Tag: Porn

First session

delayed shipping arrival didnt set the mood but was able to shift back into the mindset, however, I knew I only had a couple of hours- a big non-no when my expectations were moderately high- another no-no.

All three were smaller than expected and as I remember from a few years back- and I think I wrongly assumed bigger would be better with someone who has prostate experience.

Some nice audio porn from Soundcloud, set the lighting and into the afternoon trying all three in numerous positions while watching various porn.

Lots of close-calls but time constraints and other small distractions kept me from the ledge. Definite on left side with hip thrusting/contracting and kneeling on bed with thrusting too )careful of the penile contact with the towel(. Also on the back with legs extended.

I did learn that the eupho gave the most movement and that I felt was the key. Also I think porn may be a distraction since you tend to switch it up breaking concentration.

Ran out of time and finished with an extended Super-T. Will lower my expectations and try again tonight.

The journey is fun!

Introduction

Hi all,

I'm new to the Aneros experience. I don't remember how I learned about it, but somehow I did, and I've been lurking for the past few weeks, voraciously reading the posts of others. This is exciting! I'm really looking forward to diving in. I'm very grateful to the other men who have generously shared their experiences; I've already learned a lot about my own body and my sexuality/sensuality.

To repay this generosity, I thought I'd start an anonymous blog so that other curious beginners can have another data point to consider.

This first post is just an introduction so you can better understand who I am and where I'm coming from.

I'm in my mid-50's and have been in a committed relationship with my wife for 20+ years. We have 2 teenage children. I had a vasectomy about 15 years ago. I'm 5' 6" and HWP.

I had a pretty sexually repressed childhood, but feel that my mind is liberating itself as I get older; less defensive and more receptive.

I can still get erections, but they aren't as hard or long-lasting as back in the day. I want to see if Aneros can help with this.

I occasionally get hemorrhoids; too much kayaking in cold water. Again, what can the Aneros do about this? I'm considering getting a Peridise, but the reviews for Tempo sound more fun. Read more »

A rest stop adventure

I wrote this a year ago with a series of 3 porn stories to use as aids to my arousal when riding. They were all remembrances of real events. Turns out they were fun to write! I didn't intend to post this here but by popular request )thank you @Neros( I am finally posting it. Enjoy…

I heard about how sex goes on in the woods behind rest areas from friends. This was in the 80s when no one heard of AIDS or safe sex. I had just come out at 32 yo and had sex with a few men and liked it. My boy friend showed me a lot but I couldn't relax enough to let him fuck me. He was very gentle and considerate but couldn't penetrate my tight ass without me complaining of pain. I guess he gave up and we drifted apart. Not because of that but I had other issues, too needy, etc.

So back to the rest area. I was feeling horny and scared driving into the suburban rest area off of US 84 in Connecticut. I had seen men entering and leaving the woods on a path many times before and taking too long to be just peeing. I had tried to imagine what went on there, Tom of Finland fed my imagination. It was summer and warm and the sun was shining. I watched several men go in while I sat in my car. No police in sight. Didn't see anyone resembling Tom's men either. Just ordinary men. I sat there for a while feeling queasy. I swallowed my pounding heart, emptied my mind as if I was just going to the woods to take a leak and shambled vacantly into… Read more »

Chat buddies

Looking for some chat buddies. Generally I'd just like to chat about Aneros and other prostate toys, sessions, experiences, porn, or whatever else. I'm very open-minded.

Most of the people who post here about chat buddies seem to disappear pretty quickly, and I guess I'm looking for something a bit more long term.

PM me and we can talk about what chat platforms work for us. I prefer Kik or Skype IM, but open to other platforms.

My thoughts on pornography and Aneros sessions

Hi guys,

Recently I saw a thread on the Aneros Forum on cutting out pornography out of one's life as it relates to Aneros sessions. The thought, which is valid, is that pornography is a distraction from having successful or fulfilling Aneros sessions. I agree up to a point. The Aneros Directions for Use advise new, even advanced Aneros users from even masturbating one's penis during an Aneros session. Such stimulation short circuits the Aneros process during which one must focus open the prostate and areas surrounding that organ. This same thing about pornography.

In my case, I think I should give a brief history of porn use in my life. I lived a fairly pristine, innocent life as a boy and teenager growing up in Northwestern Connecticut. When I was 16, I discovered my father's stash of porn, actually some novels on the sexual life of Fanny Hill. It was straight porno. Sexual relations between my parents had ceased pretty much by then. My dad apparently before going off to work relied on this porn to aid in his masturbation fantasies for sexual release.

When I was a freshman and sophomore, I fell in with a group of football players who once saw a blue movie featuring a gang bang to fuel their circle jerk. Then early in my sophomore year, some of these guys took me to a porno shop where I purchased a couple gay sex novels. All this was both exciting and novel at the time. Read more »

Further Steps

Since the last writing, I've used my Aneros three more times. Each time, I learn something new, and occasionally I learn things through other activity not involving the Aneros.

My second ride was nowhere near as powerful an experience as my first. Frankly, my first ride has yet to be surpassed in terms of intensity and general pleasure. )Which is fine. I'm glad to have had it nonetheless.( In this second session I learned this, that not all sessions will be mind-splosions, but also the very beginnings of sensations inside my ass. Some crept in towards the end of my first session, but in the second, I was more able to pay attention to them, identify them, greet them. They didn't stay. That is also fine.

My second ride was pleasing in a fairly minimalist way, and left me wanting more. I had an urge for sex, which I put aside, but when it crept up persistently for minutes at a time I called my SO in to the room for intercourse. She obliged happily, and I learned what sex with an Aneros device inside feels like. It was interesting, and pleasing, and also somewhat obstructive. Not my favorite experience, but might be good for occasional implementation. Read more »

Am I doing something wrong?

Throwaway for privacy issues… So I bought the helix syn and have used it twice. I put it in watch my desired porn or browse my desired reddits and just kind of sit there and relax. I do the contractions and eventually go faster and faster. I get a really good feeling that is hard to describe but it feels great and I try to focus on that. Both times I have had a regular hands free orgasm where I ejaculate. Im guessing this isnt a prostate O or a super O.(Not sure if there is a difference) Both times I stopped after I ejaculate. Do I need to keep going after I cum? Or should i be doing something different. Basically I am contracting my muscle and feeling it push against my prostate which feels amazing, but I am not sure if maybe I should be doing something different?

The Start of Something Good

The older I get the greater the number of sexual experiences I have. In my rewired – hypersexual state it seems that I am hyper aware of the bliss and steamy eroticism of each experience. Each one becomes a unique and sensual memory that I get to savor like a special vintage or a breath taking view.

This last Friday was another one of those experiences. As I sit here savoring that experience, I am amazed at the breadth and the diversity of erotic activity so far in my life. Even after all the years of walking this sexual discovery path I am on, I continue to appreciate each intimate and erotic interaction to be compelling, arousing and deeply gratifying. My sex life is oddly reassuring. As it arouses my erotic mind there is a sensual rhythm to it that makes my days complete and oh so sensual.

Friday was a work at home day, there was no rush to get up. At 4AM I awoke at my routine time just before dawn to do a brief but intense MMO session. I slowly sank into that deeply erotic steaming pit of orgasmic delight; igniting the erotic fire of arousal in my anal tract, my balls, cock root, anus and perineum began to pulse in convulsing ecsatsy. The recurring pleasure waves honed my arousal to a keen edge. The shadow of steaming male orgasmic convulsions echoed in my balls, cock and anus all day long as fantasies of my sexy J lingered in my mind. Sometimes it is fantasies of intimate trysts with men that will harden my cock and sometimes it is day dreams of anticipated intimacy with J that makes my penis go rigid with desire. That day it was J who aroused me. Read more »

The first session.

)This post was first written for posting on the Aneros subreddit. Any formatting errors are likely due to the discrepancy between Reddit's and the Aneros site's methods of handling certain kinds of text.(

Just so I don't set up bad expectations for people looking to get into things with an Aneros, let me set down the ways in which I had kind of a leg up on getting the most out of the Aneros experience. And there are quite a few ways.

I have been maintaining kegel muscle tone through casual use for about 15 years

I have experienced hands-free orgasm before without the aid of any sort of toy, tool, accessory, or substance

I am incredibly relaxed person–massages do nothing for me because there simply isn't any tension to massage out )side note, the bafflement of people who try to give me a massage anyway is priceless(

Since puberty my most frequently consumed sex-related viewing material by far is fairly academic in nature–I know a lot of things about a lot of parts, and a lot of ways to be safe in sexual situations, including ones that I frankly never plan to be involved in

So, my girlfriend tripped across mention of the Aneros online, sent me the info, and so today I received my Helix Syn. What follows is a pretty detailed account of how I used it for the first time. Read more »

Taking cat for a hare

I started to have sessions with a mild sense of good feeling. Had some with that and some sessions with nothing. I had a good feeling going through my spine one time. Also when passing gas and aneros moving in response to that made it good.

I bought the toy looking for an awesome orgasm, but what i got instead )so far( were three effects i wasn't expecting. You guys say " buy a pig in a poke", we here say " taking a cat for a hare". First was on sex: i was harder, and with more cum and pre-cum. The second was that the sessions uplift my mood. Even though i don't have an orgasm, i'm happier afterwards. Third is that i get sensations through my body afterwards when i'm not using it, so the session lingers.

I find that breathing through my belly keeps my focus on breathing and not on what is happening down there. When i am feeling somewhat good i'm usually with a very shallow breathing. Also found porn distracting.

So far so good. Let's wait and see.