Great experience with wife & Trident last night

We’ve both been working and traveling a lot so we had sex about a week ago and because I’ve been busy, that was the last time that I ejaculated. The build up was starting to feel pretty intense and I tried to see if she’d be down for pegging, which she enjoys but she needs to feel 100% into it and she was too tired.

Me wanting that and her telling me it’s a lot of work is always a bit contentious because I usually do all the work for PIV sex, but in the past I told her that we should try putting in an Aneros and just having her touch me (but not my penis), so I showered and put on underwear after inserting the Aneros.

She finished working late and came into the bedroom where I was already getting warmed up by relaxing and tensing and laying on the bed.

She started touching me and running her hands on my body and I eventually had two medium squirming prostate orgasms. Then we switched and I rubbed her body while she pushed her ass into me and grinded against me and I had a super hard hip bucking prostate orgasm and had to take a break for a bit.

Starting my prostate play journey

I’ve used my Aneros helix trident a few times now but with little success. Thought I’d share my mini breakthrough today, hope to experience p-wave, hands free orgasm sometime soon. I set myself aside an hour (not enough time maybe?), lubed up and relaxed, knees up laying on my side. Once I got used to the feeling I slowly contacted and released my anus to move the massager. So far quite relaxing but not mind blowing. 20 minutes in I was surprised by how much pre-cum I’d produced, which turned me on more! I found I could get into a rhythm of contracting and releasing with a slow build up of pleasure. This was easily lost though when relaxing or changing sides to lie on. Around 40 minutes I caught a wave but maybe chased too much? I let myself go vocally and found myself rubbing my nipples and stroking my skin as I was beginning to tingle. Was so hard not to touch my cock, which was by now rock hard and leaking pre-cum. This faded and never returned, the only other feeling was around. 50 mins feeling a lot more full and feeling the massager move more, but the intense pleasure didn’t return. Any tips for my next try much appreciated, will be posting progress again

Feeling a buildup, not sure how to proceed.

Hello! I appreciate your time and reading this.

So, recently I have been feeling some kind of build up and I can feel it hitting my prostate and if I relax my muscles, it gets sucked up.

However, I am not sure what do with this feeling. It feels great, but get rather lost on how to proceed.

I try to go with the flow and just do what feels good, but feel like I am missing something to do when I get to this point.

Simple Method that works

Simple method that works well.

1.lay on back knees up, feet flat on bed/floor.

2. Shea Butter for lubricant on non silicone type model.

3.Nipple Stimulation every so often and definitely when orgasm is close if you enjoy doing this.

4.Insert toy then do nothing, DO NOT DO ANY PC CLENCHING, just lay still and let the toy do the massaging, it will take a while but the sensations continually build up until the orgasmic moment in which your body will loose control and start dry orgasming uncontrollably in pure bliss, when it’s time to start clenching your body will start the pc clenches automatically and these involuntary clenches that start on their own when this happens is an orgasm and not the manual style clenching.

The O that happens using this technique feels fantastic and last for several minutes! Works for both prostate and peridise toys.

Weird experience

I’ve been lurking this sub for several years and finally built up the courage to purchase the Helix syn back in January. I’ve been using it pretty consistently at least 3x per week until today and while it felt good to have it in, it didn’t feel spectacular. My orgasm when penile masturbating with it were noticeably stronger.

Having read stories on here for a while, I was hoping to notice some of the common signs of prostate pleasure like increased precum or touching a specific spot would produce a noticeable release of pleasure but those processes never seemed to happen. A few months back I gave up trying to get that Big O or any O from anal/prostate pleasure alone and decided I’d just enjoy the toy in while jerking off.

Today I when I lubed up the aneros to slide inside. I decided to use a lube shooter to out a few mils on water based lube up there and insert the toy. When I inserted the toy, I felt some different that I had not experienced over the last few months. It wasn’t pleasure, it wasn’t pain. I’m not sure how to describe it other than being different buy this sensation last for 1 second at most and faded away quickly.

Curious but nervous

Want to try prostate orgasm but don’t know where to start with a toy and how to find my prostate. Any advice?

Enhance your POs with the Freeballer!

I’m always looking for ways to enhance my prostate play, so I thought I’d share.

I swear I have to have my [Freeballer](https://www.forttroff.com/store/product/freeballer_2/?variant_id=2552) 2.0 cockring from Fort Troff on when I prostate play. The toy has a “taint tickle” and extends lower and back behind your ball sack. You’ll see what i mean if you try it. I think it adds a lot to the overall experience as it sits up against your taint on the outside while your toy works the inside. I think it gives some push back from the outside while your Aeros toy works your prostate on the inside.

Don’t play with out it! You’ll thank me! It’s a nice enhancement.

Let me know if you like it, I’d love the hear what others do to enhance their prostate play sessions.

A slight problem?

So, i have been trying to have a prostatitis orgasm for years with hardly any luck. I recently talked to someone about it to get advice. I was asked if I am able too feel were my prostate is located. And come to think of it no, I cannot really. I have searched with fingers for a while in the passed. Never found it. However, I never really thought about it. I did mention that, I have a spot right near the entrance. It’s squishy, like a sponge, and slightly divided in. He told me, my prostate is hiding.

What he tole me, is to use my abs when I’m doing p play. Jason anyone heard of this before? This b explains so much.

On a side note, I don’t really pre anything. I think that maybe why. Any notes, ideas or questions lllet me know.

I will say i do remember, a long while ago, I squirted when playing with that spot. I think a bunck of pre or senimal fluid came out. I did this with my fingers.

I would love to hear people’s feedback on this matter 😊🙂

Need help, where to start

So I got myself an aneros because I wanted to experiment with prostate play and I know it takes super long for your body to adapt but I’m not sure where to actually start. I got a non vibrating plastic one and it says to put it in but within 30 min I get bored and take it out because I have a hard time focusing. I can’t use weed so that’s off the table. What approaches can I take?

How to use a Helix Syn V on my man

I (42 F) bought my boyfriend (46 M) a Helix Syn V for his birthday. He loves prostate play. He’s also talked generally about trying some light fem dom bondage.

He’s tied my up and used toys on me before and it blew my mind.

I’m looking for ideas on how to introduce him to his birthday present. I’d like for him to be blindfolded and at least partially restrained.

What would be a good position to have him restrained in?

Any other suggestions on making this his best birthday ever?