum from it. Last night I got really close. My eyes were closed, and I had the most amazing orgasm. I could feel all my muscles contracting and my cock was pulsing. It felt really amazing. The feelings came and went for a couple of minutes, but I never opened my eyes because I didn’t want to be pulled out of my orgasm. Once the feelings died down, I opened my eyes expecting to see multiple loads of cum running down my cock, but there was just a small amount of precum.

I feel like I’m on the track to reach hands-free ejaculation, but I’m not sure what to do. Any tips or suggestions? Should I just keep going? It took me probably an hour to get to the point of dry orgasming and I was pretty tired at that point, but I really want to reach hands-free ejaculation.