Tag: Prostate

A “Chastity Cup” Takes It All Away!

Just chilling early this morning, wearing my XO cup. While relaxing on my sofa, I began to dwell on the possibility of me having any kind of sex while wearing it. And what did I discover? That there is nothing left! Every possibility I could imagine for anything “sexual” was effectively stopped by the cup!

Examples:
Any kind of masturbation or edging……no!
Cuddling or petting with my wife…no way!
Making out in unusual places…stop it!
Getting turned-on by seeing my erection….get out of here!

Get the idea? So where that leave me? Listening to “old disco” classics while performing kegels! Fortunately, the prostate still has the capacity to orgasm without any penile involvement!

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Conclusion
This is why semen retention and prostate massage go hand-in-hand! Feeling the “inner burn” without the usual male “tools” seems to intensify the possibility of prostate orgasms, with or without an Aneros massager. “Necessity is the mother of invention?” Put that in your pipe and smoke it! Touche’.

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“Pleasure Through Abstinence (Sexual Satisfaction Without Sex)”

Introduction
I had a groin irritation which resulted in me not wearing my “chastity cups” for about 5 days. At the same time, I self-imposed an “abstinence” period from my Aneros prostate massages. This combination proved to be quite formidable for my pelvic pleasure. Let me explain…..

Pre-Session
While awake early this morning, I had the urge and “prompting” from my Japanese urologist* that I must wear a groin cup for a period of time to arouse my prostate. I selected my Mueller FlexShield and put it on. Wow! That feeling had been absent for more than a few days and I could not believe the stimulation that I felt! At the time, I did not suspect that an Aneros session was coming, so I just went about my early-morning business as usual, which included breakfast, etc., all while wearing the cup.

Session
When my morning “chores” were completed, I had another “prompt” from my Japanese urologist who insisted that I perform a 15-minute “milking” session with my HIH 950 prostate massager to help alleviate my BPH symptoms. I dutifully lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. No sooner did I start to relax that I could not keep the massager “still” within my rectum—-it began to move and quiver entirely on its own! At the same time I began to feel an intense pressure on my prostate and I honestly felt that I was “this-close” to a hands-free wet orgasm! It was that intense, that mesmerizing. I could only lie-there and try to absorb all that I was feeling. After 15 minutes, I felt that I should end this “milking session”. When I took a look inside the cup, I was amazed to see a pool of very clear, non-sticky fluid that had collected at the tip of my penis. I felt much better and knew that, while only in Day 5 of SR, I needed this prostate milking! If it makes any sense, I now feel sexually satisfied without sex! Plus, I don’t have (yippee!) a refractory period! Read more »

Experienced aneros users, where does this lead!?

Experienced aneros users, I have been wondering where to go from where I am and how does the aneros experience evolve with the years.

I am a fairly new user, about 8 months into the aneros experience, but I am fortunate enough to have a very active prostate and I have been able to tap into it to have incredible, body-numbing, scream-inducing SUPER O’s for the past 5 months. My prostate orgasms have certainly evolved: I have discovered new heights of intensity, new sources of pleasure and distinctly separate types of orgasms depending on the stimulation. Also more ease to reach orgasm, and I feel a much more sexual and confident man (hetero). With the right mindset I can also enjoy A-less sessions.

The evolution so far has been incredible, and I have a vague feeling like I have an interminable well of pleasure in my core, multiple unopened doors to still explore but foggy and dim in the near distance somehow.

I don’t want to overthink it but, I guess my question is: ¿will the experience continue to change and evolve over the years? Or is this just a transition phase in pleasure “rewiring”?Thanks!

If any users want any advice I’d be happy to help, although I can’t imagine being able to give better advice than what’s already in the forums.

Progress updates

So I believe that an open blog like this, where I can talk about my progress and stories in an aneros-centric community, will help me with changing my mindset to not judge my sessions as “successful” or “unsuccessful” and to simply be mindful of what occurred.

I had found myself a little over 7 days abstinent going into this weekend. On Friday, I also met a cute new guy who’s going to be coming over on Monday to see me 😀 In our talking, I mentioned that I had been saving up my loads (in my own head for an eventual Aneros session), but he seemed to really like the idea of me being all horny for when we meet up.

Anyway, I was pretty busy Saturday with a concert so Sunday was my me time. I spent the morning running errands on my bike, but once I came back from doing my laundry my interests started getting naughtier. I was looking into buying a latex catsuit (since I’d love to try latex), and realized I was starting to get myself horny. Eventually, after browsing online long enough, I decided to lock myself in my Holy Trainer v2 chastity cage and go run an errand. Once I got back however is when things started to get hot.

I realized that I hold a lot of tension in the muscle that raises and lowers my balls when I put my chastity cage on. I had also discovered in previous aneros sessions that relaxing the tension in this muscle made for a good session, although I struggled putting it into practice. Read more »

“Underwear, Unmasked: A Sexual Fetish Meditation”

Introduction
Yes, a most unusual meditation. But it developed quite naturally. Here are the details…

I awoke early morning with a stiff erection and decided to put-on my Mueller “chastity cup”. I went back to sleep but awoke again, this time near the PONR which felt so good. I really felt close to an ejaculation. That feeling lasted perhaps 15 to 20 minutes. Then the erection subsided and I decided to listen to some soothing, erotic tracks. As I began to listen, I seemed to fall into a most unusual meditation…

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Meditation
As I seem to have a fetish for jockstraps and now, hard cup jocks, it seemed only natural that this would become a topic of meditation. I began to dwell on the concept of jockstraps as underwear. And it dawned on me that, yes, both of these mundane objects are really nothing more than underwear!

A jockstrap is nothing more than a flexible “pouch” of elastic material that is designed to support the male genitals. It resembles male underwear in the way it is designed (give-or-take a few elements) and the way it is worn. But it is in the wearing of it that it becomes an object of sexual stimulation. A lot of guys (myself included) probably can’t help but get an erection while wearing one. And that tight, stimulating “support” only intensifies the feeling. Read more »

An “Active Listening” Aneros Session!

[Disclaimer: My use of “active listening” is not related in any way to Carl Rogers and Richard Farson who coined the term “active listening” in 1957]

Background
I awoke around 4 AM and wanted to listen to some tracks. I also wanted an Aneros session. So what to do? Obviously, combine the two! Let me explain further……

Session
I was wearing my XO cup from early this morning and, in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of a T-boost. Thankfully, my day-long refractory is now a memory! Since I would be lying-down, I opted for my HIH 950 massager which does not have any extended P-tab and nestles-in quite deep. So when I am in a prone position, it would not pose any interference.

So with everything in place, I put-on my headphones and began to listen. I selected one of my favorites:
“Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1 | Mixed By Johnny M”

This session was very good. One thing I noticed right away is that I didn’t have to do any deliberate PC contractions; the musical “beat” did that for me! It almost was automatic! The sensations just continued to build; at one point I began to experience whole-body spasms and I distinctly felt “something” tingle up-my-spine. When I felt that I couldn’t take any more, I ended this session. I was surprised to see that about 30 minutes had passed! Read more »

My first Super-O!

Wow. Where to begin? I’m still shaking after coming down from the most amazing orgasm. And now I get what people are on about when they try to differentiate between an orgasm, multiple orgasms and a super orgasm.

I’ve been playing with my prostate for about 9 months, buying many (many) prostate toys, mostly vibrating (wrong!) and mostly big (wrong!). Then, less than a month ago I purchased an Aneros MGX. I knew something was right the first time I used it, little (nice) tingly feelings around my anus and it was ‘bouncing’ on my prostate like it was playing a drum – not hard, just nice.

Reading the posts on here taught me to forget about goals, relax and enjoy the journey. That, for me, was the one of the key things. The other was buying some coconut oil – I’d realised that the lubricant I was using was not right for me, it was too ‘sticky’ and seemed to dry out too fast.

The coconut oil arrived on Wednesday, so after work I showered, got onto the bed, watched some porn and, after I was suitably aroused, I covered the MGX with coconut oil, put a bit of the old lube on my anus and slipped it in. It took a while to bring me to the boil but that night I had (what I now know to be) my first prostate orgasm. I think I said “Holy Fuck” or something like as I laid there in shock. But then, not long afterwards another shook through me, then another, and another… this went on for about 15 mins. I was floating on cloud 9. Read more »

Back to the future

When I first got the helix syn, at the end of June, my sleep was totally wrecked for about 4 weeks. I have an app that records sleep cycles using the motion sensor. I had been high 70-80% and dropped into the 40-50 range.
Lately I was back up into the low 70s.
FF to Monday, when I picked up a tub of Shea Butter. I’ve had two sessions and am back into the 40s on my sleep. I’ve noticed increased motion and much more prostate contact.
I’ve tried KY jelly, olive oil, coconut oil, and sliquid. But this stuff is crazy. I’m waking with aless contractions and having butt buzz.

Very odd.

“Oh, That Dreaded Refractory Period!”

Introduction
Of course, I am referring to the “down-time” following a male ejaculation, either through sexual intercourse, edging, or masturbation. This non-sexual time is generally caused by a release of hormones, namely prolactin and oxytocin. There are various ways of coping with the refractory period (available online) and I suppose that some of them will work to shorten that time. But it is an inevitable reality for most of us males. For young guys, that time period is rather short, but for older men like myself, it could stretch-out to a full 20-24 hours!

Feelings
Simply put, I feel like **** during this period of time, which lately for me seems to last an entire day. Getting an erection and a ready-to-ejaculate feeling is the farthest thing from my mind during this time. I wish it could be different—it is amazing how I can go from super-sexed-up to feeling like a wet sponge just from an ejaculation. It is like a roller-coaster: the highs and the lows. My recent edging session proved that reality.

How to Maintain That Sexy ‘Feeling’
For me, it is just a matter of doing things that energize and revitalize me sexually. I usually swim every day; that activity naturally accentuates my maleness and gives me a mental awareness of my sexual apparatus. Some nights, I sleep in a “chastity cup” and that activity is naturally arousing. It helps too when I experience the night-time erections (NPTs). My diet is good and I eat a lot of nuts, which are supposed to help counter-act the refractory period. And best of all, I look forward to my Aneros sessions, which are the best way to revitalize my prostate. They keep me ‘sexed-up’ , leaking precum and ready for another ejaculation! Read more »

Helix classic hurts my taint

So I was really curious about this thing, and decided to give it a try and bought a Helix classic a while back. I tried to use it a few times, but each time at about 10 minutes in the pressure on my taint/grundle/gooch whatever you wanna call it, hurt so much! Like if it was flatter or wider, or made of something squishy, or preferably both, it wouldn’t have hurt so much. But it was like a sharp pressure that became unbearable for me after a while, and I gave up using it.

Fast forward to today, and I want to give it another chance but I know it’s just going to hurt. Should I get the Helix Syn? I know it’s coated in silicone, so it might be better. But I found the part that makes contact with your taint in the classic Helix is really thin, so I’m worried the Helix Syn will hurt also because its a lot of pressure on a very small surface area.

Is there something else I should try instead that won’t give me the same problem, or should the Helix Syn make a big difference (and is the difference worth 100 bucks)? I was looking at the Aneros Vice, the part that contacts the taint looks much wider and I think that would be a lot more comfortable. But I’ve never had an orgasm from my prostate before, and understand that aneros purists may argue that you shouldn’t use something with vibration. Read more »