well, i guess it's not so easy!–today's sessions, while not totally useless, were not an advance over yesterday's success–i had a few things to encourage me but not the advancement from yesterday's starting point–seems like i've taken a slight step backward–but i do think that my p-tab does not go far enough toward my balls to really hit my sweet spot–will seriously think about stretching it if it's not working where it is–there are plenty of threads about moving it towards the ass by bending it closer to the stem but i've not seen any that say people have bent it the other way if it's too short to hit the spot