Where should the aneros touch the prostate? Is my prostate too shallow?

I’ve seen diagrams showing the tip of the aneros in contact with the prostate, but from feeling with my finger while the toy is inserted my prostate seems to be significantly more shallow than that. I have pretty much every model and this appears to be the case for all of them. From what I can tell the massagers currently touch the prostate on the middle hump, causing some stimulation, but I feel like I have been stuck for a while.

Is it possible that my prostate is too shallow for the massagers? How can I properly check if they make contact where they are supposed to?

I have recently modified a MGX Trident by shortening the insertable part and the first session seems to be promising, from what I can tell the tip now is touching the prostate. Is this a good approach? Tips?

Muscle soreness in abs on day after session

After my recent sessions I have been experiencing significant muscle soreness in my abs, especially on the outer parts of them. During sessions I feel some (involuntary) tension in those areas.

Is this a good sign of progress or should I try to relax the muscles more?

Am I on the right path here?

Hello everyone,

I bought my first Aneros, a Helix Syn, about 1-2 years ago. In the beginning I was very unfamiliar with anal play (straight guy in 20s) and was just fooling around a bit. I remember that inserting into my butt made me uncomfortable. I also didn’t really get any good feelings from it at the very start.

After a few sessions I bought a different model (can’t remember which one exactly) and ordered poppers, seeing that many people have had better results with them. In the next sessions I had a nice feeling of pressure inside me, especially after a sniff of poppers (I guess that was the aneros pushing onto the prostate). I also felt some very slight involuntary contractions: I involuntarily contracted some muscles down there and it felt nice, but after a few seconds the contraction would stop and that was the end of it. I only got those contractions with the MGX Trident and Maximus Trident.

After that, I didn’t get any further for a long while, I even tried using the Aneros while on a light-medium dose of LSD, but the experience with the Aneros didn’t change while tripping, it was the same as sober. Because of the lack of progress, I stopped using the Aneros massagers for a while.