Like the title says. I’ve been at this for like 10 years and only have had hands free wet orgasms that end the session.
I’ve used various aneros toys, the Njoy pure wand, dildos, plugs, and various other objects. So im well versed. Seems odd to say if I think back to shaking with anticipation and wonder the first time i used an anal toy.
Im straight so I took a bit getting past the stupid certain stigmas as a young adult. Im comfortable with my exploration now and respect everyone’s choices, so things have been a lot better since my mind is free and clear. Pot helps.
I’ve always been chasing a feeling I had when I first learned what my penis does. I didn’t cum. I was humping a stuffed animal straddling it (like I’d seen in adult movies on cinemax). I got really strong butterflies and warmth in my belly, pelvis, and anus. The feelings grew into tingling in my crotch and buttcheeks and before I knew it my chode, anus, and my buttcheeks started shuddering with pleasure. It was so good my muscles would give for fractions of seconds, and my whole body was warm and tingling. Rock hard erection but didn’t cum.
I’ve only got close to that ONCE since. I was just relaxing, breathing, and lightly playing with the rim of my ass. The same feelings started but I got distracted when someone came home.
I’ve been chasing that ever since but I can only get these great feelings that seem close to the others but then my prostate just ends up feeling like more of an extension of my penis and I cum. It’s longer than usual and feels like it has 2 phases, but that’s it. Im done.
Has anyone else had this issue? Either im not turned on enough and it goes nowhere, or it builds to an inevitable hands free wet orgasm.
Any tips would be appreciated. Im relaxed when this happens, but my body gets tense when the feelings build almost without me realizing it. Holding that tension feels good, but when I try to relax and ride it, I lose the turned on mindset.