Tag: Involuntaries

Major progress and first taste of prostate orgasm

I’ve been practicing prostate play on and off for about 9 months now and last night I had a breakthrough session. I’m gonna give a shout out to everyone who helped me get this far too.

Usually I edge first for quite a while before I put my toy in, but I feel like that was maybe a crutch to help me identify the pleasure in the start and now I can have a session without it. I had this breakthrough without edging, so I think that’s probably important.

So as strange as it may sound, recently I noticed the feeling of what I call a ‘prostate boner’ haha. When I allow my body to clench lightly, it can feel like my prostate is getting hard for a few seconds, like a little wave of pleasure. I’ve usually either been relaxing entirely after that occurs, or tensing too hard and killing it. I followed my body and allowed myself to tense lightly if it wanted to. Then I would relax a little and then follow my body again to clench lightly.

Often this ‘prostate boner’ (or another pleasure wave in the past, I used to get a more general feeling of pleasure in the pelvis) would cause my heart to suddenly beat really hard and fast and this would be so intense that it would scare me and cause everything to end. This has been coined as ‘terror at the gates’. Read more »

Bucking Like a Bronco..

Not quite, but it feels like it… I’ve recently reached the ability to have some pretty crazy involuntaries that feel great, but I’m not sure if I’ve had any milestone orgasms.

I know it’s different for everyone, but are the dry O and super O something you know when it happens? Any tips for reaching the next level or just continue with the flow that’s giving me the involuntaries.

Do you flex PC with traditional masturbation?

I’ve always wanted to ask this, but I don’t have a close enough relationship to other guys to ask them their favorite masturbation technique.
Since a young age, most often I find myself flexing my PC muscles during masturbation. Do many other guys do this?
This is relevant to the forum because some of the more active (versus passive) techniques seem to involve flexing or maintaining contraction of the PC muscle. I have been making steady progress on my journey and for me, pleasure seems to occur most often with passive techniques. If I try to get my PC muscle involved at all, what I think are involuntaries and pleasurable sensations immediately konk out.
I’m wondering if PC flexion is so closely associated, for me, with traditional orgasm that trying to use the PC during an aneros session messes the process up?

Progressing beyond p waves.

Hi there I’ve been using aneros products for over half a year now and I’m wondering if anyone can give me some advice. Frequently in my sessions I reached a point where I would increase rapidly and arousal and this would build and build and completely involuntary contractions would take over but this would not result in pleasureable waves or any kind of notable building pleasure. It would be more like a massive increase building of arousal. Normally (based off the reccomendations online) I would allow the toy to do its thing without any muscle input from myself.

Now recently the same thing has been happening but now I’ve been able to notice pleasureable feelings down there from what I think and assume is my prostate and this pleasure has built in the same way with involuntary contractions building as well and ends up with me being washed over with gentle pleasureable waves for about 30 seconds. This is very similar to the building of arousal and involuntaries but now it sometimes comes with waves of slight pleasure. These sessions sometimes take me 2 hours of a mixture of doing nothing with the toy inserted or light waves of contractions with the pc and anal muscles.

I’m looking for advice on how to either, increase the speed or frequency at which I can reach these states. Or why sometimes I feel pleasure from this buildup and other times it doesn’t come with any pleasure at all and just an increase in arousal. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation to this? Can anyone give me advice on how to progress. Read more »

What do involuntaries feel like?

I’ve been at this off/on for a few years and I’m trying to understand what I’m looking for. In general, the idea is to squeeze your sphincter/PC muscle together and then slowly let off the PC until you start to feel it.

If I’m trying to hold both at 50% do involuntaries feel like a sudden 100%? Just a flutter around 10%? Is it just the PC muscle or do both contract?

Looking for some clarification on what I’m feeling. Be nice to me…I’m new 😊

I’ve read so much about prostate orgasm for *years* just got my first toy.

Ngl…I ordered a toy thinking it was a vibrating toy (I swear I was reading up for hours; I must’ve been too excited!) and when it came, I realized it was not. A prograsm.

I got kinda disappointed, until I realized how good this specific toy could feel. Based on reviews I read and my own, very limited experience.

Though I’m still…confused? Mini-O’s. Super-O’s. P-waves. Involuntaries. Ebbs and flows. Peaks. Dry and wet. My mind swirls! 😧😖

I have definitely not had an orgasm yet; though I thought I was getting there in the moment. I know this because the sensations felt good…but not as good as a penile orgasm.

I have been at this for only 3 nights. The first night, I was a bit overzealous, looking back on it. I ended up on my floor, grinding hard because it was feeling amazing. I was sweating profusely LOL. At that point, I thought I needed really exaggerated movements to feel good. I realized the next night that just lying on my stomach and contracting my PC muscles over and over again was the actual key.

I think I’ve felt “P-waves” now that I read about them. My ass pulsates and I almost feel these deep vibrations in my groin. It’s frustrating because I keep feeling like it’s finally gonna happen, but I just end up hanging there. Read more »

Achieving the flutter

Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.

I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.

Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….

While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.

However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.

The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.

However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.

Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.

Experienced beginner recap and questions

Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since I’m now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.

Hello everyone,

Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasn’t until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.

For the most part, I’d feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.

The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. I’m a relatively big guy (6’2” and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.

Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun. Read more »

Progress update a year into my journey

First I want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to this subreddit – your experiences and tips have been invaluable in my journey and I finally feel like I made some major progress so I wanted to share with you all since I can’t really share with anyone else.

Bought my first Aneros, Helix Syn, last year during my State’s initial COVID closure in March since I’d be home and finally have time to explore. Hadn’t had a ton of success since then: some involuntaries here and there but nothing I’d describe as pleasurable. That all changed yesterday.

Started off my session as per usual – with a bit of porn, nipple rubbing, took a few hits from my vape pen, the works. I really wasn’t focusing a ton on contractions but rather let my prostate dictate to me what it wanted. In the past Ive definitely been guilty of chasing the feelings, despite having read EVERYTHING to the contrary. There really is a mental shift that has to take place. Not just KNOWING to stop chasing/let it happen but actively forcing yourself to SURRENDER. When I finally got in that headspace I turned off the porn and instead of contracting, releasing, rubbing my nipples, watching porn, etc. I just decided to feel whatever happened in my prostate and to concentrate to extend those feelings as long as possible – regardless of whether those feelings were pleasurable or not. Read more »

First Aneros Experience – Decimated by the Progasm

Last night I had my first experience with an Aneros toy – the Progasm Ice – and was absolutely decimated.

A few months ago I learned about prostate orgasms and impulse bought a vibrating massager on amazon. It was my first time experimenting with anal play and felt great. I experienced involuntary convulsions and light p-waves, but nothing close to an orgasm. The sessions were fun, but after about 45 minutes the vibration would make my prostate numb with over-stimulation.

I learned about Aneros after a few weeks of using it and started to learn more about how to improve technique. A few weeks ago, I tried using the massager without the vibration at all, and relied only on my rectal muscles. I immediately realized that the vibration wasn’t necessary and broke new grounds of pleasure. I’m not sure if I can use definitive terms for what I felt, but it was much more powerful and long lasting than the p-waves and involuntary convulsions I had before. Immediately after that session, I ordered a Helix Syn and Prograsm Ice online.

I’ve never been more excited for something to come in the mail. Since I started prostate play, I’ve been more aware of how horniness manifests in the prostate. The rewiring of my brain was becoming noticeable, and I kept getting the feeling that my prostate was begging for another session. Yesterday I checked my email and saw that the package had been delivered. I immediately got butterflies in my stomach, and my prostate began to swell. I opened up my Helix Syn first and admired its craftsmanship. It was a bit smaller than expected, but I knew from reading on these forums that size doesn’t matter. Read more »