Tag: Relaxation

Some History

I first heard of the fabled hands-free orgasm about 10 years ago while chatting on IRC. An eccentric guy I chatted with occasionally claimed that he could have orgasms while receiving anal sex from his partner without any stimulation to his penis, and then afterward could come again while fucking his boyfriend. He took this magical ability for granted, seeming very surprised that I could not accomplish the same feat.

I tried to get him to explain how it worked, but the best he could manage was a vague description of “pushing” somehow while being penetrated. I honestly wasn’t sure he wasn’t just making things up. It seemed too good to be true. Everyone knows that guys can only come once and that they have to wait out the refactory period before they can have another orgasm, right? And climaxing without touching your cock is a fantasy acted out in porn but seldom found in the real world, isn’t it?

That’s what I thought anyway at the time. I dismissed his stories as unrealistic after being unable to get even close to what he described. But I never forgot those stories or the subtle hunger I had to experience those things. Read more »

“Anatomical Delights Of A Male”

Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..

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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?

But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation. Read more »

Sunday morning Aneros session, September 9

Hi guys,

I haven’t been posting much lately because while I still have Aneros sessions about three times a week, they are so enjoyable that they are hard to describe.

However I had a session that was one of my best. It lasted about an hour and half. I used in order my favorite Aneros models: MGX, Maximus, Progasm ICE, and Tempo.

We have been having very rainy weather all day today, a good day to day home and relax a bit.

For the last several months, I have been wearing a jock and cup to bed and diddling my nipples. Diddling my nipples and wearing a jock and cup put me at ease at night and lull to sleep. Many mornings I wake up sexually aroused.

I arose at 5 a.m. to survey the weather forecast on the WeatherChannel.com. Sure enough we had a very rainy Sunday forecast. So stayed home out of the rain and didn’t go to church. I also diddled my nipples a great deal while viewing erotic pics on tumblr. For the last couple months, I can induce Super-O’s though nipple diddling and Kegeling. I experienced several amazing Super-O’s in this fashion this morning.

Finally in the 6 o’clock hour I went outdoors braving the rain to get some breakfast from our neighborhood 7 Eleven. I returned home twenty minutes later and had some breakfast before having my session at 7:15. Read more »

“Sometimes Sex Just Happens”

Background
No session this morning. But I awoke fairly early and wanted to relax with some meditation tracks. I selected one: “The Timeless Sea 10 hr’s” and began to listen. It was very calming and relaxing. It wasn’t too long before I began a meditation…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on sex. Not in the usual sense, but within the context of all reproduction of wild species. For example, how do insects mate? What about birds? And so on….

And the meditation turned-back on us humans. We certainly reproduce but in our own terms, no? We have “rules and regulations” galore—generally monogamous unions and all kinds of penalties if we are not. We human males then are not “free” in a sexual sense. We are usually committed to one single female for life. Is this the way it is supposed to be? Perhaps, but then the mechanics of sex becomes quite…..boring! There is no variety! Maybe that is why so many men have issues with ED? PE? DE? We rely more on artificial means (pills, etc.) to increase our arousal and our sexual performance. So there is a deeper-rooted psychological basis for the sexual maladies of the human male. Intriguing….

Effect with Aneros
The meditation then shifted to Aneros and our prostate pleasures derived from these simple devices. I read about men in the Forum having issues with arousal, erections and generally a lack of stimulating, orgasmic sessions. I too experience this from time to time. And I began to dwell on their cause. Of course, the usual explanation is that “our expectations are too high!” But I would like to counter that with “just let sex happen!” “Sex” in this context implies anything sexually-arousing such as an Aneros session. Read more »

Pre-session rituals?

So I’ve been working on my technique since my first super-o a few weeks ago, and in preparation for a session tonight I’ve been tensing my prostate on and off all day.

Anyway, this got me thinking about what other people might do ahead of sessions. Obv there’s the obvious/the things in the Wiki (cleaning, relaxing, being aroused etc.) but do others have other rituals or go-to prep activities?

This isn’t a help-me-with-my-technique type of post, it was just something that occurred to me and in curious. And this sub/community has always been welcoming of questions and forthcoming with comments, so figured I’d ask.

Am I two timing my Aneros devices?

Well I couldn’t resist another “flirtation” as per my previous blog. Almost identical results, although not quite as much fluid produced. What I began to think about and what prompted this follow up is that an Aneros session for me tends to follow the same ritual. It will take place at the end of the day as I settle down for the night when the house is quiet. Once settled down with my chosen device I lie and relax and concentrate on the sensations as they come and go. But with these last two experiences I have been distracted whilst busy showering etc, but still the stimulation was building without the need to focus, concentrate or relax. Although the results were not as strong as with my Progasm Jr or Eupho Trident it was still enough to leave me buzzing for hours afterwards. I came out of the shower feeling totally energised and ready for the day, a nice hot shower alone is invigorating in itself as I am sure you will agree, but the added buzz that followed that short time of pleasure was fabulous. Makes me think my prostate is a bit of a slut and doesn’t care who he sleeps with or when.

“The Language Of The Soul?…..A Meditation”

[Disclaimer: This is my interpretation only. No connection whatsoever to others’ interpretations of the “language”, either by music, feelings or other means.]

Introduction
Perhaps a little bit off-topic, but it all started yesterday. I was brushing my teeth and looking in the mirror. And it suddenly dawned on me: I can only look at my face through the mirror! Think about it: “you” are never looking at “you” (like others see you) except through a mirror, another reflection, a photograph or a video monitor. That is because of the way things are.

We have a dog, and our dog never looks at himself in the mirror! Dogs are not vain that way! But he communicates just fine because our eyes meet and he understands what I am trying to tell him. Perhaps this is the way people communicate too?

Meditation
I wore my Mueller cup overnight and settled-down this morning (quite early and after a nice session with the HIH 950) to listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. I continued this meditation…..

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It seems to me that the “best” way for people to communicate with each other is through person-to-person contact. When peoples’ eyes meet, there is a special connection there. If there is indeed a “sixth sense” I believe it is received and processed through this visual means of communication. Read more »

Incredible shared Aneros experience. (M/M)

Hey party people. I’ve never used the Aneros with another person, but I’m very good at using it by myself. I even wrote [a guide about how I do it!](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/8v1ij0/heres_how_i_get_to_my_reliable_supero/)

Recently, I connected with another guy who enjoys solo time and had never experienced the Aneros. I decided I would gift him a thoroughly, throughly cleaned Aneros Helix (since I tend to play with the Eupho Trident) and we would play together. I offered to coach him using my fairly meditative method and he was on board.

Smash cut to the two of us lying naked in his bed, making eye contact with one another. I’ve never made direct human eye contact with another man while using the Aneros. It was one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life. As we locked eyes, I felt the initial twitch go to a more fluttery place than usual. Instant omen of an intense session. I warned him. Once it really got going, my legs started to shake a bit and I felt what could have been an earthquake originating from a tingly spot right behind my cock, deep inside of myself. I didn’t even realize that I had slowly clenched down on the toy; it felt like it had been slowly expanding inside of me.

Then the orgasm hit. Read more »

“Guided By The Feeling”

Introduction
I often wonder: What is it that “drives” my prostate’s satisfaction? Why do I do the things I do to it? Such as Aneros sessions, “solo chastity” play, edging/surfing with or without ejaculation, nipple stim, cuddling with a sexual partner, etc. Is it just a desire for sexual pleasure? Or is there something more, something deeper, something hidden from plain sight?

Session
Just this morning, I was not particularly aroused. I am in only Day 3 of SR and not feeling anything special down in my prostate. But I had a strong desire to act on a session. I selected my HIH 950, lubed-it up with SSG and started the session. I told myself that this session would be beneficial for my prostate’s health, nothing more, and nothing less. But as soon as I started, I knew that once again, my prostate was very pleased that it was going to be stimulated. I had an almost immediate erection (I was wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon chastity cup). I tried very hard not to contract too much; but eventually, the auto-contractions took over and I couldn’t help myself. At several points, I honestly felt like I was going to ejaculate.

Towards the end of the session (which lasted about 30 minutes), my “inner voice” told me to take-off the cup and just lie on the bed. When I did, I noticed a good amount of precum on the inner pouch of the cup. I had an erection, played with my cock a little, and began to feel more pleasurable sensations from my prostate. My “inner guide” told me that this session was over… Read more »

When you just can’t stop.

Still in SR I decided to have a short gentle session with my Eupho. I felt I needed something just to relax with and ease the constant arousal. Well as often happens with any Aneros session you never know what is going to happen. The first 15 minutes were just what I needed, some lovely waves and again that feeling that ejaculation was imminent. Beyond that time I end up flaccid and then the prostate takes control. I just got deeper and deeper into the session and just let things develop. After a series of orgasms I experience a bit o f lull and then things build again. Then surprisingly as I was enjoying one of these rest periods and floating in a dreamlike state I began to get an uncontrollable body shake and trembling legs. I have not had this since my very first few session when I began to use the Aneros. This time though, as I am more experienced I just let it happen and tried to focus on it, instead of the slight fear I felt during my very first times. Eventually, 2 hours later I had to surrender and sleep, once again amazed at how many differing sensations I had been lucky enough to enjoy. Next morning I had strong Aless and a few mini O’s to remind me.
Now back at day 1 of SR and feeling slightly flat.