Anyone here who suddenly had significant “success” after years of not much?

I’ve enjoyed Aneros toys for years and had occasional P waves, but never much more than that despite trying a lot of different suggestions, Mindgasm, etc.

I’m just wondering if there’s anyone who was like me for a long time, but then got to a greater level. If so, did you do something different? Different toy or technique? Or was it just that one day it happened?

I feel like the most difficult part is getting/staying aroused

Just wondering if anyone has similar experiences, or any thoughts and strategies to share…

I find the Aneros enjoyable to various degrees almost every time I use it, but I’ve had very few sessions over the years that felt “different.” There was only one where I really felt like it took over and I had something akin to multiple super-o’s. That was probably a year ago and, if anything, I feel like I’ve gotten less pleasure from it over time. I think that’s because it requires a kind of unique and sustained arousal to make the prostate swell, become more sensitive, and have more contact with the toys. Earlier on, I think just the excitement and anticipation of using the Aneros was enough to keep me more aroused, which would account for greater results in the past.

I’ve tried various visual porn, just erotic audio, erotic stories…all of which I enjoy during “normal” masturbation. But with the extended time of the Aneros, not stimulating my penis at all, not really doing anything physically to maintain my arousal, I just seem to kinda get bored and distracted and can’t keep up the intensity.

Eventually (say, after 45 minutes up to as much as 2 hours), I give up and masturbate to orgasm with the toy in, which always feels really good. I’d still like to progress toward the prostate orgasm in the future, however.

So, any comments?

What was the “aha” that put you over the edge?

I’ve seen a number of commenters talk about something they did differently that caused Aneros play to go from good to oh-wow-super-o. For example: a different model, a different body position, different lube, etc. For those who have had that “I tried this and everything changed” experience, what was the switch?

BTW, I’m enjoying myself with my current progress and experience, not being impatient or pushing for more; I’m just curious if there are any patterns here.

What’s you exercise routine?

I’m wondering if most here do regular kegel/anal sphincter exercise, or mostly just while using an Aneros? What’s your routine?

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