Tag: Progasm

Which toy should I buy?

I am very experienced with anal play and take some pretty big toys but however never experienced an prostate orgasm. Now after going trough Reddit and read about Aneros toys I want to buy one myself but I don’t know if I should get the biggest one or the most suggested one. So it’s a choice between the Progasm and the Helix Syn Trident. Can someone help me with the decision?

Pro gasm ice

Just ordered a program ice. I have tried prostate play with a Lelo toy before with no real success.. lots of pre cum and good fun but no HFWO or dry ..

So hoping things will change with this purchase..

Has anyone else had success with the progasm ice ?

Thanks

Sore afterwards

So I had a quite long session with my progasm last week, but since then I feel a sore spot there the K-Tab was, it’s been a couple of days but I wanted to know, has anyone had that problem.
During the session it came a point where the toy went much deeper than usual causing also a very nice feeling, but thanks to that sore spot I can’t really use it again until it heals.

Does anyone have an advise or tip how to avoid it?

help!!!!!!!

Like many people here, I’ve been struggling to hit the elusive hfo for about a year. Here is some info:

1. I use the helix syn trident mostly, but I also have the pure wand and a dildo (both of which don’t do too much). Im trying to use what I have instead of buying more toys. Budget conscious to a point
2. I’ve read multiple posts and the faq over and over as well as other research on other subreddits and forums
3. I’m not rushing the process, but trying to enjoy it (which I do)
4. I give at least a week between sessions with no release between
5. I do enjoy the process, but would like to take it to the next step
6. I must admit many times I finish a session “manually” because I feel like I need a release to end
7. I know many people here get hfo within days, others after years
8. Poppers and other similar options are not possible at this time
9. I’ve used mindgasm and other tools
10. Not watching porn during sessions, etc.

Are these my only options:
1. Buy other toys (looking at progasm or eupho trident, but I’ve read other posts where buying a ton of toys may not necessarily help)
2. Just keep trying until it happens?

Admittedly i get frustrated but trying to keep an open mind and just “let it happen”. I also know there isn’t 1 golden solution that works for everyone but any additional tips?

Something different…

So I have been playing around with and without an aneros for more than a decade with varying degrees of success but last night I think I finally had a breakthrough. A couple of weeks ago I discovered r/mindgasm and focusing on the first three lessons, doing them multiple times. I use the progasm jr and slipped that in backwards, hit some poppers and turned on the mindgasm wave pleasure ride. Wow wow wow!! Relaxing and trying to concentrate on my breathing I had told myself to just do what feels good and not focus on a certain end goal. It wasn’t long before involuntary contractions started. Then my entire pelvic region and my legs just started buzzing. I could have sworn I had a vibrator in my ass. While listening to mindgasm pleasure wave ride and flexing my sphincter and pelvic muscles i imagined my prostate almost as a ball floating in the waves of an ocean. The contractions of the muscles creating the waves and my prostate floating and getting tossed about in the waves. I started to focus on the muscle contractions to create bigger “waves” while swirling and grinding my hips trying to create a wave big enough to crash over the ball (my prostate). The visualization in my head and the pleasure I felt in my body were so in sync. I just let myself go and kept doing what felt good and tried not to focus on a goal (cumming, super o, none of that was even in my head). As I focused more on this visualization in my head I imagined the ball not only floating amongst the waves but that the ball was attached to a string or cable from the top as if connected to the base of my spine. I started to almost visualize this string or cable not only connected to the base of my spine but also to the idea of a tail, the tail of a very happy dog. I know this all sounds so weird as I type this but I was just so overwhelmed and in the moment that it all made sense. My body was buzzing, hips grinding, wave after wave crashing into my prostate. I also allowed myself to moan and groan as loudly as I could. Then I started to feel just a crazy amount of joy and happiness. I even started to lightly laugh and giggle, it was so weird and out of character for me. I was just happy and could not stop smiling like all my cares worries and fears were just gone. This is going to sound dumb,I know, but with this ocean wave visualization and sense of happiness, I felt as if I were in a movie. Shawshank Redemption is one of my favorite movies, and that last scene on the beach, I felt as if I were there, another world, and just happy. Read more »

Only the eupho does anything for me

Hi guys, I’ve been on the journey of trying to have a prostate orgasm for a couple of years on and off. I get really nice pleasure from my eupho syn (also have the vibrating helix which is nice too), but no orgasms yet. In the pursuit of this, I’ve bought and tried other aneros toys – I have a helix classic, plastic eupho, peridise set, MGX, helix V and I just recently got a progasm jr thinking maybe moving up in fullness might get me closer. I even have a glass njoy type wand.

The trouble is aside from the helix V, nothing comes anywhere near the eupho for me. It’s tempting to throw money at it thinking that’ll help get me closer to where I wanna be, but it’s pretty apparent it may not be about spending more. Can anyone else relate to having only found one or two toys that work?

I don’t really go into my sessions with expectations but my long term goal is definitely to have dry orgasms. Any advice of what to do going forward?

Orgasm after radical prostatectomy

This is my first blog ever. I had nerve sparing radical prostatectomy about 2.5 years ago. A great deal of time is spent talking about erections, but I was at a loss when it came to information on pleasure and orgasm. The only results I got from Cialis or Viagra was partial erections while urinating while sitting down, for a few days following. I also tried pumps but was not a big fan. Through it all my wife has been supportive, but I was left feeling that she was more on the sidelines waiting for me to figure it out leaving me frustrated and unjustifiably angry with her. The stress on our marriage has been extreme. I was given very little support from my doctor other than erection pills, penis injections or surgery to put a pump in my testicle sac to pump up an erection. Nothing addressed sexual pleasure other than being told the only kind of orgasm I could have would be a dry orgasm. “WTF” does that even mean.
After 2 years of trying, failing, and doing my own research to address the fact that there seemed to be some correlation between my erections and stimulation of the internal nerves that were spared during the surgery. I researched prostate massagers to if any might stimulate the spared nerves even though the prostate was removed. I discussed the possibility of benefit with my doctor’s office and had a very difficult discussion with my wife. I was so relieved when she responded that she loved me and would work with me to figure it out. I settled on the Helix Syn V and Progasm. I found the Progasm comfortable enough to wear while slept. Within a week or so of leaving it in all night every night I started getting erections while peeing sitting down even though I hadn’t taken any erection medication.
I have been able to give my wife orgasms without having an erection, but I was denied any form of physical pleasure myself. One night lying in bed on my stomach facing away from my wife, my legs spread and the Progasm inside me, I asked her to roll over and put her leg over mine. When she did I my body responded and did it ever. Every muscle in my body was contracting, my toes curled, I started panting and maybe even whimpering. This built up for several minutes until I was able to catch my breath and relax, but not for long before I started to blast off again. I not sure but I think this rolling orgasm lasted more than 30 minutes. We were traveling the next day and that night it happened again. So much of my frustration and anger was feeling that sexual pleasure was something that I would never experience again. I can honestly say that I have never had an orgasm as intense or satisfying. Any more my wife can roll over and rub my ankle and get me fired up. I feel the sensations when on my own but never to the extent as I do when my wife is with me.
At this point I’m looking for some counseling. I’m still frustrated with the medical community for their lack of help finding quality of life solutions for their patients. I shouldn’t have had to spend the amount of time I did in pornography to find medical information that the medical community is to squeamish to talk about. Grow up already!

Doing other stuff to not get frustrated

I’ve been finding a mild amount of success with putting in an aneros for an hour, porn on in the background but more for the sound and occasional glance. I then proceed to read for class or do other homework. I’ll go for an hour and then either take an hour off or pee and switch to a different model (I have a progasm and the euph). Gotten some very pleasurable sensations and can go for several hours without the frustration and desire to jerk off that I get from listening to shibby tracks.

Thoughts?