Author: spoopyhaunt

Porn to wake up the prostate?? 🤔

I was hanging out in the Aneros official chat and getting some tips from people, and one guy suggested that the reason I can’t get my prostate to wake up is because I’m using it a setting so far removed from where the vast majority of my sexual activity has been in the past, which is, y’know, in front of a computer screen, sitting in a computer chair. 😓 Nearly all my aneros sessions have been lying down, eyes closed.

I guess the idea is to use your old sexual habits to build a “bridge” of sorts and arouse the prostate. Once the prostate starts finally making some noise, you burn the bridge and do the kinds of sessions you originally wanted to.

I’m trying to quit porn but I relapsed to give this a go. I’d really like my aneros to do fucking *anything* lol. 😅 But yeah it didn’t work for me on my first go, which isn’t saying much, since nothing does. Might work for you!

I’ll probably give it one more shot then it’s back to the drawing board again.

That’s it. Just thought I’d post this here incase anyone else is struggling and wants to try a different approach.

I rather suck at this.

After that one warmish maybe-P-wave incident, nothing much has happened since then. That was about 7 sessions ago give-or-take.

I just lie there, relaxed, breathing diaphragmatically, trying to keep my mind clear, and listening for any sensation down there. Nada. Not a peep of involuntary movement. By the time my 60 minute timer is up I’m usually starting to doze off. 😑

I tried to do as described in [this thread](https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/9641-the-truth-behind-how-to-rewire) from the Aneros forums, but the only part of my body that responds is my balls now, so that’s no use.

I gotta change something up. I’ve gone over the Wiki a fair bit but I find it’s a bit scant on what you should do at what level, and I’m clearly still a newbie.

Can anyone recommend some changes I can implement that might make things move along a bit more, or at least make them more interesting? So little is happening I can’t shake the feeling that there’s something very wrong with how I’m approaching using my Aneros.

I know you’re not supposed to expect anything, but let’s be real, before you start you should at least make sure the way you intend to practice is conducive to something *possibly* happening.

thank

[PS: My sole Aneros is a Helix Syn Trident]

Are you supposed to bend the P-Tab to accommodate your body?

I dunno whether I have more skin than usual on my perineum or something, but the P-Tab, as it came, is simply cushioned by my perineum and doesn’t do anything in terms of sensation.

I can’t imagine everyone has the same amount of skin down there, so are you supposed to bend the P-Tab so it properly puts pressure on your perineum? I don’t wanna mess up my Aneros. :c

Technique issues on first use

Just had my first go at it. Wasn’t really planning to have a proper sesh. I was just trying to see if I could get it in place and maybe get any sensation out of my prostate at all.

I’ve got the Helix Trident Syn. Surprisingly no trouble getting it in as deep as it could go, but unfortunately it slips out very pretty often thereafter. Am I supposed to hold it in the whole time with my anus muscles? Do I just have a huge rectum? D:

Haven’t been able to find the “sweet spot” for the P-Tab. 🙁 Feels pretty much the same all the way up and down the perineum.

Not sure if I had the head at the correct depth. Surely everyone’s prostate isn’t at the same depth? I wasn’t able to feel much of internally. Most of the sensation was coming from the anus, even when doing Kegels.

Gotta admit though it’s kinda novel just sitting there even if I’m doing it wrong lol