First anniversary with the Aneros, 6/3/13 )A work in progress(

Hi guys,

Monday yesterday morning I observed my first anniversary of working with the Aneros. But before that event, in September or October 2011 some guys on BateWorld, a social website for guys into masturbation, introduced me to the Aneros. They were devoted Aneros users and saw how it enhanced both their prostate health and their sexual wellbeing. They encouraged me to buy my first models. So in late December, after seeing some hot Aneros videos on Xtube, I purchased the MGX, Helix Classic, and Progasm Classic models. However they looked so formidable, even menacing. How could I insert them, especially the HUGE Progasm, into my anus?!?! Thus they sat unused for many months.

Then in late March 2012, Aneros.com began marketing the Helix Syn model which has a soft silicone overlay. I was one of the very first customers to order one in early April, a few weeks later. But still it laid unopened and unused in its box for about three months.

Finally, I summoned enough courage to use the Helix Syn for the first time a year ago, early Sunday evening, June 3, 2012. I was amazed at how easily it inserted. Three weeks later I began experiencing my first P-waves and involuntaries. A few weeks later last July, I began experiencing my first walkinggasms, chairgasms, and bedgasms as my prostate began to waken up. During these weeks as I began to participate in the discussions on the Aneros Forum, I purchased the Maximus and Progasm Ice models, some weeks later the Eupho Classic.

Vice and the paddle

It's been a while since I created a blog post. There is a reason for this. I tend to share so much on the forum and chat about what I feel during an Aneros session that I want to use my blog for new explorations and new sensations.

That's what my blog is about. It's about me combing several elements of my sexuality into a self-reflecting exercise. There are two very key parts of my sexuality that I wish to combine into a fluid and coherent mixture. I'm combing my passion for BDSM and my tantric energies. Aneros is the tool which I'm using to generate and expand the tantric energies. I can full succumb to the pleasures and sensations of Aneros. I can build that energy, move the energy around, create pleasurable feelings in other parts of my body. I can connect to a cosmic force reaching out. There's an entire realm that Aneros allows me to be part of. Rather, that other realm is constantly in existence. Aneros allows me to venture into that realm for just a little while.

This post is not about that connection though. I've written about that before.

This post is about the connections I'm making between pleasure and pain. This is about BDSM, tantra, and combing aspects of sexuality.

The Point of Aneros — In My Opinion

This is a very slight edit to the original post.

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To a new Aneros user or anyone feeling frustrated:

Seeing the length of this post with the thought of, "I simply don't have the time or desire to read all this!" Let me give you a Rika's Note version of what this is about. I understand initial frustration and expectations of the new user. I detail what those frustrations are and why they occur. Then I proceed to describe a way to change the mindset and approach of Aneros in order to reduce frustrations and expectations so that this product and adventure becomes fun and rewarding. If you're a new member stressed and wondering what to do, you've already spent time trying to figure it out, spend a little bit more time to read and hopefully find a few answers to your questions. Thank you.

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I see new threads and topics all the time, as well as men in chat, just at a total loss about Aneros.

I'm going to use some creative speculation here for a minute, so please follow along.

What I see in chats and the forums essentially boils down to a feeling. That feeling is frustration.

4th session, I think my prostate is starting to live

Hi guys, just to talk about this.
I got my 4th session, I relax a lot more then usual, not trying anything, just get use to the feeling.
A couple time, i had some strange feeling, i very huge hardon, very very excited, almost like on the edge of coming, but not been able to go there. I let this happened a couple time, then at one point I had to finish up jerking up. Very satisfying orgasm, but still not the big O, some feeling of having to pee, huge hardon, edging, lots of precum…..cant wait for the next one

my journey

All smiles here. I will try to convey my story with out getting a hard on. I started my journey a few months ago after I saw a video of a guy going banana's over a aneros device. As a gay male I have had a penis in my ass but I have never had any prostate fun. So i was broke to buy a device so i looked at a diagram to find it and just used my fingers. It was a very nice feeling. I haven't done any reading though before hand so i was confused on the actual feelings that I was having. I read that the trembling and convulsions were normal. First month down and feeling great. I actually just typed in aneros one day and this site came up. SCORE! Been learning ever since. I saw that the devices were really pricey so I went to amazon to find a deal. Got me a Helix syn extra excited for the sensations that will cum. I got it a week later, ripped open the package and praised my new friend that I will soon luv. Was home with family so no instant fun so after mid night hit I got some cocoa but lotion and inserted him in. Slide in very nicely and there my helix introduced him self to my prostate and now they are the best of buds.

Aneros Resonance and Harmonics, Session for April 11, 2013

Hi guys,

Earlier this week I had to get my act together and meet with my tax preparer to submit my taxes before the April 15 tax deadline next Monday. As a new "retiree," unfortunately this year I was hit with a sizable tax bill. Fortunately I was able to fill out a IRS form for an extension. So the deadline has been postponed to October 1, 2013, time enough for me to make arrangements to pay my tax bill.

Hence, my mind was far away from Anerosing for a good five days. There is a time-honored saying about absent lovers, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." That same could apply to guys into Anerosing. A guy like me who has an awakened prostate and enjoys a regular schedule of Aneros sessions craves the Aneros when circumstances takes him away from his "love" object. So when yesterday morning rolled around, after an absence of a good five days, I was really horny for the guys on my Aneros Team.

I have gotten to the point that I prefer my larger Maximus and Progasm models to my smaller Helix models. When I began Anerosing early last June, it took just three weeks for my prostate to awake. This happened during the beginning of another infamously hot and humid summer here in Washington, DC. It happened on an early Sunday morning with P-waves emanating from my prostate and spasms of involuntaries.

Oh, gluttonous prostate.

I'm enjoying a calm Saturday morning. Still in bed, checking in at Aneros chat. News on the TV.

Still echoing with satisfaction of my wonderful session yesterday evening. It was a terrific time having a mutual ride with one of my long-time Aneros pals, artform. We always have an amazing energy connection and are able to share in such a way that all sensations are elevated.

I experienced a combination of lovely things, -less, Helix Syn, retraction pleasures, even some new stuff I never thought would be so fun. PM if you want to know more.

Along with all that silliness, the orgasmic depths were extreme and all over the place. Easily one of the least "unified" session experiences I have ever had. Quite a smorgasbord. But, still loaded with great pleasures, large and small, concentrated and whole body, skin deep and deeply internal.

Just putting these words down bring back the sense memories and I begin to buzz deep inside.

This journey is at one time simple and complex. But, consistently fun! :(

The best to you all in your exploration of this wonderful mystery.

Brian

Refraining from masturbation has been a catalyst. Late night session blew my mind

For the past 20 days or so I've only orgasmed through masturbation once. I'm currently on an 8 day streak of not masturbating and I hope to continue this for a long time. I've tried to avoid masturbating before and found it very difficult, I usually become unbearably horny and end up masturbating to satisfy my urges.

This time is different though. I've been using the Aneros during my break from masturbation and it's helping me progress with rewiring. I can only get pleasure from my penis if I stimulate myself but my body now knows it can get pleasure from my prostate without me physically doing anything.

Previously when I avoided masturbation for long periods I used to wake up in the middle of the night and find myself with my hand on my cock stimulating myself even when I didn't want to. Last night I woke up half asleep and began subconsciously caressing my thighs, stomach and nipples. As I began to wake up and become fully aware of what I was doing my arousal strengthened. Looks like my body has found a new way to get its dopamine rush.

Luckily I had my peridise set at the side of my bed. I lubed up and inserted the largest one. My body sucked it in eagerly and the contractions began straight away. Very gentle but feeling so amazing.

A very sensual session… feel like I made love to myself?!

This was a very short session. I knew I would only have an hour and a half max, but I was yearning for a session so I went ahead and had one anyway. I've been extremely aroused for the past few days so I felt like I needed it.

I relaxed very quickly, quicker than usual. I had lots of small involuntary contractions all over my body, every contraction felt very nice. I started listening to Kelly Howell's 'Ecstasy' to help me keep focus and relaxation, which really helped.

I began to get very pleasurable feelings in my anus around 5 minutes in. My prostate swelled and I could feel my PC muscles twitching and dancing. I relaxed myself further and just enjoyed what was happening to me. I became so relaxed that I arrived at that 'special' place between sleep and consciousness and I began to fantasise, not intentionally though. I feel like my body brought out these little fantasies to help me with my session.

I imagined that there were calm waters inside me, I could see them inside myself. As my prostate pushed pleasure through me the water began to ripple and wave in sync with these pleasure waves. The water began to ripple more and more as I felt increasing pleasure through my body. This vision of water made me more aroused as I could feel exactly where the pleasure was, but it was also keeping me relaxed and tranquil. It was beautiful.

Buddy System for In-Person Help

I'm an old newbie, for want of better words.

My journey began on FEB 11 of this year )2013( with the purchase of a Maximus Classic, that model bought because it was the only Aneros available in a store within many, many miles of me.

I've since purchased an MGX Classic online and have also accessed a Eupho, not the Syn.

My learning curve through reading the excellent posts on this site has been an invaluable experience in my approach to the lack of any tangible results thus far. To balance that disappointment, however, was the massage I received this past Saturday from a man who included a prostate massage, and though he was a tad rough and aggressive, he found the money spot! So why not do it myself, I thought, post-massage? BINGO! Lo and behold, my first session to include FINGER p-waves this past weekend the day after the massage, which I followed up with another, less intense mini-session last night. And with my very own hands and fingers :(

So, my prostate ain't dead, for sure, and I've now experienced some of the writhing enjoyment of what I felt just like I see in vids posted online either by fellow users or others. If my finger p-waves can be viewed as groundwork laid for the Aneros versions to come )fingers crossed(, then I've accomplished a lot and can offset the longing I sometimes feel when I read about guys getting it on with their Aneros' within the first, second or third session!