So I have the progasm black ice, and to be completely honest I love it. When I put it in it give a very nice a pleasant “full” feeling. And usually only a minute or two after it’s inserted my butthole starts to twice and it feels great, then I get hard from just that, which feels great as well. But then nothing. The twitching stops and my hard on goes away and everything just kind of fizzles out (but the pleasant “full” feeling remains).
So when this happened last night I just tried to remember what I’ve read on all these forums where most people say just “do nothing”, so I tried that and then, I literally almost fell asleep. So I woke myself back up and tried doing kegals. Little flexes weren’t doing much so I tried to flex as hard as I could for as long as I could (these flexes are a “pulling” flex, like trying to stop my pee stream. Pushing it like a poop didn’t really do anything at all). Which felt great when I was flexing, but it wore me out very quickly and if I wasn’t flexing the feelings faded quickly.
So I guess I’m just asking for advice. I feel pleasure with it in. But it’s not a building pleasure like everyone seems to describe. What should I be doing?Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/rxhekp/what_should_i_be_doing_with_the_toy_once_its_in/