Not getting the most out of my progasm

Hi lovely folks of reddit,

Roughly a couple weeks ago, I bought the Aneros Progasm. This is my first prostate massager and I am having a hard time getting it working effectively. I have used it pretty much everyday, for a duration ranging from 15mn to an hour and a half.

While it does feel nice, I feel like it is not always hitting the right spot, nor is it stimulating it “hard enough”. I have tried various positions and upon contracting the muscles, none feel as good as when I just slightly moving it by hand or just even walkikg around with it.

Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips on how to get that intense pleasure hands free ?

Questions on the Progasm

How are the tabs for the progasm? I have the helix trident and after a while they can get uncomfortable. I haven’t seen much about those tabs but wanted to ask directly. Also what have been your experiences with the Progasm vs the Progasm jr? I understand the jr is smaller but I’m wondering if people prefer that. Since I have been using the helix trident for a while, I am leaning more towards Progasm because I feel like it is more likely to be a different experience from the helix trident than the jr is.

Beginner progress – having involuntary contractions – Some questions

Hi all,

So I have some questions, and hopefully you have answers:

Some weeks ago I ordered the Peridise, as I wanted to try out prostate stimulation. It was very cheap so I thought I would get this, and another Aneros toy. I’ve used it for some days, and it’s really “activated” my butt so to speak, with quivers, twitching, and similar. Some low generic pleasure too. Recently I started doing contractions without the Peridise, those meant to be done with the Aneros toys, and I’ve had quite a lot of success: My PC muscle / pelvic floor will at times twitch and “pulsate” quite a bit after a PC muscle hold, and I’ve been toying around with this and sphincter contractions/holds as well.

When the PC muscle started twitching, after some time, my prostate started twitching as well, and these twitches/contractions instantly generated pleasure, so much so that it was close to moan-worthy, and I know that if I could keep it up, it would keep on surging until finally orgasm. But so far I’ve not gotten there.

Today I got the Progasm, which I also ordered, and I have been doing some light sphincter-pc contractions, followed by pc-holds, then relaxing, if/when pc muscle starts contracting, relaxing into that, and see where it takes me. With the Progasm in, it was a bit harder to get those, but eventually it happened. And then the pleasure was quite higher than without the toy. Still, the problem is that after these involuntary contractions start, they seem to end on their own before it takes me to the next level (either that or I’m doing something wrong)

Just has my first pgasm

I’ve been using the wand for about a month now about daily. It was pretty mind blowing and I felt a little strange afterwards. Unfortunately after the first one I had to get back to work.

I’m considering getting a progasm. I’d definitely like to branch out into something I can just wear, I couldn’t quite handle the ball on the big end of the wand I would go in but I would be pretty sore , will the progasm be too big?

How long do I need to wait to go after it again?

Started using a cock ring during my sessions.

So maybe about a month and a half ago I decided to use a silicone cock ring during one of my sessions, and it has changed everything. For whatever reason it has made everything much more intense. I put the ring on around my cock and balls and it fits quite snug and feels pretty great all on it’s own, but then I pop in my Progasm and take a few hits of my vape pen and settle in for the ride.

I usually watch porn music videos during my sessions. Something about the quick edits and music really works for me. I post a lot of my favorites over on r/goonfuel so feel free to look through my post history if you’re curious. Anyway, I don’t know why, but the cock ring makes it much easier for me to feel my prostate being stimulated. That extra bit of pressure around the base of my dick and around my balls is just enough sensation to enhance the pleasure I’m getting from my Progasm rubbing my prostate.

Progasm Problem

I broke the tab the pressed on the butt crevice (not the tab that rests against the perineum), I wanted to know, what could I use to sand down the broken nub of the tap,
should i use some kind of sandpaper or something? or cover it with modeling clay as a kind of cap on the nub of that broken tab?

Progasm questions

I’m wondering because the website gives little detail – what’s the difference between the Progasm Black Ice, Red Ice and Ice?

From what I gather the Black Ice has a smoother texture, the Ice has a bubbly texture, but what about the Red Ice?

Has anyone several and them and could compare?

Will Aneros work if you have Multiple Sclerosis?

So I’m a widower @ 50yrs old, 5’10” 205lbs and fit, but diagnosed about 2yrs ago with Multiple Sclerosis. Over the past 2 years I’ve developed ED issues and now most recently the inability to cum. I can have erection w/ a pill and I also frequently do wake with a morning woody …harder then if I took a pill, just does not last long enough to “use it.” Only thing I’ve not been able to fix my ability to cum.

I have a GF (also widowed) and she is very “frisky.” It was with her I first discovered my ED issues (NEVER in my life have I not been able to get it up. She was the first one for this to happen to!) What is cool is that she is so frisky and understanding that solving my ED and coming issues has become a “team effort!”

During one of my flare ups I temporarily lost ability to urinate. I had to insert a catheter to pee. This is when I noticed a good feeling as the catheter past by my prostate! I figured if I still felt my prostate w/ the catheter, I could use it to stimulate things. This is when I started researching prostate massaging. My GF and I researched internal massaging my prostate, and as kinky/odd/unlike anything I’d do with someone else, I suggested it to her. She was eager to try, in fact more then eager as I found she too had looked into it! …Anyhow, she tried her best. For the most part I really felt nothing. She could not find that “walnut”…and her finger(s) were at least 4” inside me. It was just nice to be experience such an erotic “first time” event with her.

The journey so far!

Hi all. I’m relatively new to this, I purchased a helix trident (the plastic one) about two weeks ago, then a progasm jr about a week ago. It’s been interesting! On my first try, I used coconut oil as lube, but found the insertion uncomfortable as I’m pretty tight and sensitive down there. When it went in, immediate shaking and spasms, pleasant sensations but not much else. Then I bought some anal lube, totally different with a very pleasant sensation on entry for both devices. I’d got to the point with the helix where I’d reached a sort of block, just nothing much after half an hour.
The first time I used the progasm jr, wow! I got an amazing tingling and hot sensation from my prostate, shaking and panting with the onset of some involuntaries. Unfortunately I had to end the session early! I’ve been using it every night for a week now as I’m totally addicted and I’m not even sure to what yet! I had a session this afternoon where I think I almost felt the onset of an orgasm, the pulling feeling of rushing build of pleasure, but it frustratingly ebbed away in a ghostly way just as it arrived. It’s so subtle I’m not sure if it’s just my mind wishing for it if you know what I mean?
Anyway, I have read up on here about the best ways forward so will keep trying. I know it’s early days and I’m so hopeful to achieve the incredible feelings I’ve read about.
Happy New Year to all!