Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.
I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.
Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….
While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.
However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.
The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.
However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.
Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.