abstinence is very important

To anyone who is struggling on the journey…. I consider myself rewired (have had Aless super Os and could Aless at will)… but will go thru phases where I stop for awhile…..

When I am in the process of not cumming at all…. I can aless anytime… anywhere… turn it off and on at will… sessions are amazing….

As soon as I start to cum alot during the week… I lose all ability to be able to have any Aless feelings / sessions are much worse / have little desire too have them.

So for anyone who can’t quite get over the edge and is struggling… you really have to avoid cumming during your sessions or after… try stick with it for 1 week and see how much better they become…. you might be surprised at the difference it can make.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/qm0q6x/abstinence_is_very_important/


  1. I’m in that camp of struggling to get over the edge after over a year of trying. I have some really nice pleasure but never anything I’d describe as an orgasm. I’m currently on day 5 of abstaining because I want to have a good session on the weekend, but I know it’s gonna be so hard after a week of not cumming to not want to ejaculate at the end if no orgasm comes after waiting a week for my session. It’s usually like a consolation prize, especially if I’ve been really aroused and haven’t had any release. That said, I have had sessions where I don’t cum after.

    I got the vibrating Helix recently and it gives me even more pleasure than my Eupho, which I’ve had some very nice sessions with. I don’t know if I’ll get there this weekend, but I think that’ll be the toy that does get me there.

    Any thoughts/advice?

  2. I wonder if that means only cumming or any stimulation on the penis? I noticed a habbit, especially after shower while watching TV to grope my privates in a matter of stretching a foot or leg, not for pleasure.

    And there are people who even edge….

  3. For myself, I typically have sessions on weekends… on the second day, and occasionally the third day… it is harder for me to have as much pleasure…. but after abstaining for 4-5 days…. lol well that first day back is soooooo damn awesome. I agree with you.

  4. This an kegel muscle control I want to try. I am gonna try and participate in No Nut November. Honestly three days in and a nice session later I am feeling good. Hopefully I can keep it up.

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