Tag: Prostate

question about being mindfull/mindset

So, I’m reading about being mindfull and stuff, but nobody tells me how to do it?
I having hard times with guided meditations. Music-only seems to get me more relaxed but still not anywhere near of what is needed for prostate pleasure using any Aneros toy.

I also noticed bigger doesn’t seem to be doing it better. With the Progasm and the Maximus I noticed if I start to get somewhere it won’t stay in even while holding a pillow between my legs or wearing pants. I also got a Squarepegs MilkIt, but it didn’t do much aside of being almost impossible to insert thanks to the squishyness. It was pressed out kinda soon, too. Sitting on it didn’t felt that good, too.

What’s a good way for that mindfullnes? Any good stuff on youtube or elsewhere I should try?

First time with the Progasm Ice – wow.

I have had the most incredible session this morning. I started off with my Helix Syn to warm myself up for the progasm, I was a little anxious about the size and girth. I’d only planned to use the Helix for half an hour or so until I was properly warmed up but 3 hours later… oops. I was just so relaxed I didn’t want to move, my session was really nice and had a lot of good feelings but nothing ground breaking.

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Eventually I sort of came round from my relaxed state and took out the helix, lubed up the progasm which made me very horny all on its own. I love how big and girth it is, it feels so sleek too and I ended up stroking it as if it were my cock. I laid back and pushed it against me, it felt soo big. After a little pushing and more relaxing it eventually slid inside me, but definitely didn’t slip in the way the helix does, this big boy was stretching me and it felt amazing. Feeling it go all the way in was so sexy to me, cold, girthy, slippery goodness filling me up, I was incredibly horny. When it hit my prostate it just felt amazing. I relaxed back and started some deep breathing. First impressions were that I was really going to have to work hard to fully relax around it, I was finding it more difficult now.

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tips for someone who feels like they’re really close to prostate O, but just can’t seem to “get there”

For a bit of context, i’ve been using aneros devices off and on for a couple of years now (bought my first model roughly 4 to 5 years ago).

There wasn’t too much to be felt pleasure-wise which basically led to a pattern of me picking it up for a little and then putting it back down when I didn’t feel like any real progress was being made.

I picked it up once again around late 2021 with the intention of practicing more frequently. I would have sessions maybe once a week or so but increased that to 3-4 per week over the past 4-5 months up to now. In that time i’ve made great progress but just can’t seem to get over the hump or make it to the next milestone if you will.

My sessions usually last 2 hours and I tend to opt for the “do nothing” method. During a good session I will sometimes experience some very good and strong p-waves, feel pleasure through my body and just genuinely enjoy my sessions from start to finish. I’m still learning the ropes and working on identifying what i’m feeling in each moment but I think I may have had a small anal orgasm during my last session which was pleasant, but I don’t think i’ve had a prostate orgasm yet. During the more intense sessions/waves, my body will start to feel super light almost as if i’m being lifted out of my body but it only lasts for a moment. At first it was scary but now i’m familiar with it and have learned to let go and enjoy. All of what was just mentioned pretty much sums up my sessions lately and I just want to see if there are any changes I could make (mental or physical) to maybe boost my results and take myself to the legendary super O. Read more »

Questions about rewiring process as a newbie

I just recently got the program jr as my first aneros toy. I am not a newbie to anal as I have used many standard toys such as, dildos, and vibrators. In general would say I am quite experienced with anal play as I have been doing it for several years. However I have been struggling to rewire and learning to feel with only my prostate and have some questions.

-How long does it take to rewire on average
-Starting out should I be doing anything at all eg. listening to audio, watching porn, etc. or should I just focus on the toy
-During the rewiring process should I edge before sessions
-Does masturbation slow it down
-What am I looking to feel and focus on like everyone says

Excuse any grammatical mistakes as this was written on my phone.

Forgot to add a few things. I have had about 5 or so sessions so far with little to no luck. First 2 sessions felt some good vibes and thats it. I have not been masturbating for about 1 week.

Really good session!

Started off with a good clean out, pre-lubed with Shea butter, and lubed up the Eupho and inserted. Got the Eupho comfortable and situated while I started to vaporize my weed. Vaporizing is a new method for me so I took it slow, 4-5 puffs at a time and then wait about 5 minutes to judge the high. Ended up with probably 20 hits for a perfect mild buzz. Had a lot of O’s, certainly not the strongest ones I’ve had but still good. Had a little kink happen partway through the session; received a call I was expecting from the animal hospital. The lady put me on hold for a while and I was rocked by some really good orgasms with the thought of her coming back on the line. She did indeed come back on when I was mid orgasm but I was able to very rapidly regain my composure. Some real firsts happened too. I managed to get a really serious orgasm from the Edge and some really serious orgasms aless after removing the Edge. Another first happened in the shower after the session. I luxuriously soaped myself up and was rocked by a few aless orgasms. I also managed to find my prostate externally. Rubbing it was rocket sauce for orgasms!

The Eupho undid me

I’ve had the Helix Syn for a few weeks. It is wonderful! I’ve had some amazing pleasure with it but nothing like what happened when I inserted the Eupho today.

I woke up, showered and cleaned up, put in the Helix, and went to have breakfast. I did some shopping at the grocery store. I couldn’t help but wonder if the reason why the people were staring at me was because of the perpetual smile I had or what?

I left and decided to go to the local adult store to buy the Eupho I saw in there last week. I didn’t buy it then because it honestly looked too small. But, I came to these posts and saw so many people rave about it. Those who have it, all mentioned something to the effect of not letting the size fool you. I gave in. Read more »

First aless sensations caught me by surprise

For the past couple of weeks I’ve been having sessions in a morning (only time I’m alone in the house) I’ve had a session every day for the last 7 days but thought I’d give myself a rest today despite waking up incredibly horny. Ignored the feelings and yearning from my prostate and got on with my day.

About an hour later I just happened to position myself exactly how I would for a session, laying down on my back feet flat on the bed. Except I was outside underneath my car (trying to fix it, not a weird hobby). Was in the middle of unscrewing a bolt when my legs started to shake exactly as they do in some sessions which stopped me dead in my tracks. I laid there for a few seconds and then began to feel my prostate throbbing a little and that warm feeling in my abdomen. I got up and went inside through fear of my neighbours seeing my cum while laying underneath my car. Can you imagine?

Anyway, back inside, got on the floor in the same position and sure enough the same happened again. Immediately took off my clothes and just laid there enjoying the twitching and gentle feelings of pleasure. Started deep breathing and relaxed myself some more and the feelings grew… almost couldn’t believe it. After 5-10 minutes of deep breathing I had a sort of falling/spinning feeling in my head, felt like I was really far away from my body and then all of a sudden this orgasmic feeling just grew and kept getting bigger and more intense. Sort of felt like I was watching it grow from outside my body? Read more »

Try the 950

I didn’t care for it much at first, but after a few months of pgasm experience, it’s becoming my favorite of the set. The last 2 sessions last night and day before were very successful in triggering even longer sustained orgasms… so much so that my body gets VERY exhausted from the constant spasming. The ONLY negative is that, because it’s more intense, your prostate is “sore/tired” for longer.

I think it’s because of the perineum tab… it’s not so much a tab, but a literal hook handle. That extra bit against your perineum is VERY effective at bringing on heavier orgasms. And the shape of the toy gives a constant pressing on your prostate, so even when your ass instinctively starts “pushing”, it’s still firmly against your prostate, so the orgasm is more constant. (My theory at least)

But don’t get me wrong, those very light ticklish orgasms the thinner toys give, like the Eupho, are heavenly too.

Anyway, enough rambling. Give it a try!

Sessions without fantasizing?

I am a former porn addict. I haven’t watched it for more than a year now, with a few, brief fallbacks, nothing crazy. I’ve had great success with the aneros prostate orgasms and non ejaculatory orgasms etc. This was all achieved by fantasizing. I feel like the way I fantasies is very goal oriented and (for me) shock related. It’s all my mind can do inorder to feel good at the moment. In other words I don’t feel completely well with it. No shame or this and that, this is just my observation, that it is draining me and regressing me into my former self. I am not demonizing fantasy or anything, this is just my experience of where I am at at the moment.

ANYWAYS- my question is: is it possible to have succes WITHOUT fantasizing? If not: is it possible to minimize fantasy? My fantasizing is not organic yet and still very porn like and shock based.