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Sweet sexual energy surrounding my Aneros models

Hi guys,

I am in sweet Aless bliss as I type this entry. I took a good five days off from Anerosing, mostly because I was in a funk from a little summer heatwave here in DC and the depressing world and national news of late.

But this morning I awoke with horniness in my loins especially in and around my prostate telling me that it was time for an Aneros session.

So I bathed and shaved and then dressed with my favorite jock and cup underneath my cargo shorts. I went to the neighborhood 7-Eleven for a cup of coffee and a doughnut before taking a leisurely jaunt around my immediate neighborhood. There is a small park a couple blocks from my apartment. Rush hour hadn't begun, so I sat on a park bench and Kegeled some. The jock and cup facilitated my Kegeling. My Kegels are now smooth and easily. They stoke the sexual energy, the fire not only in and around my prostate, but also my cock and balls. What sweet foreplay, what sweet Aless before the real thing of working with my Aneros tools.

Generally now I work in order with Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, Maximus, Tempo, and Progasm Classic in the progression of smallest to biggest. These five are my favorite Aneros models. Read more »

Daily practice.

I find lately how important it is for me to practice this Aneros thing daily. For those that don't know, I'm a grinder. No, not a sandwich. This is the term we use for us small minority of men that take well over a year to figure this thing out. I've been at this for over seven years with only the very occasional mini-O for orgasmic results in the last year, maybe a bit longer.

So like I was saying, it seems my body does better and my prostate becomes much more sensitive and awoken when I can do Aneros plus some solo dildo play daily. As an example, prior to Friday I had a string of several days in a row of sessions and was having very nice (non-orgasmic) pleasure and a very awoken and sensitive prostate. I missed having a session on Friday. And then on Saturday I couldn't even get my prostate to arouse, swell and feel sensations. Basically a dud pre-Aneros warm up and session. Rather upsetting in the sense that sometimes my schedule just doesn't work out to have daily sessions. Weird how we are all very different in our journey's and body responses to these toys.

Happy Birthday Lucifer

So today is the anniversary of life for a man I should have NEVER let into my life. I'm writing this in hopes that maybe somebody else will read it and learn from my mistakes. Being a woman I have no other perspective to write from, so maybe a peek into the female psyche?

Today is very different than I thought it would be a few months ago. I bought him a birthday gift without him knowing, and it was supposed to be getting dropped off at his house today. Instead I sold it today. He has a love for Corvettes, one day I passed a dealer ship where a bunch of brand new ones were sitting, and i pulled in to the lot. I walked up to one )top of the line every option you can ask for( and it spoke to me, I could see him sitting in it driving it the whole 9. So I bought it. I didnt want to give him a totally stock car, I wanted to personalize it a bit to make it resemble how I saw him more. So I designed a custom color for it and had it painted, did some upgrades to make it an even better car, I even hand pin striped it for him, something I havent done to my cars yet. Even had the interior redone. I dont know I just felt moved to do things in regard to him that I now understand he didnt even deserve. I even asked him one time if he'd ever gotten in the latest model…he said no, and he'd better not hinting that if he did he would be inclined to buy one…little did he know I'd already bought it for him. The idiotic things I do. Read more »

Butting In

As I continue on the Aneros path it seems I become more and more anally fixated. This week I finally ordered a Tantus Neo butt plug and it arrived today. Previously, many years ago I had a butt plug but it was a skinny, insipid little thing that tended to slip out whenever you bent down, coughed, yawned or even blinked.
What I have yearned for lately is a butt plug filled my cavity and stretched my sphincter so that I would know I was under its control and feel that I was being well drilled and stretched.
My Tantus Neo arrived today. Not bad delivery time from our state capital to my home. I could hardly wait to give it a test drive so this afternoon about 4pm I had the opportunity to lube up and give it a test drive. I must say at this point that I had also ordered some lube syringes. You cannot get the Aneros ones in Australia and these looked to be quite good. It took a bit of experimenting before I got the hang of filling them up but I soon worked out how to do this. There were no graduations on the syringe so I filled one and half filled the other. Taking the filled one I carefully inserted the nozzle in my rectum. Once it was filly inserted I press the plunger. I had only intended to inject about 1/3 of the lube but the plunger was really easy to press and before I knew anything, most of the lube was dispensed. Withdrawing it I then lubed up the Tantus Neo, giving it a generous coating of lube and then slowly pushed it in with a soft, rotating action. I expected to encounter more resistance as I hadn't even prepared myself with a finger or two. I put on a pair of panties under my underpants just in case there was unexpected leakage and then got dressed. Since then I have been walking around, had dinner and sat at my computer for about and hour. Now I am am just relaxing.
My thoughts at this stage?
I am not sure how I feel about it yet. Initially it felt good but not the cavity filling experience I was expecting. Although I am certainly not getting the feeling that it is hoping to slip out at any moment. It is staying put and it will only come out if I press down on it and tell it to do so. There is a little bit of a feeling of chafed skin between my bum cheeks, almost a burning and I put this down to sitting on it for too long.
Perhaps I am expecting too much so early on. One reason for its purchase was to enhance a fantasy where my lover made me wear a large dildo to stretch and open me up before giving me a vigorous pegging! Well I am getting the burning feeling and some of the stretching plugged feeling but I just expected more. I will keep you informed on my progress. I think my next purchase will be the progasm ice and a good, large dildo. Perhaps I am getting ahead of myself as I am yet to master the Helix Syn and should concentrate on that.

Erotic Shower

I walk in the master bath and she's in the shower. I see her wet and naked body through the clear glass. She ask me if I want her to wash my back. I disrobe and join the beauty in the hot shower. Her body is warm and wet from the warm water, She soaps up a shower puff and begins to wash me. Every crack and crevice with strict attention to detail. The feeling is very erotic. She kneels in front of me and slides up the inside of my legs grazing my cock and balls. She slips my flaccid penis into her warm mouth as she caresses the inside of my legs.The hot drops are pelting all over my body. I am thoroughly aroused as she slides back up my body and has me put my hands on the tile wall. She drags the soapy puff up and down my backside. She glides the puff up and down my crack and I twitch with anticipation. My cock starts to harden as she teases my anus. I am hoping she is going to enter me with a finger but this time she only teases me, leaving me aroused and turned on. We rinse off the soap and dry ourselves off.

Totally relaxed and aroused, I proceed to the master suite while she combs her hair. I get the coconut oil and prep the Vice for playtime. It slips in easily and I immediately start feeling the sensations.I slip a cock around the base of my shaft. Read more »

A Very Vice Ride

We had a nice time this afternoon together. Started with her giving me a 30 minute head start with the Vice. New level of prostate sensations today. I think I am learning how to hone the Vice into that perfect spot that runs through your whole body. I tried holding for 15 to 20 second intervals a tight as I could. I got a whole new sensation when I released. I became erect and responsive to the Kegels. after a while I experienced a constant burning sensation on my prostate. Two kinds of sensations depending on if I was contracting or releasing. Both very pleasurable. Almost had a feeling of floating. Spasm after spasm.

She joins me and takes my cock into her lovely mouth. I am already fairly erect from the prostate massage. The blowjob increases the spasms and flutters causing me to buck towards her. She tugs and pushes on the Vice as she sucks me. She pulls off and throws her legs aver my shoulders. At this point I am in a kneeling position. She touches herself wit her fingers for my pleasure. She picks herself up with her legs to let me taste her sweet nectar. As she slid back down , I put my hard cock in her wet pussy and we fuck with her legs on my shoulders. Vice still roaring. Read more »

Less is More

Rewind 5 years. I am on my own in a hotel room, still jet lagged from a long flight. My body clock is all over the place. Wide awake at 3am. Feeling horny, with a sexual longing from the lower part of my body that promises something deeper. As I lay there, I can induce gentle waves of pleasure in my pelvic area. They are beautiful but frustratingly faint. It reminded me of the mysterious sexual feelings I had when I was a young boy laying in bed naked without a care in the world. Then, as now, there was a transcendental element to it. The longing increases and intuitively, I know that a traditional release is not the answer, but I don’t know what is or how to achieve it.

Fast forward 3 years. My situation has changed. I still travel on business but have more time at home. I use it to try and fully understand what my longings were and see if there was anything I could do to satisfy them. Have been married a long time and sex with my wife is frequent and pleasurable, but I knew there was more. Then I found the Aneros. It took some getting used to but following the advice and instructions to relax as best I could, new and wonderful sensations developed and I knew I was on the right track. Read more »

Communication and Expectations

My wife said she was fine with my prostate play. She liked the intensity of ejaculations. As I started to rewire it was good to share the experience and she could get better feedback on how subtle touches were really impacting me. Nipples, inner thighs, low back, all produced small orgasmic shocks at times.

As we explored this journey, one night, I went for my Helix and she said no, not today. This led to a difficult and powerful conversation. We discovered that she did not ask permission for her vibrator but I was expected to ask permission for my helix or I was sheepish about what I want in bed.

Turns out she was concerned about sexual activity becoming about the orgasm, ejaculation, or the "getting off" and never considered that I might view the vibrator in a similar manner. I don't but she clearly saw her fear and a double standard.

I have some ambivalence about anal play. It is increased along with excitement when we play together.

The techniques of Aneros involve a different type of interaction than straight sex. Guys don't "meditate" to find the zone and orgasm. Women do take a trip in their body and find waves and have orgasms.

As we talked through all these issues we found some important insights. She realized an opportunity to coach me about the orgasm journey. She worked through feeling replaced by a piece of plastic. I am working on sheepishness. Some stuff just makes you horny. The list goes on but you get the idea. Read more »

Pumping

I haven't been using the Aneros for more than a week due to work stuff, but now I'm trying for more. I began training again yesterday, holding a partial PC contraction, then slowly contracting my anus. Involuntary contractions come and go this way.

Today, I got down on all fours in front of the mirror to see what was going on back there. As the Wiki explained, the P-tab has problems staying in place and it would rotate off my perineum. However, I was able to generate some visible involuntary spasms in front of the mirror, which looked great.

XTube seems to have a lot of Aneros users, though most of them are jerking-off with it. That isn't what I want to do. In fact, a lot of XTube submissions are using the Aneros for Kegels, which I believe just makes you sore down there. But XTube does give me some idea about what's happening in other men.

Shy Guy

So he says he's new to this. Never really admitted how much he enjoyed anal play until recently. He craves more, the more the explores his ass the more he becomes open to. Says he's curious about men…but in talking with him more I get the jist he is a little confused. I dont care if he bangs a guy or not, but in describing what turns him on…its never a man. Anal play turns him on, that has no bearing on his sexual orientation. In laying out our guidelines he lets me know that his ass holds the key to most of his kinky desires. I ideas and visions play through my mind. I may enjoy this more than I thought. I've never seen him, only talked to him, he's due to be here any minute. I hear a knock at the door. Read more »