Am I close?

So I had a session yesterday and it was extremely pleasurable. I was moving my Aneros Progasm with my anal sphyncter for about an hour and it made me feel like I was about to ejaculate (don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to feel). I was really aroused, but I wasn’t relaxed. The point is that the more aroused, the less relaxed I become. However, I didn’t ejaculate (which is not my goal) neither had an orgasm. Have any of you had an orgasm without being relaxed? I always go to a peak and then go down again with no sucess. I can’t go beyond that point. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.


One comment on “Am I close?

  1. You might try finding some rap you like, something with a hard beat. A little external rhythm can help you get out of your head a little.

    Muscle (anal) and breathing rhythm are really key. Once you get the hang of things that muscle control can even kick in when you don’t even have something up your butt.

    I can give you a couple soundcloud links if you’re interested, but rhythm is really helpful. GoneWildAudio is pretty good too.

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