Tag: Perineum

Second Session – ugh!

Well, that could have gone better. Underwhelming on almost all counts.

Expectations – Wanted to get warm and really relaxed, get aroused, and then sit back and see what happens with minimal contractions.

TSLE – about 7 days

I had more time to work with, so I could spend a lot more time prepping. Heated the room, pre-washed all the toys, pre-rolled a shea butter bullet )stored in a glass of cold water in the fridge(, pre-lubed the Helix with shea butter, filled a plastic syringe with about 3 ml of I.D. Glide, and spread some towels over the sheets in bed. I liked all this prep work; the self-nurturing felt nice. After a bowel movement and a long hot bath, I felt very warm and relaxed.

After the bath, I gave myself an enema )3 x 4 oz; definitely necessary(, inserted the bullet, inserted the syringe and injected the Glide )I wanted to try a bit more lube(, and retired to the prepped warm bedroom, where I lay down on my side and comfortably inserted the Helix. This was the high point of the session.

• ROOKIE MISTAKE – For some reason, I could not get aroused with my imagination, which usually works pretty well. It was just one of those days )tired, sick, out of sorts, whatever( where I couldn't feel any sexual arousal. I could feel this malaise earlier in the day. I should have just removed the Helix and gone to sleep. But I kept going . . . Read more »

Newb's First Session

First session notes – wherein I expose my newb-ness

The Helix Syn came in the mail a few days ago along with the other supplies. I had about an hour and a half of uninterrupted privacy to look forward to, so I grabbed the chance to play.

Expectations – I just wanted to practice getting the Helix inside me and feel what it was like. I like CrimsonWolf's write-up about the do-nothing approach, but this time I just wanted to experiment. This was about 4 days after my last ejaculation.

• ROOKIE MISTAKE – A mistake even before I began? Yes, and I knew this going in. I wasn't aroused at all. I've read that the Aneros amplifies arousal, and if there is no arousal, then you can't really expect to feel anything. That was fine for this session; I just wanted to go through the mechanics.

I'm going to add some details so other newbies can follow along –

1. First, I stripped, and then had a bowel movement followed by an enema rinse )2 @ 4 oz warm water(. Probably not necessary, but I felt more comfortable this way.

2. I lubed my finger with some I.D. Glide, and smeared some around my perineum and into my anus. I scraped about a teaspoon of shea butter off the chunk I'd purchased, quickly rolled it into a bullet shape with lightly lubed fingers, and shoved it into my anus. Read more »

Introduction

Hi all,

I'm new to the Aneros experience. I don't remember how I learned about it, but somehow I did, and I've been lurking for the past few weeks, voraciously reading the posts of others. This is exciting! I'm really looking forward to diving in. I'm very grateful to the other men who have generously shared their experiences; I've already learned a lot about my own body and my sexuality/sensuality.

To repay this generosity, I thought I'd start an anonymous blog so that other curious beginners can have another data point to consider.

This first post is just an introduction so you can better understand who I am and where I'm coming from.

I'm in my mid-50's and have been in a committed relationship with my wife for 20+ years. We have 2 teenage children. I had a vasectomy about 15 years ago. I'm 5' 6" and HWP.

I had a pretty sexually repressed childhood, but feel that my mind is liberating itself as I get older; less defensive and more receptive.

I can still get erections, but they aren't as hard or long-lasting as back in the day. I want to see if Aneros can help with this.

I occasionally get hemorrhoids; too much kayaking in cold water. Again, what can the Aneros do about this? I'm considering getting a Peridise, but the reviews for Tempo sound more fun. Read more »

Awesome Session

Started the day with a sexy text to her telling I couldn't wait fuck her wet pussy. Sent a cell shot of my semi erection to her cell to entice her for the afternoon. She responded that she was "biting her lip".. Got home and took a relaxing shower, washed away the day.

The phone rang and it was her sister. She knew we had plans and after a bit she motioned and suggested I went ahead and get started with a Vice session.

I went and prepared the Vice and coated it with coconut oil. I lubed myself as well. I had not cum in 48 hours so inserting the Vice was marvelous. Every milimeter made me cringe as I pushed it in deeper. The vibrations and sensations were almost overbearing and extremely pleasurable. I continued inserting it slowly savoring every inch of penetration from the device until it was fully seated causing me to arch up from the bed.

I began the Kegel exercises and held it firm for 20 seconds or so. When I released the squeeze, it was a totally different sensation, yet wonderful. My prostate was buzzing and warming up.

20 minutes later , she comes in still talking to her sister on the phone and takes my cock in her mouth… I am right on the edge of orgasm at this point…not so much erect but so ready to cum! Read more »

A rest stop adventure

I wrote this a year ago with a series of 3 porn stories to use as aids to my arousal when riding. They were all remembrances of real events. Turns out they were fun to write! I didn't intend to post this here but by popular request )thank you @Neros( I am finally posting it. Enjoy…

I heard about how sex goes on in the woods behind rest areas from friends. This was in the 80s when no one heard of AIDS or safe sex. I had just come out at 32 yo and had sex with a few men and liked it. My boy friend showed me a lot but I couldn't relax enough to let him fuck me. He was very gentle and considerate but couldn't penetrate my tight ass without me complaining of pain. I guess he gave up and we drifted apart. Not because of that but I had other issues, too needy, etc.

So back to the rest area. I was feeling horny and scared driving into the suburban rest area off of US 84 in Connecticut. I had seen men entering and leaving the woods on a path many times before and taking too long to be just peeing. I had tried to imagine what went on there, Tom of Finland fed my imagination. It was summer and warm and the sun was shining. I watched several men go in while I sat in my car. No police in sight. Didn't see anyone resembling Tom's men either. Just ordinary men. I sat there for a while feeling queasy. I swallowed my pounding heart, emptied my mind as if I was just going to the woods to take a leak and shambled vacantly into… Read more »

Back With a Vengeance

Hello all. I know, I know. I bet your seeing this like where the hell have you been. In advance I'm sorry for the disappearing acts. But with work and not getting much down time I haven't been able to get that alone time to ride or come to the site. But I have been stealing moments away to get a quick session in. Like the one I'm gonna tell right now. So get your towels ready and get the stirring in your pants un control.

So last week the parents treated them selves to a dinner date which gave me a window opportunity to get a god session in. I got cleaned up quick and lubed up and got my toy of choice. I picked the Eupho cause I'm still getting to know it better. Instead of doing the normal position (laying on my back) I decided to get in the doggy style position. I had two towels under me and I was ready to get started. I got on all fours and lubed up my ty and then my hole. I actually have been using a new type of lube. I have come across pure 100% coconut oil. It comes in its raw bock form but it melts quick. So I took a small chuck out and slide it up my butt. I then stuck the toy in and it went in so smoothly. (i found out buying raw forms of oil works for you in the long run cause it keeps it moist down there as the session progresses) Read more »

Helix arrives

My Helix Syn arrived today. I wasn't intending to use it today, but I got home earlier that I had anticipated )and didn't have to be in work the next morning until later on(, so I figured I had some time to give it a quick run. So much for making plans.

My first impression is that the Helix was considerably smaller than I had anticipated. I was concerned I wouldn't feel much, especially compared to the much larger Vice. Insertion was very easy and I felt comfortable with it almost immediately. The P-tab is a bit more aggressive than the Vice, but I got used to that pretty quickly.

I did the usual breathing exercises and warmups. Started with a low-level contraction as a baseline and experimented with different strength contractions. I only achieved a couple small orgasms during the session, but for the first time, I felt really strong P-Waves. )For me, they feel like a very pleasurable warm tingling, centered in my prostate area and extending as far up as my belly button and as far down as the inside of my legs just above the knee(. A couple times I felt the P-Waves trying to migrate to something stronger, but each time it fizzled out. Several times I tried to hold strong contractions, but only do so for a few minutes before fatigue set in. I felt if I could have held them longer, something may have occurred. Read more »

My Two Orgasmic Worlds Join

When I first started this journey, I stumbled into MMO totally by accident. It was a fortuitous and unexpected discovery made by reading the forums here in Aneros. Back then there was no chat. MMO brought together the tantric sex that I had been studying and enjoying with J and it even incorporated some of the Zen Meditation that I had been )and still am( practicing.

It is logical that MMO for me grew out of these cornerstones as MMO is a very solitary inwardly focused activity. Fucking J is very outwardly focused; it is an activity where we lock together, my cock deep in her pussy seeking extremely pleasurable sensation in the warm caress of her erotic feminine flesh. The focus for me is using my cock to bring her pleasure. The visceral desperate pleasure that we seek and achieve in fucking is like scratching a deep erotic itch, culminating in the anxiously sought relief of shared orgasm.

On the other hand when J and I make love it is a simultaneous locking of our bodies and our minds. As we look into each other’s eyes we are experiencing each other’s ecstasy. Her eyes and her face reveal to me the tortuously exquisite rapture that is boring into her pussy and squeezing her soul. I can see in her pleasure contorted expression the reality of my cock touching her erotic core coaxing her to experience deep erotic euphoria. Read more »

Aless foreplay, a hot Aneros session, Aless postplay

Hi guys,

Upon awakening this morning around 7 a.m., I was horny and hungry for a session. For many months, I have had Aless of varying intensities and sweet sensations. This morning I had an Aless in which my prostate and surrounding musculature felt that there was an Aneros tool inserted. But no! So I concentrated upon all this while still in bed.

Some minutes later I hoped on the Net and logged into Aneros Forum and found @neros's post on how to capitalize upon Aless as a way to reach Super-O's and MMO's as well as in sessions.

@neros gave the following three steps of harnessing Aless energy for greater use: [1] First use an erotic impression or fantasy to awaken Aless for service. [2] Then focus on the Aless sensations and energy as localized in your awakened prostate, anal musculature, anus, perineum, scrotum, and even in your penis. [3] Let the sexual energy permeate not only your groin, but also your abdomen, chest, and other areas of your body. Focus and meditate upon all these delicious sexual sensations. Once you have done those three steps, you are well on your way in your Aless toward experiencing Super-O's and MMO's.

I used this use of Aless to serve as foreplay for my session this morning.

I used in order Helix Classic, Progasm Classic, Tempo and Maximus. It seemed that my session was on a much higher level than ever before. All four models ride so intensely like never before. Read more »

Progasm question

I've just gotten a Progasm after about four months with an MGX. While I really like the new sensations that are coming out of this guy, I'm not really sure about the K-tab. It feels like it's just sort of hanging out in space, occasionally touching my crack, instead of really rubbing anything. Where should it be hitting me, and how much pressure should it be applying in comparison to the P-tab?