Tag: Perineum

“A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away….”

[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]

Introduction
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..

Session
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax. Read more »

I’m walking, la la la, I’m walking, and bliss occurs, I’m walking …

This afternoon I leaned forward on my hands positioned on the bathroom sink and focused on my perineum while reading a post of @WhoWouldHaveKnown about focusing on that spot. Standing on one foot I let my other leg sway and be subconsciously steered by some upcoming involuntaries, that caused some nice p-waves. Seemed like my subconsciousness just took the chance to massage my gland that way. Letting go some more consciously uncontrolled movements of my hips, pelvis and legs proved, that my subconsciousness even is an expert with starting a standinggasm this way. Then I’d been executing leg moves like when marching on one spot and the orgasmic state has been continuing. More and more I believe to get insights into the sexual aspects of the dances the indigenous peoples celebrate. After typing this to the forum I started with my marching moves again and could immediately ignite a full body orgasm along with growing to half mast and already shedding a first tear from my right eye. Life has become so wonderful. Oh, yabba dabba doo!
Btw, not sticking to certain motions but letting go induced the silliest motions fully controlled by my subconsciouness and started a very special kind of gymnastics in my bathroom, giving me pure bliss!
Cheers, Mart

Waking up

A tingling in my groin woke me. It was pitch black in the room and I had no idea what time it was.

I was lying on my back, legs together and very quickly, I started to feel waves of pleasure come over me as my prostate came fully awake.

I am now starting to understand the different feelings I get. There is the intense feeling right in my perineum; a diffuse warm feeling in my pelvis; a warm intense glow throughout my body, extending into my head; clamping in my abdomen, sometime gut-wrenching, causing my body to fold in the middle, my abdomen rock hard.

I get all of these now. Every time I find my abdomen starting to tighten up, I use @SOwithoutAneros’s technique to make sure I am not using any contractions and to focus just on the waves coursing through me. Each time, I relax and focus on the energy ball, a new, higher, more intense wave washes over me. Memories of my wife and I making love last Sunday come to me and I remember her fingers battling with my tongue as she came to orgasm herself. The thought pushes new waves over me.

My wife tosses and turns next to me, her movements causing spasms to go through me as the mattress moves.

Time passes and I have no idea how long and I drift between light sleep and beautiful waves of pleasure. Each time I feel myself come back to consciousness, I feel the waves more intense, as though the dipping into semi-sleep has relaxed all my muscles even more, intensifying the feelings. Read more »

“An Interesting Morning!”

Got up very early, about 1 AM and wanting to put myself in chastity. I selected my XO ProCup supporter and it felt so good to put it on. Not soon after, I got the urge for a quick Aneros session. I got the sense that it was time to take SGX for a ride. I lubed it up with SSG and started out. Now this session was not a blockbuster but I felt some rather gentle “nudges” on my prostate. I was quite surprised that this session lasted almost 30 minutes. Not much precum but I felt a “pump” or two.

Retired to my sofa and began to listen to some very soothing “deep forest” tracks which felt so nice. I am always surprised by the pseudo-refractory period I experience following a session and this was no exception. My flaccid cock remained in that state for at least an hour-and-a-half. Eventually, it waked-up and I could feel it beginning to grow beneath the cup.

Toward the end, I began to dwell on the design of the cup and how it protects not only my balls and my cock, but also wraps under my perineum and actually protects my prostate as well. I accidentally dropped a remote control on my unprotected balls last night and was surprised at the level of (brief) pain that yielded. Ouch! Fortunately, it lasted only but a minute then subsided. Read more »

Slow and Steady

Started out with warm, relax, flex, lube as usual. My anus was really enjoying my finger being in there for lubing purposes, so the Peridise went in smoothly. Stayed on my back a little while, doing deep breathing techniques and some gentle anal flexing to get the device into place. Again, it got up to the last bulb, half in and half out of my anus. Decided to keep it there, but did a few more extra gentle contractions while on my back to see if it would go in any further. The movement of the device inside my anus felt good, but it remained in the same position. Was tempted to stay on my back, but rolled onto my right side, as I’ve been having luck with that position lately.

This time with the “do nothing” approach, some slight movements stimulated my scrotum into pulling my testicles much closer to my body, which felt good. Worked on some half-contractions to try and tire my anal muscles out; a poster on the forums mentioned doing this to exhaust the muscles and tricking them into involuntaries. Although I never reached the exhaustion point, the conscious movements felt sweet moving around inside my anus, and there were occasional involuntary spasms that sent shivers through my groin area. These were few and far between, but when they happened, they were nice. Precum was steadily leaking out of the tip of my penis, and the pressure on my prostate wasn’t the same as last session, but it was a little more gradual of a build. Will try to get the Peridise all the way in to the hilt next time, to see if this makes a difference in how it works inside me. Read more »

New Areas

Sunday morning and even after my hot and wild session the night before, I woke up horny and heightened. I spent the morning after my shower doing odd jobs in my underwear just to try and keep cool. But I couldn’t keep my hands off myself and I would pause to run my hands over my ass and abdomen and nipples. I kept getting hard and at one point I took my penis in my hand while standing in the kitchen and imagined a hot babe on her knees in front of me, helping me relieve the pressure.
By last night, I was cranked right up and after an especially elevating shower, got to work with the Helix. I had spent the usual time breathing and self exploration and by insertion time, I was rolling into it! I had some minor shaking sessions and after about 15 minutes, I felt confident enough to give the Progasm a try. Lube up and pop it in. Even though it’s pretty massive, it didn’t take long to start feeling what it was ready to give.
My penis started to get hard and I started some shaking. I put my scrotum between my legs and let go for a few minutes. By then, it was rock hard, so I pulled back my foreskin and started some stroking. Now as I stroked, my hips would thrust back and forth. I stopped stroking when I felt streaks of energy flashing through my shaft, just like when I’m ejaculating during regular masturbation. I started rubbing my hand over the tip of my penis and felt a little pre-cum on my hand. I was so far into it at this point, that I pulled my hand up to my mouth and licked it off and started nursing my fingertips like nipples. Then, as my penis was still hard and stretched out, I started rubbing and pinching my nipples. I grabbed a clothespin off my nightstand and put it on one nipple. The flash of pain was exquisite and I cried out loud as the pain flew to my core, translating to something like a stab in my perineum and scrotum. I pulled the pin and started stroking myself again. With my body arched back like a drawn bow, I ejaculated and felt liquid streaming out of my head. It was clear, and instead of spurting in the air like a normal shot, it flowed in a stream, over my abdomen and thighs, onto the sheets.
I released some tension from my anal muscles and finally the Progasm backed off a little. I kept some tension on, just enough to keep it in and let myself calm down and catch my breath. I decided, that was good enough for the night, and cleaned up both of my friends and went to bed. I could still feel waves rolling up from time to time while laying on my stomach, but I resolved to try and get a good night’s sleep.
That was fine as long as I was awake. About 3 am, I was awakened by shaking and moaning, and realized it was me. Mini-O’s aren’t a bad way to wake up. I toyed briefly with the idea of going further, but I was tired. It was 3:30 by this time, after all!
One of the greatest side benefits of the Aneros, is that I’m waking up with a raging erection every morning! Good morning!

Physical Chastity – My First Experiences

Hi Folks,

all the reports about chastity cups, mental chastity and semen retention here intrigued me a lot. Finally I couldn’t resist to give physical chastity a try. As usual the first cage a man orders has been much too big, although it was difficult enough to cool him down to a really flaccid state and his smallest size to get him at all even into that bigger model of those tiny tubes. But with a lot of lube and a lot of persuasion it suddenly happened.

LOCKED UP!

I’d never thought, that being locked up alone already would feel so arousing, even if doing it myself is still enabling me to free myself whenever I’d like. Of course I don’t want to spoil my own party, why I will try to endure the situation as long as I can bear it, but it all still belongs to my own decision. How I now can empathize with all the lucky poor guys who have given away their only key! Ooh, writing this, the next wave of arousal engulfs my whole body.

The only problem with that first too big cage has been my ability to start an erection, thus my member could squirm and writhe and fill my cage to the max, what already has been too much and why it‘s been so painful.

Now I can already proudly announce to be back in physical chastity again, caged in my CB-6000 for the second time. Read more »

Calm Blue Ocean

Started out with what is the usual routine now – warm, relax, flex, lube. Getting the Peridise in place was easy, as my body has been craving it all day. At certain times earlier, I could feel an almost purring or thrumming inside the space between the base of my scrotum and my anus. Could be my prostate? Hard to know. It was a subtle vibration, in some ways, and it felt good. When my body pulled the device in on its own accord, it took it in up to the last bulb, where the last nub stayed half in, half out of my anus. Gentle contractions didn’t pull it in any more than that, so I decided to keep it in that position unless my body pulled it in further.

Again tried the “do nothing” approach. I didn’t get the same sweet feeling inside my anal / prostate / scrotum region, but in relaxing, I could feel my body sometimes making involuntary movements with the device. I could feel it gently moving a bit here and there, and it felt good. As I let my body relax throughout the session, even though the device wasn’t moving much (at least consciously?), I felt a gradual increase of pressure on my prostate. It engorged with seminal fluid, and I could feel the pressure building inside. Mostly my penis remained flaccid, but with that pressure, more precum started leaking out the tip. At times, I was incredibly tempted to start conscious muscle contractions, but fought the idea away and tried to stay relaxed. The mounting pressure in my prostate was amazing, and it was craving release. At the end of the session, my body reluctantly gave up the Peridise, and released a significant amount of precum throughout. Read more »

Shaking in the Calm

I was thinking after my T.O. on Friday morning that I might be out of commission for a while. SO I thought I would use the downtime to do lots of reading and research. As an added bonus, A neighbour who I had done some work for, gave me some cash so I was able to buy some more tools for my toolbox. I had been torn between a Trident Maximus and a Trident MGX. I had thought about the Trident Eupho, but my reading had shown it to be for more advanced users. With this added cash in hand, I decided to do some shopping. I found a site, Global Sex Toys, selling the Maximus, MGX and Eupho for 70 bucks minus a whopping 25% first time customer discount. This should be lots of fun; I won’t know which one to try first!
By Friday night, I was feeling randy again, even though I’d had a T.O. in the morning. I stuck with the Helix and shortly after I started, I was enjoying the usual dancing routine. I had been reading Rumel’s post in the archives (Instructions-Older Version). I realized that to really start reaching new levels, I had to try and simmer down the shaking and improve my breathing. I grasped that reducing or eliminating the shaking would allow me a better chance to feel whatever came from the prostate and other areas. The Helix is so much more subtle that I felt that gentler shaking would be easier. So when the shaking starting, I eased the contraction slightly and let my head loll back a little. Per Rumel’s advice, I started stretching my legs back, very, very slowly, so as to not break the wave of feelings.
With the shaking reduced to a bare discernible vibration deep in my lower core, I focused on the feelings from my prostate (a kind of humming), the gentle tapping on my perineum from the p-tab, and the movement of my sphincter muscles as they helped the Helix pop in and out. With the realization of those feelings, came the waves, heavy and warm with promise and pleasure. My head stayed back and my legs stayed straight, my feet pointing straight down. My upper body began very slowly to move downward and then sideways, in a writhing motion. Swinging forward then back, off to one side and then another. I didn’t get spots this time, but it felt like the room was streaming with bright light beyond my closed eyes. Depending on how I held the contraction, I could reduce or increase the inner vibrations. For a very long time, I did nothing but writhe very very slowly on the spot. I heard nothing and saw nothing but the bright light sensation. When I came back, I hazarded a quick glance at the clock and saw that 5 minutes had passed by.
With a light contraction, I started back in and had the same experience, over and over for a prolonged duration each time. When I finally came back to earth after the fifth time, I took a break. My heart rate hadn’t really gone up, I never, to my knowledge, achieved an erection. But I was warm and glowing with a very light sheen of sweat on my body. I saw that an hour had gone by now, and I took a break. When I came back to bed, I was able to recreate the experience on my other side as well as on my stomach. And when I removed the Helix, I was able to get almost to that same point, but by now, I was more than good with my trip.
And I was only awakened twice after I drifted off for a couple of really good Dry-O’s.
The journey continues and I welcome all the steps, big or small!

She’s so nimble!

I’ve been away from posting for a couple of days now, and I thought I’d better post before I start forgetting things. Not like people of a certain age like myself to forget stuff! Thursday afternoon I finally got my Helix Syn. It was am excruciating few hours from then on, until I could deal with supper, and deal with the usual aspects of life. The entire time, I was tingling with anticipation and when me time rolled around, I was ready to go. Thorough cleanup, then onto the rubdown. All primed, eager and ready!
The Helix is so small, it’s hard to believe that this thing could do anything. Hold it alongside my Progasm and it’s like a toy. Lubed up I started slipping it in. I got it past the first bump and then it pulled itself in without any more help from me. I felt it leave my fingers and I wouldn’t have been surprised if I had heard a click when it locked itself in. The crack of my butt is fairly deep and this handle was perfectly nestled deep down there. No way that this device was going to rotate.
Already I could feel tingles, but I made to sure to do some deep breathing anyway. 5 minutes later, I knew I was ready. It takes very little relaxing to get over the initial insertion, compared to the Progasm, because it’s so much smaller. Right away, it started twitching and moving and the more contractions I did and the deeper I did them, the more this little princess danced around. I relaxed and let it start working. I felt much more subtle waves with this Helix than the Progasm, which makes sense to me. But I wasn’t ready for the control I had on her. A light contraction and I would start waves easing up my body. Harder contractions and I was sinking and curling up. Ease off a little and I could pull back and breath through the waves.
This little honey was dancing away on my perineum and prostate so much, but not slamming like the Progasm. Almost like butterfly wings would feel. I was getting constant tingles at my anus and I could feel it popping up and down. So much pleasure! Every position I tried was letting me enjoy the light flashing, sound blocking Super O’s. By the end of the night, I was able to start experimenting with suppressing the shaking and letting an even deeper wave of nothingness and pleasure start to approach.
Rolling onto my stomach was much more comfortable and then I was able to truly able to let the subtleties of the Helix go to work. My butt cheeks, perineum, anus, upper legs and thighs were tingling and fluttering and when I completely relaxed, p-waves would sweep in and deepen and then ease away. Trying to really get to sleep wasn’t a possibility though, because she would suddenly say ‘C’mon, let’s play some more!’
After I removed it and tried to go to sleep, I could still feel my anus fluttering and the p-waves went on for quite some time. Finally sleep came to me after a really fantastic session.
The next morning, I took care of the usual routines of life and after a really erotic feeling shower, I knew that I could definitely stand some more Helix time. After a short while, I switched over to the Progasm. I went from a nympho disguised as a mousy little librarian to an Amazon Queen who was holding me down and saying, ‘This is gonna happen!” Much more intensity and more shaking and moaning than the night before. But I knew I still had more exercise to do as of the Progasm finally popped out. Back in with the Helix. Not so much enjoyment now. I think I was still tuned to the larger device and just wasn’t feeling what the little Helix was doing. So I decided to finish off with a T.O.
That proved to be a little difficult in an enjoyable way. As I was stroking, of course I was flexing my pc muscles and I would get two or three strokes in and start curling in and then relax and repeat. It wasn’t the best finish and I think next time I have a T.O., I’ll leave the device out.