Tag: Prostate Massagers

“Super-O Deja Vu”

Wow! I never saw this one coming! Let me explain the details……

My wife was not feeling well last night and I decided not to force myself on her. I did the right thing. I am now in Day 8 of semen retention. I like the feeling and have become much more spontaneous with women (and men too!) Maybe it’s a testosterone thing. In addition to cum denial (semen retention), I am leaning now towards edging denial as well (a variant of male bondage). So this morning, when I awoke with a raging erection, rather than start to edge and perhaps cum, I decided to don my Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon cup and deny myself even the pleasure of an edging or surfing session. Yes it it difficult but what it seems to do is transfer the sexual energy elsewhere in my body; namely, my prostate.

So this morning, I start to listen to an erotic track or two. I selected some which were labeled as music for foreplay. I guess they were working since I fell-into a fantasy right away. Since I am already performing edging denial, my “lover” continues with this approach. She denies me even the pleasure of a touch of my package for almost a full hour. At some point, she allows me to remove just one layer, exposing the “chastity cup” but denies me a feel for what is underneath. After a short while later, she allows me to remove the cup and feel my now-sensitive cock and scrotum. It feels so good. But just as soon as it started, it was over! I am quickly instructed to replace the cup and its cover. Once again, I am in a state of sexual denial……. Read more »

How to reach prostate orgasm

Introduction:

Prostate orgasms are way more powerful than ejaculatory orgasms and very similar to women’s orgasm. I recommend every man to try it.

Step #1: Be horny

First, you need to be horny, so watch a pr0n movie or think about nasty stuff. (e.g : “In bed with ayra”)

Step #2: You’re not gay

Go over the taboo : “If I put something in my a$$, I’m gay”. It is the most difficult step because it is on your psychology that you will have to work.

Relax and breathe deeply then start by stroking your anus like if it was the clitoris of your gf, do this during 20-30mn. Do not insert fingers the first time !!! (unless you feel confident)

Step #3: First Incursion

You start to feel some sensations and you will notice that your anus sometimes makes movements that you do not control, it opens and closes.

You will then perhaps be tempted to go further

Lubricate your finger well and bring it right at the entrance of your anus. Continue to caress all around. it will open, move your finger a little, without return . The anus will then close and you will feel like your finger sucked .Always keep a deep breath and be relaxed, it will not hurt.
Do not be afraid to touch shit, it is kept well away, in the colon. The rectum is often empty of feces, so do not be afraid of it ! Read more »

Torn between two dominas (Part III – united dominas creating a new level of bliss)

Hi Folks, life and especially my journey is running much faster than my blog can follow. Meanwhile (on tuesday) Shibby and Prostate have joined their forces and came over me like a little hurricane. Eupho and Helix had a little fight until their big brother Nexus took over for the final.

As Shibby recommended I got well prepared, all tools I might want for this exciting adventure laid out for proper use, the Syn Brothers* and me thoroughly cleaned and well lubed, the room darkened, closed, quiet and warm. (* Aneros Helix Syn / Aneros Eupho Syn)

Lying down on my back in my bed with earphones plugged in my tablet was playing Shibby’s File [Erotic Hypno] Entranced Confessions – Pegging – Y*uT*be. Shibby’s warm voice received me cordially, first giving me some advice, then leading me deeper and deeper into trance where she took over my mind and my body until her will was my will and I couldn’t do anything but follow her orders. We got to that same room where I had met the police officers who did the inquiry and of course they still knew about my secret. Assisted by these tantalizing women Shibby gave me orders what to do next. With a little foreplay my Eupho Syn found itself put in and utilized as Shibby’s strap-on-dildo to be used at her will. Read more »

Torn between two dominas (Part II – Confession)

Since Shibby took over command I had to accept that she rules my sex life. Even going to work by car I listened to her voice and have had chairgasms all the way. I can’t suggest to copy this doing because it is dangerous and not only fun. Too many distractions interrupt upcoming sexual feelings and spoil the party.

I had to get some special space and time for a more intense session and finally I got the opportunity. Being alone in my bedroom for one night I prepared the scene thoroughly. Heaving read some instructions before, I knew, I would need a chair, some space to get down on my knees and some preparation to handle the mess afterwards. Last but not least it was very helpful to have some bluetooth earphones to avoid any trouble with cables.

It’s all about Shibby’s Erotic Hypno file “Entranced Confessions – Confess!”
To give you an idea Shibby offers some vague summary before listening:
(To those who don’t want to run the risk to spoil their enjoyment,
please skip the next two paragraphs!)

“You’re a naughty boy. I know it. You know it. So just Confess. Release it, tell Officer Jenny your dirty little secret. That perverted fantasy in your mind. Your secret desire, no one knows … That fetish, so simple, so naughty. Really … you have no choice. Your cock controls you, and I control access to your cock. You want to cum, you need to cum, but you can only cum at my command. Can only touch yourself when I allow it. And I won’t allow it. Not until you CONFESS.” Read more »

No luck and a bit confused, could someone help?

I started using a prostate massager a couple months back, and I haven’t really felt much so far. I’ve felt the p-wave once, but it was short-lived and I haven’t been able to have it since (I’m not sure what I did that time that was different), and involuntary twitch is something that I think I only experience with my pelvic muscle, which doesn’t really move the massager, and is kinda distracting from feeling the prostate.

Also, I’m getting confused on what I should be doing during a session. I’ve read several posts on this subreddit and other sites; some say to just focus on the feeling and nothing else, some say I should fantasize or watch porn (which would distract from the “focus on the feeling”), and holding contraction hasn’t really lead to any quivering or spasm that may lead to the massager vibrating.

What should be going through my mind, and how should I move which muscles?

Is aneros prostate massager breaking my ability to have erections?

I’ve been using an aneros for about 4 months. I use it every other day for about 20-60 minutes at a time. I really enjoy it.

However, I have noticed that the frequency of erections has gone way down over this time. I can still get one while using the device or if I watch porn. But even with porn, my dick feels almost hesitant about getting erect.

I feel like my sexual response has re-wired to move to my prostate instead of my penis. I guess I’m OK with that as long as I don’t LOSE my ability to have erections if I want one?

I’m not sure what to do, I’m kind of terrified. But, also do not want to stop using the aneros because it’s amazing.

Getting Closer

I’ve been experimenting with the Aneros prostate massagers on and off for about a year now. At first it was for medical purposes, (enlarged prostate) mixed in with hopes of some new pleasurable horizons. I immediately realized the medical benefits, and also new and enhanced orgasms with the device firmly in place in the lower hemisphere. Then I began learning about the “Super O” and decided I wanted to experience this myself. After months of trying I was beginning to think this was more hype than reality. Then something clicked internally and I began to feel waves of pleasure as my ass spasmed and quivered in concert with the aneros, which is where I’ve been for the last number of sessions. My only issue now is to learn what the next phase is, dry or wet orgasm. Years of reaching orgasm one way has made it challenging to reach it another way, but I’m learning, and the pleasure is well worth the wait.

Best brand for public use?

So my (f)iance and I (m) are looking for toys to wear and use on each other. We really want ones that have either remotes or controlled by our phones so we can have control over each other when we go out to the bar with friends or on a date. We decided to get her the wevibe 4+ since it can also be used together in bed. As for the prostate massager we don’t know what to get. It’s between the nexus revo stealth, the lelos Hugo, or an aneros without a remote control. Which would be more comfortable to wear for a couple of hours while sitting down eating dinner or at the bar with friends and which one has the best battery life?