Well after nearly two weeks of waiting my aneros kit has arrived. was able to find time almost immediately to try the SGX. First thing I must state is that I was very surprised at the size of the SGX and for that matter of the MGX. I have to admit I have had anal play with other items and both of the aneros seemed so small. I thought this can't possibly make me feel anything. Well I followed the guides on the package, the instructions from this sight, and all the advice I had read before receiving my toys.(I use the term toy loosely, because I see now this will be more than a play time, but a total adventure in mental and physical control)
I just finished cleaning up and wanted to write so thoughts are clear and to the point. But first thing I saw was a blog from Ashlen, and he let me see some of what didn't work for me on this first try. Patience being the biggest problem, being able to focus, and knowledge about contractions, (how long how hard etc.)
Let me state right here I am NOT disappointed in my purchase. I can see and have felt real potential for what I guess I was expecting. Touchless, not erect orgasim. I did wait about 12 minutes to relax after first getting the SGX insert (very easy for me, probably because of my other activity with anal toys)and then tried to contract my sphinkter muscles. First thing I noticed is precum dripping from the tip of my penis. I was very encouraged, because I had already read how that is one sign it is in correctly. I did not feel much else at first so I determined I would contract and hold for as hard and long as I could. It was then that I felt my prostate for the very first time. I also felt a "tickling" sensation in my anus. I held the contraction as long as I could and felt a bit of a tingling in the head of my penis. I had made note of the fact no penile touching was a key. As I continued to hold I could feel my muscles, all over my body, begin to quake, (I believe that is from holding a tenseness longer than muscles are use to. Mainly because I got a cramp too) and suddenly I felt what I thought was a kissing action of my anus. With that came a nice, (not overwhelming but nice) feeling over the rest of my body. It reminded me of the last nano seconds of a ejaculatory orgasim, but not so intense, or clear.
I had put on a video I enjoy very much that usually brings me to a high state of arousal, however, this time I was more intent on thinking about what was happening with me. What did my anus feel like, what did the sensations inside of me feel like, or could I feel them, was I misintereting what was happening and that kind of thought. While involved with that the video ended and rewound automatically and totally distracted me. I was also concerend with how much time I had before I would have someone else in the house, (too rushed I guess). I was so impatient that I began to do a regular ejaculatory activity. This was very nice to be sure, but not what I was after as I attempted this first time. Ashlen noted, "after years of instant gratification it is a hard habit to break."
I am eager to explore those new inner feelings I first felt, but not sure when I will have chance again. Need to plan for that time slot, also know that being in a state of high need for gratification will be involved.
If you have comments or suggestions or anything please let me know. I am eager to do lots more exploring. Hints on how to focus, or suggetions on contractions other than already posted, will be greatly greatly apprieciated.
Thanks for listening, and any help you may give in the future.