Aneros users blogs and guides
It seems like the [wiki page](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page) seemed to have covered a lot of aneros and prostate play in general. The page seems to be inactive now, and having searched some older posts on the subreddit, a lot of users recommended it as a good overall guide.
Is there an alternative to this page, or another source that can be used?
Apologies if I missed an obvious post answering my question. Thanks
Background
I am currently in Day 9 of SR and quite horny. I slept in my SafeTGard jock (with Mueller cup) the past two nights. Early this morning, I “danced-around” the PONR with a strong erection within the cup. I thought that perhaps I should end this SR string and just ejaculate; it would feel amazingly good! So I went down to my comfortable sofa and tried to find an ejaculation binaural that fit my mood. I was ready to cum.
Action
Believe it or not, I could not find a track that fit my mood! I searched for a good 5 minutes but to no avail. So instead, I settled on some nice sex music which I am listening to as I type this blog. The cup stayed on throughout. Taking it off now would just be too tempting.
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What happened? I’m not entirely sure at this point. It seems that although I had every intention to ejaculate this morning, my body told me otherwise! I don’t have a hint of blue-balls so this ejaculation is not really required. Can I go farther? I guess the answer is “yes”.
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Am I disappointed? Of course, but in hindsight, I remain in chastity and that only helps to ramp-up my arousal level. With this higher level of semen retention, I can feel the effects right down to my prostate.
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When will I be ready? Ah, that is the question for which there is no answer right now. I’ll just have to make my way through the next day or so and see what develops. I do know that wearing the “chastity cup” solidly for the past two nights certainly has helped keep me chaste!
I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.
They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive.
Still buzzing now an hour later after that AMAZING session.
BELOW IS MY JOURNEY TO THE SUPER-O
So im an 18 year old guy and I have always been curious about anal play. Last year, I finally gave in and decided to experiment on different anal plugs etc. until i found out about the SUPER-O and aneros…
So i decided to browse my local sex stores online(New Zealand btw) and found a 50% off sale on the Aneros Progasm. 2 days later i recieved the package and went straight to action.
I lubed up and forced this bad boy in (this was by far the biggest thing i have put up my ass) Also I had no educational experience whatsover on how to achieve prostate orgasms, all i knew was it should be a plug and play kinda thing and it will send you straight to orgasm heaven right?? Well, after session after session of failure i finally gave up… Out of frustration I threw away my progasm (I know its stupid) and decided to stay away from anal play for a while.
A year later here i am now. Again i gave in and decided to give Aneros another shot so i bought an Aneros Porgasm JR. I have browsed all the forums and read on all of the techniques to give myself a confidence boost that this time it might work. I realised from experimentation through my fingers that my prostate was far lower than expected.
I got a chance to try out my Helix Trident. Here are some of my thoughts from this first experience.
My first impression upon unboxing my Helix Trident was that it was a LOT smaller than I was expecting. I bought the Helix because it was described as having a “Larger head size for more direct pressure on the prostate.” I was expecting something, well, larger. I guess I had no real frame of reference. I admit to being skeptical that I’d really feel much of anything from something so seemingly diminutive. It’s certainly the smallest thing that I’ve inserted in my rear for pleasure other than my finger in a very long time.
I wasn’t sure which lube to use. I know that’s a common question and the answer varies greatly from person to person. For anal sex and for other toys, I really like the water-based variety of Boy Butter. It is a cream or lotion consistency, which I find makes application much easier. It dissolves easily in water, so cleanup is not a problem, but it also doesn’t dissipate, evaporate, or absorb into my skin as quickly as other lubes I have used. However, it also isn’t quite as slick as liquid lubes I’ve used. I find this is a good thing for other anal toys and for anal sex, where some amount of friction (the “right” amount) is actually desirable, but perhaps not for the Aneros, where free mobility is key. So I opted for Shibari silicone lube, which I prefer for my Fleshlight. It’s slicker and runnier than the Boy Butter and is probably a better fit for use with the Aneros. I may in the future try some of both, by first pre-lubing my rectum with Shibari and coating the Aneros with the Boy Butter, just for grins.
I first heard of the fabled hands-free orgasm about 10 years ago while chatting on IRC. An eccentric guy I chatted with occasionally claimed that he could have orgasms while receiving anal sex from his partner without any stimulation to his penis, and then afterward could come again while fucking his boyfriend. He took this magical ability for granted, seeming very surprised that I could not accomplish the same feat.
I tried to get him to explain how it worked, but the best he could manage was a vague description of “pushing” somehow while being penetrated. I honestly wasn’t sure he wasn’t just making things up. It seemed too good to be true. Everyone knows that guys can only come once and that they have to wait out the refactory period before they can have another orgasm, right? And climaxing without touching your cock is a fantasy acted out in porn but seldom found in the real world, isn’t it?
That’s what I thought anyway at the time. I dismissed his stories as unrealistic after being unable to get even close to what he described. But I never forgot those stories or the subtle hunger I had to experience those things.
Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..
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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?
But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation.
Hi guys,
I haven’t been posting much lately because while I still have Aneros sessions about three times a week, they are so enjoyable that they are hard to describe.
However I had a session that was one of my best. It lasted about an hour and half. I used in order my favorite Aneros models: MGX, Maximus, Progasm ICE, and Tempo.
We have been having very rainy weather all day today, a good day to day home and relax a bit.
For the last several months, I have been wearing a jock and cup to bed and diddling my nipples. Diddling my nipples and wearing a jock and cup put me at ease at night and lull to sleep. Many mornings I wake up sexually aroused.
I arose at 5 a.m. to survey the weather forecast on the WeatherChannel.com. Sure enough we had a very rainy Sunday forecast. So stayed home out of the rain and didn’t go to church. I also diddled my nipples a great deal while viewing erotic pics on tumblr. For the last couple months, I can induce Super-O’s though nipple diddling and Kegeling. I experienced several amazing Super-O’s in this fashion this morning.
Finally in the 6 o’clock hour I went outdoors braving the rain to get some breakfast from our neighborhood 7 Eleven. I returned home twenty minutes later and had some breakfast before having my session at 7:15.
Background
No session this morning. But I awoke fairly early and wanted to relax with some meditation tracks. I selected one: “The Timeless Sea 10 hr’s” and began to listen. It was very calming and relaxing. It wasn’t too long before I began a meditation…..
Meditation
I began to meditate on sex. Not in the usual sense, but within the context of all reproduction of wild species. For example, how do insects mate? What about birds? And so on….
And the meditation turned-back on us humans. We certainly reproduce but in our own terms, no? We have “rules and regulations” galore—generally monogamous unions and all kinds of penalties if we are not. We human males then are not “free” in a sexual sense. We are usually committed to one single female for life. Is this the way it is supposed to be? Perhaps, but then the mechanics of sex becomes quite…..boring! There is no variety! Maybe that is why so many men have issues with ED? PE? DE? We rely more on artificial means (pills, etc.) to increase our arousal and our sexual performance. So there is a deeper-rooted psychological basis for the sexual maladies of the human male. Intriguing….
Effect with Aneros
The meditation then shifted to Aneros and our prostate pleasures derived from these simple devices. I read about men in the Forum having issues with arousal, erections and generally a lack of stimulating, orgasmic sessions. I too experience this from time to time. And I began to dwell on their cause. Of course, the usual explanation is that “our expectations are too high!” But I would like to counter that with “just let sex happen!” “Sex” in this context implies anything sexually-arousing such as an Aneros session.
So I’ve been working on my technique since my first super-o a few weeks ago, and in preparation for a session tonight I’ve been tensing my prostate on and off all day.
Anyway, this got me thinking about what other people might do ahead of sessions. Obv there’s the obvious/the things in the Wiki (cleaning, relaxing, being aroused etc.) but do others have other rituals or go-to prep activities?
This isn’t a help-me-with-my-technique type of post, it was just something that occurred to me and in curious. And this sub/community has always been welcoming of questions and forthcoming with comments, so figured I’d ask.