Tag: Prostate

Question about sex toy

I’m trying to find and buy a sex toy (like a dildo) to stimulate my prostate to orgasm by manual moving my dildo.

May I ask help if there is a particular dildo shape/model I should be looking for?

If only this were less “taboo”…

Seriously, this whole thing feels like I’ve discovered a latent mutation, but like in the X-Men universe where mutants have to hide to blend into society :’D It’s probably for the best… I feel like talking in a subreddit like this will prove more “productive” anyway!

I have a few questions for folks, just some “in your experience” all feedback is welcome!

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Question 1: Do you require kegels to begin your involuntaries? Does actively performing kegels improve the quality of your involuntaries?

Personally, I started this journey doing Mindgasm. Having done alot of weightlifting in my lifetime, muscle isolation came very naturally to me and I was able to identify and solo flex my PC and Sphinctur fairly easily (as much as is possible anyway). The first time that I felt involuntaries though… there was not intentional beginning, not “Big Squeeze”. I was just laying down relaxing, focusing on the passive pleasure of the light pressure on the prostate. It was more like the thought “this feels fantastic how could it possibly be better” just entered my head and planted the involuntary seed. Of course they were fairly short lived… at first, I had to learn how to just let them happen and continue to focus on the now active pleasure of the pulse. I’ve done some small experiments since that include a “Big Squeeze” but I am hesitant to really open this up more. My worry is, by engaging more active control of the occurrence I feel like I may lose some of the mental “magic” associated with how I’ve discovered them in the first place… If it ain’t broke is there any benifit to “fixing” it? Read more »

How To Get Started With My Husband

My husband has mentioned on numerous occasions that he is open to the idea of prostate play, although he has never experimented on his own (as far as I know, but I will confirm) and I have virtually no experience either. I bought an Aneros a couple of years ago to use on him and have barely rubbed it near his anus. I have also used my finger a little bit in his anus, but I’m very hesitant because I don’t want to hurt him. One thing that makes this kind of experimentation especially challenging for me is that my husband does not communicate a whole lot during sex and is very quiet and reserved making it difficult for me to know what feels good for him.
This is something I have accepted about him and is not something that I believe he can easily change.
I’m looking for any suggestions/advice on how I might proceed. Is it unrealistic to believe this is something we can learn together or does he really need to experience it himself before I can join in?
Cross-posted in other subreddit.

Struggling

Hello. I have been lurking various threads on this topic and such and following the tips people have been leaving behind. However my experience with prostate play has been fairly underwhelming so far.

I have been using a helix syn trident and I don’t know if the problem with this toy is that it’s too small to reach my prostate or if I’m using it wrong?

For example. I don’t actually know if the front tab is resting on my exterior prostate or whatever you would call that area. That tab most of the time just kind of hurts and feels uncomfortable and after some shifting or positioning it stops hurting but then just doesn’t feel like anything at all. I don’t think the tab is “massaging” my prostate exteriorly.

And the actual phallic piece of the toy. I get that I’m supposed to adjust at first which I give time for it to move past that “feels like there’s something in your ass” phase. But after that I just don’t really feel it at all. I flex my PC muscle as I’ve heard you’re supposed to do. And I do level exercises while at work between my sessions to get used to that muscle. However no matter how much I flex. If I flex like 25% or as hard as I can possibly flex. I just feel the toy shift and it feels sort of like it’s settling maybe or it’s shifting closer inwards inside me towards my prostate. But I don’t think it ever reaches or massages my prostate? Like maybe it’s just a bit too small? Read more »

Troubles getting p-waves

I, at this point, have had tons of prostate orgasms where it feels like “the point of no return” from a traditional orgasm but just stays there, sometimes for minutes. There’s no question it definitely is an orgasm, but I haven’t felt any tingling or “waves” in my pelvis or my body. Do you recommend that I just keep at it and try to stay aware of everything going on in my body or is there something I’m missing?

Is this Super O?

Using progasm jr, i managed to achieved some kind of good sensation on my penis and prostate. I always play with my nipple to get more aroused and it helps make me oozing tiny flow of precum easily. During nipple play, i contract my pc muscle lightly and it feels so good.
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When it gets more intensed, i hold my pc muscle contraction(erection) for as long as i could while maintaining playing with my nipple(to get more aroused), i can get to the point where the involuntary contraction started on its own.
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The involuntary contraction becomes more intensed sucking the progasm in hitting my prostate as i keep playing with my nipple. If i am not playing with my nipple, it is hard for me to achieved this.
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When my pc muscle contract stronger hitting my prostate during involuntary contraction, my penis becomes very hard and it really does feels good. It can last longer as long as i maintaining nipple stimulation.
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No wet ejaculation, only pre cum that come out.
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My question is, is that super o? Can anyone share their thoughts.