Tag: Prostate

What if I masturbate before a session (without Cumming)?

Hello.

Until now, I’ve made some progressions, but I still see the orgasm pretty far away… Somehow I cannot get there hands free. Last time I had to masturbate after two hours of playing with my Aneros, in order to get closer and cum (it was quick tho). I still need the penile stimulation to get there.

Until now, all my sessions I’ve avoided touching my penis, maybe just in the last two minutes after a long session to empty my fluids. But I always avoid masturbating before and during the exercise.

But someone told me here, that it is ok to masturbate while enjoying the Aneros, or even before that. And now I am confused about it… I thought that using my penis would difficult my rewiring, also when I don’t masturbate and I caress my nipples they are really sensitive. However, only when I masturbate my prostate gets sensitive enough that I reach the orgasm.

So… I’m wondering what would happen if I masturbate and edge two or three times without getting to the orgasm, then wait a couple of minutes, and start the prostate play. Do you think it could be a good idea? Maybe tonight I’ll try this.

Thank you.

Hello everyone ^ – ^ that you share from your personal experience

Hello everyone ^ – ^ I have been fond of prostate massagers for a long time, but still I do not understand the technique (appeal) with it, but rather which muscles to compress and which not,whether it should be left completely or not,that you share from your personal experience ? ))

I personally practiced for about 6 years))

ps. sorry translate ^-^

Woah!

So I decided to have a session tonight and although not much but the usual good feeling occurred for the first 1-2 hours it was definitely not earth-shattering as I had heard it could be.

Fast forward to after having to re-vacate my bowels (ffs), after cleaning up a second time I re-inserted my helix syn and put on some audio of a guy playing with his own from some drop box thing.

Let’s just say that I have no idea what I have been doing wrong but my eyes have been well and truly opened! After about 30-45 minutes of better feelings I started to have these amazing feelings that happened repeatedly during points where my body would just start ‘letting go’ during periods of intense sensation. I wasn’t exactly feeling massive orgasmic pleasure but my dick was hard as a rock and the feelings, while strange and intense, were immense.

I am definitely, definitely looking forward to my next sessions and progressing further as I make my way toward the peaks of prostate pleasure.

Not sure if this was a breakthrough or setback

So I’m pretty accustomed to the aneros world so far. About two years in and I’ve used four different kinds along with a few other different types of anal toys. Basically, I’ve learned how to make my prostate feel stimulated a couple different ways. The first time I had a breakthrough was with the njoy pure wand. I had been using dildos and an aneros when I was just starting out and I couldn’t figure out why it didn’t feel sexually stimulating. The idea of cumming hands-free was really interesting to me and I had seen gifs of trans girls doing it here and there, and I wanted to learn. What I learned was that slamming my ass like a porn star wasn’t going to get me anywhere. I could milk my prostate, but it wasn’t an orgasm. So I slowed down and learned that if I insert the njoy and lie on my stomach and thrust into the ground, the leverage it caused on my prostate would slowly bring about a pelvis-melting orgasm. It was unlike anything I had ever felt. Unfortunately, even with a pillow supporting my stomach, that position really hurt my lower back, so I stopped. Read more »

I GIVE UP

I got my aneros helix syn trident a bit less than a week ago, so far I’ve had 4 sessions, all of them were the ‘Do nothing’ technique that lasted more than at least 2 hours. All my sessions were a failure and had to end it up using my hand to masturbate, orgasm and ejaculate. After each session my body got more and more familiar with aneros inside me but I still couldn’t tell if it hitted my prostate or not, but my orgasm and ejaculations felt better and stronger so it had to touch my prostate. The only time I was certain I could feel was when I ejaculate. Eventually I gave it a rest and kept it away for a couple if days. Now on the next night of my 5th session, I was in a very good and relaxed mood, before I slept I thought I might give it another try. I was on my side lower leg straight upper leg up to my stomach. Before minutes nothing amazing happened I was just relaxing and paying attention to my whole body. I then started to feel the aneros pressuring the prostate which faded faded gradually in 8 seconds. This feeling occured about 12 times in the span of 40 minutes. The next 10 minutes were the same thing but accompanied by warmth all over my body which grew warmer and warmer as my heart starts pounding harder and harder. It feels like the aneros was literally attached to my anus and can now feel it without losing it. I just let it happened whilst keeping my composure even though I felt like something big was coming up as my feelings grew intense. I took 2 very deep breaths that i held for 8 seconds each. The next feeling was something I’ve never felt before, I felt like cumming and the aneros pressed on my prostate harder than ever before, I felt like cumming so I intentionally use about 5 to 10% of my sphincter muscle to rub my prostate, my cock was throbbing like hell this intense feeling happened only 4 times in a span of less than 1 minute. I couldn’t feel anything anymore for the next hour so I gave it a stop and ended my session again by masturbating. I don’t know if I experience mini P wave or something like that but that feeling was better than masturbating it didn’t even compare. Now I don’t feel the need to achieve super O, I give up, that feeling was enough and I’m grateful for it. I learned 4 important things. Read more »

Seeking other senior (65+) married men new to prostate play

My wife and I engaged in a few strapon sessions over the years and I played with butt plugs and dildos alone. I didn’t know special prostate play toys existed or that it was pretty mainstream now until recently. I thought I was strange.

To other seniors, how does your wife accept your prostate play? Do you do it alone or just together?

I would love to chat with another mature married man.

Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…

Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.

Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.

A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.

Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.

This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last… Read more »

Helix trident is too long. P tab doesnt make contact

So I have experimented with the helix and have used it for a few sessions but I am having a few issues.

First, its too long for my anatomy. It goes well past the sweet spot. Second its curving is too aggressive imo and isnt very comfortable removing. Third the p and k tab dont make contact. I feel like it too aggressively makes contact past the prostate which hinders its movement and over stimulates akin to death grip.

I would consider the eupho as its dimensions seem better, but its even longer then the helix. If the eupho was only 3 inches long it would be perfect. Like a eupho “jr” would be ideal for me.

Any suggestions?

Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?

Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.

**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.

All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation! Read more »

Is EVERY male capable of achieving an orgasm through prostate stimulation alone?

About a year ago now, my lady suprised me with an Aneros Helix Syn. She had been doing a lot of research on the male prostate and learned that men can have much more intense orgasms through this form of stimulation. I began to inform myself about it and was completely sold on the idea.

She is such an amazing partner that she helped me the first time I went to use it. Unfortunately, despite all the prep and foreplay, I was unable to achieve an orgasm or ejaculation. Neither of us engaged in direct stimulation as I wanted to cum hands-free; letting the device with my contractions do all the work. The most I was able to get out of the experience was a very slight sense of pleasure from the site of the prostate and a LOT of precum…

After an hour, we decided to suspend the experiment and have sex. I left it inside me while I fucked her. Still, when I came inside her, the intensity of my orgasm/ejaculation was on par with our general sex routine.

My question is this… Are not all men able to successfully achieve a climactic experience this way? Or, does it require a lot more experimentation and experience?

We tried several times since with similar results. Any input or advice would be very welcome. Thanks! 😊