Thoughts on completely transitioning to no-hand orgasms?

I supposed I should get to the core of what I’m asking. I’ve been holding back all November without masturbating and my idea is that I won’t go back to masturbating traditionally and will instead try to rely solely upon the aneros that way my libido builds up (since I already have quite a low sex drive) and I can find it more enjoyable. I’m just concerned that completely giving up traditional masturbation and orgasms might cause my libido to flat-line or result in me having difficult enjoying sex or masturbation in the future if I decide to switch back.

Like I just can’t help but think that if I really go through this without ever touching my dick then eventually it will no longer get erect because there simply won’t be a need and I’ll struggle to enjoy sex again if I ever get in a relationship.

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Safe products for cleaning the toy without soap and water.

I still live with my parents and while I’ve informed them that I am using toys just so that I could ensure I would have privacy from them snooping through my stuff. I’m still stuck with trying to find the time and place to actually enjoy the toy. I’ve always handled my stuff in the shower because for quick masturbation that works perfectly fine, but I can’t rely upon that as prostate play can last far longer and obviously a key is to be relaxed and I can’t relax while worry about not taking too long in the shower.

So I’m wondering if stuff like wet wipes would be safe to use on the product so that I could potentially enjoy myself in my room or maybe take my car and find some place quiet and still have a way of cleaning my toy and hands afterwards.

Guide To Bowel Movements

An icky question, but not something I see adressed in much detail. How are you guys able to enjoy yourself so often without the disturbance of bowel movements? I eat relatively healthy and try to eat foods with fiber but I still get plenty of loose stools and stools that don’t fully evacuate. I also have IBS which is likely playing a big part in this. Does anyone know a solution to this? I really want to enjoy my new toy but it feels like it’s just never safe to do so.

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