Author: mentoytoo
[advice] I’m lined up to have a massive session tonight but could use some pointers/tips
I was out of town since Friday, sharing a hotel room with family, so I haven't gotten off in about 72+ hrs. I typically ejaculate at least once a day before I get out of bed in the morning, so this is rare for me and my sexual energy has been building and building. This evening I will get the place to myself for a bit, so it's basically the perfect storm to have a monster session. So I'm asking for advice:
During your best session(s) what are some things you did before/during/after the experience that really made a difference in separating it from a normal experience to an amazing one. Things that brought on really hard super os, or rolling orgasms, or multiples with short lag periods, etc.
I'm thinking about things as simple as a hot bath before hand, to more complex things like a very specific body positioning or listening to music or porn. Just about anything that really made a difference for you that I could easily replicate.
I'll be using the helix syn but I also have the progasm, eupho syn, peridise, MGX, and Maximus. I also have some Lelo products and dildos that are fun to use after I've been riding the aneros for a bit.
Thanks
Super-O visualizations
I don't see this brought up too much, but it's something I've been afraid to discuss for a while. But during my most intense sessions Ive definitely experienced visualizations leading up to climaxing. Nothing insane. Nothing scary. But visualizations that seem to represent the journey my body is experiencing.
One such visualization was a simple sunrise peaking over the horizon with the sun bursting through as I hit my climax. Really weird but also a really beautiful experience.
Can anyone else relate?
Mental baggage blocking super-o?
Recently I've been having issues achieving super-o's, which used to come to me like second nature. I'm thinking either, the form of my "swing" is off (baseball analogy) or my mental state/personal problems are mentally blocking me from achieving the 4th state of arosal.
I'm very VERY bad at controlling my emotions and ignoring my stressors. IRL I suppress my emotions rather than confront them and use them as a strength, and I'm thinking this is stopping me from getting horny enough for a super-o.
From my experiences, my revo 2 or aneros will start stimulating the anal walls by my prostate, and contractions that "stroke" and "massage" the toy feels awesome, and this will awaken my prostate. I can feel when it's happening, and I usually have to "motivate" myself to get a super o. By motivate I mean maintaining heavy breathing, small hip movements, and dirty talk to myself. When these things happen I know I'm at the 4th level of arosal.
But they aren't happening. Instead my mind wanders off.
Any advice on how to let go of my baggage? My real life problems aren't going away any time soon, but I was able to achieve super o's before. Maybe I'm not doing enough "forplay" before the main event?
Thoughts?
Thanks guys
It’s been a long journey but I finally see my destination in the horizon
TL;DR multiple_o wrote a great post about how to approach a super-o, this post is about how to get the toy into you and enjoy it, because that's step 1 in this crazy thrill ride.
First of all, I've always found that referring to aneros playtime as a journey was kind of corny. I assumed it was some jargon by the aneros marketing team or something, and discounted it…but damn! I couldn't have been more wrong and I couldn't be happier. After a long 10-year "getting to know you" with my ass and prostate, I can finally say that we are no longer in the intro phase and I'm onto some really great things.
From a young age, I've always known that there was more to this whole sex thing than just my cock. I remember getting hard-ons and never knowing what to do with them. Hard as steel accompanied by a faint "ache" from within my crotch. Sometimes it was a subtle ache but other times I could literally feel my pulse within my groin. I obviously didn't know it at the time, but I've been having A-less contractions since high school and it's taken me 10 years to fully understand It.
So why did it take so long for me to finally get a super-o if I started with a leg up? Maybe hearing my issues from the past will help those struggling in the present, and no one else will have to wade through 10 years of frustration.