HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away.

Cut to about a month or so ago. With so much time on my hands with Covid19, I’ve been looking into expanding some sexual horizons. Poppers are something that I regularly use and fleshlights are a godsend. I think it started with some random porn I was watching, but I decided to get back into anal/prostate play. Everyone talks about what an experience it is, and so maybe I was missing something? I started reading forums and seeing what people recommended for toys and processes. I know from prior experience that dildos just don’t do much for me. I’ve never had a plug before so I bought a cheap vibrating plug from a sex store and got started with that. The smaller size and vibes were something that I haven’t experienced before and I started craving more. 

I did a lot of reading about prostate orgasms and a lot of the forums talked about the best results coming from an Aneros device. Aneros to me always seemed… too simple? Even after reading about how they work and reading testimonials on Reddit etc, I still didn’t think that was the way to go. I was on the fence about whether or not to get an Aneros or to get something more complex (some vibrating plug with a “come hither” motion for example). In the end I decided on an Aneros.

More reviews later, I ordered the Aneros Helix Trident. The Helix seemed to be a good beginning/intermediate device, and from my reading the standard white material was slightly more rigid and maybe people had better results with it vs. the Syn. It came this last Saturday. Saturday night, I decided to pop it in and see what all the fuss was about. My expectations were super low. Not that I didn’t believe in it as much as I understood that not much might happen the first time (or even after years of use). And I was right, Saturday was fine, nothing world shattering or anything. Got some good feelings from it and traditional orgasm/ejaculation felt better than usual with it in. 

Then Sunday rolls around… My god.

Now I’ve read so many of threads on /r/aneros and /r/prostateplay and on various other websites, so I knew what specifically I wanted to try. My partner had to work most of Sunday and so I decided to strap myself in and see what I could accomplish.  I took a small edible (maybe 5-10 mg), and smoked some pot as well (i’m a regular/heavy user so nothing too out of the ordinary there). I put the Aneros in and then took it out right away. Most people talked about edging before starting their session and when anything is in my ass, my dick can only get  semi-hard at best. So I watched some porn and jacked off normally for about 20 min or so before putting the Aneros back in. What. A. Difference. 

After it was in, I layed down in bed and put on some poppers trainer videos. (Not to take hits with the video, but they are longer videos with various images/clips/sounds etc, and it was good to have on in the background.) Then I laid there and just kinda felt around for a while. The sensations were a LOT more intense than the night before. It was crazy how much different it was. I started flexing the PC muscles to move things around.

A couple different posts here mention a way to get involuntaries, by clenching the Aneros with your PC muscles and holding (I think they said between 30-70% power) for at least 30 seconds before slowly trying to release the grip on the Aneros. It’s at this point that your muscle groups are supposed to get confused/tired and then the involuntaries happen. I did this maybe 3-4 times before the magic started.

The involuntaries. The buzzing. I don’t know enough to really distinguish what all I was feeling, but my asshole was twitching on its own and moving the Aneros, and there was an amazing “buzzing” coming from my hole as well. I don’t know how else to describe it other than buzzing. I would touch myself expecting to feel my muscles spasming out like crazy, but it didn’t really feel like much. This all happened about 20-30 min after insertion.

The buzzing and involuntaries together were unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. I enjoyed that sensation for a while before taking a hit of poppers. Then, ufda. The sensation that happened next actually made me groan/grunt/laugh out loud. (I really had no expectations. I was thinking this was going to take years, and maybe even then it would feel just kinda nice.) It sent me over the edge. The self fulfilling feedback loop was created and the next couple of hours (yes hours) were… I have no words.

I had thought the prostate videos on Xtube/Pornhub etc were all exaggerated. (Kinda like straight women in porn just screaming obnoxiously when nothing major seemed to be happening.) Well that was me, for hours. I’m almost curious to take a video of myself next time to see what was happening. It was wave after wave after wave. Things would calm down and then spike again. Just when I thought it might be ending, a new sensation would crash over me. I was writhing all over the bed before I had to move to the floor (I had sweat through the comforter and sheets at that point). Once on the floor the carpet was getting wet with sweat, so I had to put a couple of towels down. I mostly laid on my back with my knees up, but I was really rolling all over, bucking and shaking.

It never slowed down and there was no sign of anything stopping.  I know people say not to touch your penis during a session if you want to train to get the Super O. One user on Reddit mentioned wearing clothes for the Aneros sessions so you are less tempted , and that is how I was set up. I had on some lightweight athletic shorts to stop myself from touching my dick. But it wasn’t really an issue because the sensations and pleasure weren’t coming from my dick, I had no desire to touch my dick at all. (Like I said before, any kind of ass play never gives me a full erection. Just a floppy penis leaking pre-cum or whatever non stop).

At one point I remember thinking to myself, should I stop now? Hell, CAN I even stop now? The Aneros went in about 12:30 PM and when I finally looked at the clock it was almost 3:30! 30 min of getting set up followed by 2.5 hours of orgasms?! (Or P-waves, not sure which) There was no “effort” to go that long, it was really a type of auto-pilot or feedback loop. Waves of pleasure and moaning, followed by a lul (even during which my asshole was still buzzing). I would move or flex my PC muscle and the whole thing would start all over again. At one point I got up to get some water (seriously, so much sweat, what a workout) and almost fell down because the waves were so intense. Should I stop? I could have probably gone for 3 more hours (my jaw was actually getting tight/sore). CAN I stop? Not that I was too worried that I couldn’t but like, damn, how do I turn this off?!

I remember reading that once someone ejaculates normally, that that kind of stops things. So I looked at ejactulation as a sort of “pull the ripcord and stop” button to ending the session. I had a hard time getting there, but just barely touching my dick ended in a crazy weird orgasm/ejaculation. So intense. Not much cum. But my dick was like 1/4 hard. After that, my ass was still twitching and I had to get that Aneros out or I thought I was going to keep going. I laid panting on the ground for maybe 20 minutes.

Sooo many thoughts. I have to thank the users on Reddit for the direction. Seriously, without all that I would never have figured this out. I know I’m lucky to have had the experience I did on my 2nd try.

I spent Sunday evening trying to process what I went through. Involuntaries. “buzzing”. P-Waves. Orgasms. Everything. I don’t think I had a Super-O…? I remember thinking towards the end, that whatever I was doing had me in an absolute gooned out bliss, the Orgasms or P-waves, it was totally worth it. I’ve had jerk/edging sessions that have lasted a long time, but NOTHING like this. This was insane. And all because of some small piece of plastic in my ass.

So… later Sunday night, I was thinking I should give it a rest and come back to it in a day or so, but my asshole never really stopped twitching/buzzing.  I was really curious to see if I could do it again or if that was a first time fluke. So I jerked off a bit, slipped the Aneros in, and within 20 minutes I was back in the feedback loop of pleasure. I had to stop it Sunday night after two hours because it was getting late. About 5 hours of this in one day! I now know why people say you need to set time aside for this. It might take some time to get there, but once the ride starts you aren’t getting off (pun) anytime soon.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/he18ek/hours_of_ecstasy_the_rumors_are_true/