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“Anatomical Delights Of A Male”

Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..

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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?

But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation. Read more »

“Sometimes Sex Just Happens”

Background
No session this morning. But I awoke fairly early and wanted to relax with some meditation tracks. I selected one: “The Timeless Sea 10 hr’s” and began to listen. It was very calming and relaxing. It wasn’t too long before I began a meditation…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on sex. Not in the usual sense, but within the context of all reproduction of wild species. For example, how do insects mate? What about birds? And so on….

And the meditation turned-back on us humans. We certainly reproduce but in our own terms, no? We have “rules and regulations” galore—generally monogamous unions and all kinds of penalties if we are not. We human males then are not “free” in a sexual sense. We are usually committed to one single female for life. Is this the way it is supposed to be? Perhaps, but then the mechanics of sex becomes quite…..boring! There is no variety! Maybe that is why so many men have issues with ED? PE? DE? We rely more on artificial means (pills, etc.) to increase our arousal and our sexual performance. So there is a deeper-rooted psychological basis for the sexual maladies of the human male. Intriguing….

Effect with Aneros
The meditation then shifted to Aneros and our prostate pleasures derived from these simple devices. I read about men in the Forum having issues with arousal, erections and generally a lack of stimulating, orgasmic sessions. I too experience this from time to time. And I began to dwell on their cause. Of course, the usual explanation is that “our expectations are too high!” But I would like to counter that with “just let sex happen!” “Sex” in this context implies anything sexually-arousing such as an Aneros session. Read more »

Friend or Foe?

Just had my session back from work. Manage to get around 3-4 orgasms before my body gave up
after some cleaning, I sat in front of my comp and watched some youtube vid to wind myself down
From there, I got a notification from my chat group of my close friends.
To my surprise, one of the girls shared a very short article about exploring prostate play and followed by her comment ‘Male G Spot!’
I was like, hmmm… this is a good chance to share/gather opinion from my close friends about what’s their attitude about prostate play.
So, I decided to ask her
‘hey, did you try it on your bf?’
‘No! my bf butt hole is for sh*tting only! You should ask XXXXX instead’ (XXXX is my male friend)
XXXX: Nah.. my butt is for sh*tting too! One way street

There goes the only chance… i could not continue to subject… that was a hell of a chance to discuss this subjects maturely. I guess I am living with a bunch of close-minded people.. expecting too much from them

Yeah, i should have seen it coming.

People automatically went into hard-wired mode when comes to male butt = gay… I am a straight guy and I enjoy having my prostate poked by my wife or aneros when I am solo…
I could not see the connection…
to be honest, i did envy women G spot does not need to go through some taboo/forbidden place to reach… and they could talk openly within close friends without afraid of being shunned, receiving negative feedback or being labeled as homo… Read more »

“Chastity Is A Game Of Tug-Of-War!”

Introduction
Of course, it is not a real game! But the thought process behind self-imposed chastity is indeed tug-of-war*. Let me explain……

My side of the rope:
I hold on to the “rope” instead of holding on to my cock! It is really that simple! I want to remain in chastity (and semen retention) for as long as possible. I am now at Day 9 and hope to go at least another 6 or 9 days! I ”pull” on the rope by not edging or surfing at all. I have found from much experience that too much edging, surfing or an anticipation of partnered sexual activity will arouse me too much to the point where the blue-balls are almost inevitable. So I am very careful even with Aneros sessions not to directly stimulate my cock at the same time as my prostate.

Just this morning, I had a very nice milking session with SGX which I have not used in a while. It was a worthwhile session: I expelled more prostate fluid, not precum (I can see and feel the difference. Precum is very slippery and stringy, prostate fluid is not as much so.) These healthy prostate milking sessions seem to keep me satisfied while at the same time not getting me too aroused; hence, a nice balance. I enjoy prostate massage without any blue-balls. Read more »

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

New to prostate massage/Helix Syn

I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.

So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.

I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.

I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.

I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.

Eupho use during sex!

Since Aneros claims that the eupho is perfect for use during sex I figured it would be my duty to give it a try. My wife had been asking about sex with the aneros in for a while. So with the addition of the eupho to my collection the time was fitting. Monday night knowing we would be I left the eupho laying on her night stand with a note that said “you can use this on me”. Fast forward to our time in bed together during for play she lubed it up and slipped it inside of me. I immediately got those wonderful pleasure sensations of my aroused and swollen prostate being lightly brushed by the toy. My wife had left my man parts alone during foreplay, she kissed and touched her way down from my neck to my lowers, stopping to kiss and touch around near my penis and balls. Ending up at my ass with her hand, she gently touched my ass hole with her finger, more of a teasing, and teasing my perineum as well. I was well aroused when she put the aneros in. Once it was in she rolled over onto her back legs spread, and that was my hint. Once in her, with some light slow thrusting I could feel the eupho dancing lightly touching my prostate. The pleasure was amazing, not to much but almost to much. The sensation of my penis in the soft, warm and wet environment combined with the leaking sensation the movement of the eupho was giving was amazing. After a few minutes she wanted to take a ride on top. I wasnt going to stop her. While readjusting I gave a couple light contractions and was oozing. My wife and I like to sometimes sit still with me inside and use kegals on eachother. My wife bearing down on my felt great as always, with her bearing down I threw in a kegal, the sensation was too much. We both released she went to the top of my penis, clamped down, told me to clench and hold. Half way on her decent down I was in trouble, there was no abort action, delay or anyway to get my self from exploding. I could feel the eupho dancing rapidly and my ejaculation reflexes were going. Kissing my prostate with every move of the massager I orgasm-ed. Full bodied, toes curled, eyes closed, I could feel the cum rising up out of me. My wife just kept on going, riding to her own moaning orgasms seconds later. This is defiantly going to become something we throw in from now on.

Eupho Syn session with Andrew Christian Jock Strap

Since I said I would review the Eupho Trident, I went ahead and picked up a Eupho Syn . I want to put some hours in with the syn version, before I try out the Trident version. It will give me something to compare it to in my next review to see if the Trident version really is better. This may be jumping a little early since the Trident version has yet to see my ass, but I really think the Trident version will be better. Im not going to go into it any farther than that in this post. Curious prostates will have to await my review, which I promise will be as descriptive as my review of the Helix Trident if not more.
I started something new with my sessions with the Eupho. I kinda took an idea from another blog post and gave it a try. I have been wearing an Andrew Christian Jock Strap during my session. This is really no typical jock strap, sure it has the open back harness. Its got a special pouch that you slide your goods into. It’s awesome, so awesome, im replacing my boxer briefs with the pouched versions. I could make a post just about them. For my sessions it really ensures my penis stays out of the fun. Since everything is pouched and supported it keeps the movement down with the contractions, the precum and prostate fluid contained. It really helps from a point of eliminating the distraction of my penis dripping or any penis and balls movements during my sessions. Im probably going to buy another one to use during all my sessions. Plus my wife likes me wearing then around the house. I just love the contained comfort feeling.

“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”

Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!

Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….

Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.

Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.

Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step. Read more »

“Protecting My Virility”

[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]

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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?

Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect. Read more »