Ok let me preface this by saying yes, everyone is different, but a lot of the stuff I read on here just seems like over the top bs.
I’m a straight (bi? Who knows.) guy in his 20s. Don’t drink, do drugs, or smoke weed. I’ve been on and off using the Aneros for about a year or two (live at school) and have more recently been getting amazing results. Started off with the Syn trident before getting the Progasm (which I used in this session) and love both.
In this particular session, I got ready and looked at some porn/fantasized to get me turned on more. Usually I’m already good to go when I tell myself “I’m gonna have a session” because who tf doesn’t get turned on by the idea of being able to cum multiple times in a row w/o actually having to cum? but it helps start the involuntaries before the toy of choice for the night is in. I started off laying on my side but didn’t get far with that and semi-recently transitioned to just laying flat on my back with my legs spread a bit. No “feet flat on the bed” stuff I can’t stand that position. Now normally I just lay there and just clear my mind and enjoy/think about the sensations I’m feeling in my body w/o intentionally doing contractions and I get some nice results. But this time, I decided to try some and ended up having my best session. I contracted and held my pelvic floor muscles (like I’m holding in peeing) just to the point I started to feel really good and did my best to stay in that area. No “I contracted x muscle while holding y muscle in place to get z effect”. This lead to an increase in sensation and I eventually had a HFDO and kept doing this which lead to more and more. No nipple play or anything, just enjoying the moment. After this was all said and done, I masturbated with the toy in and had another great (albeit this time actually cumming) orgasm.