This is actually incredible. I thought I could manipulate the Aneros well after 2 years of use. I am a not a newbie to this, yet I feel like I was doing it wrong the whole time!
People usually just say to move the Aneros use your PC muscle (the same one that bounces your dick) so I did. I isolated the muscle and could hold and move it well.
This would cause the Aneros to move but not much maybe in and out 2-3cm. I was doing the same in my last session but felt like I saw videos of peoples Aneros’ practically fucking them in a in and out motion.
I thought I tried it all. being super relaxed, relax the sphincter muscles and let the toy do the work but I was wrong. Your sphincter muscles can go a level deeper to practically not holding anything in. I realised that your base level of muscle relaxation (so you not thinking about tensing your pc/base muscles) isn’t actually how relaxed they can go but a mere constant flex you do unconsciously to stop shitting and pissing yourself.
So I can’t describe the feeling of what I did but the closest thing is a reverse kegal but a very light one. Then the PC clench. This caused my Aneros to move so much better and it felt much better than what I was doing before.