Hey Reddit Aneros people,
I just started using an aneros again last night, after having purchased an MGX years ago and using it for a bit with limited success, and then sticking it a drawer to collect dust. I definitely had some pleasure using it, but not enough to keep my interest.
The main reason I decided to bring it out of retirement is that I finally have a girlfriend I feel comfortable enough with to bring up the idea of me using something like that with her.
I had enough fun with her and the MGX last night, that I went only and ordered two more models to try. The Helix Syn and the Progasm Jr. The MGX mostly seems good to me, but the narrow P-tab exerts an uncomfortable amount of pressure. I think I'm going to modify it if I keep using the MGX.
Earlier today we had talked about our thoughts on last night. My girlfriend was totally fine with me using the Aneros, but was a bit disappointed that I hadn't paid much attention to her the whole time I explained to her that I had been focusing on feeling new kinds of pleasure I'm not used to, but that I would be sure to pay more attention to her tonight.
I jump started this by getting us unclothed and starting to kiss and caress her body. I like to have her lay facing away from me like we're spooning. I kiss her neck and run my hands lightly up and down the front of her body. I also breath and whisper into her ear.
After a few minutes of this, I turned her around to be facing me, and started making out with her. I slowly moved my hand down her body and started lightly touching her clit.
After a few minutes of this, I repositioned myself lower down the bed and started fucking her with one and then two fingers while she played with her clit. After a few minutes of that she had an orgasm and it was Aneros time for me.
I'm using a silicone lube right now. I ordered a water based lube along with the Helix Syn, since i know silicone lube and silicone toys don't mix well. For the first time tonight, I used a small syringe to inject lube into myself, along with lubing up the Aneros. I think this definitely improvement the movent of the device compared with what I've experienced before.
I inserted the Aneros while on my side, and lay there for a few minutes while my girlfriend caressed my back. I changed positions a few times, spending 10 minutes or so on my knees and elbows with my ass up in the air, which also gave me a chance to kiss my girlfriend, who was laying next to me and touching my side.
During this period I would manage to find pleasure for a minute or two, although I'm honestly not sure which part of my body was feeling good. One of the big reasons I would lose it is that I would have an unsexy thought – something I have to take care for work or something like that – and the pleasure would go away.
I wasn't getting discouraged though; I would just try to get back into the mood, maybe try changing positions. Eventually I ended up on my back with my girlfriend rubbing my perineum. Aside from my penis, my two favorite places for my girlfriend to touch me are my nipples and my perineum, so I was expecting this to be good.
It was good. I think it was probably the strongest sensation I felt all night, but a decent margin. My girlfriend and I both have a similar response to getting really turned on in that our non-genital erogenous zones will get really sensitive such that the more lightly they're touched, the better they'll feel.
She had been rubbing my perineum rather lightly, but I told her to just tickle it as lightly as she could. The only way I can describe what I felt is that right were she was touching started to heat up until I felt like it was white hot. There was honestly a bit of discomfort in how hot it felt – like burning hot – but I'd say more than that it felt really good. I think more than being intensely pleasurable, it was just really intense and somewhat pleasureable, which works out to a pretty good feeling.
The heat of it got to be too much at one point and I had her stop for a bit, but I had her come back in a minute or so for a similar feeling.
I honestly forget why that part of the night stopped, but a bit after that I asked her if she wanted to try having sex while I had the Aneros in, and she agreed.
The sex part went really well also. I only fucked her extremely slowly. Trying to go in and out quickly at all were just made the Aneros feel uncomfortable inside me. My penis was feeling pretty good though all of this. The feeling for my penis wasn't a whole lot better than normal overall, but it was definitely way more sensation than I would normally get by moving at that speed. It was a very gentle motion. My girlfriend was having fun with it too though.
Eventually I decided that the P-tab was just getting to be too much and I took the Aneros out. I fucked her nice and fast afterwards, leading to a pretty good orgasm on my part. Most nights I would get sleepy after that, but I was still so turned on that I kept caressing her body, which lead to fingering her again and another orgasm for her.Source: http://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/2u6gri/had_a_lot_of_fun_tonight_with_my_girlfriend_and_a/