Some updates since my last post a long time ago.
4/18 I reached my first nipple stimulation only orgasm.
Category: Aneros blogs
new toys
New toys in my box.
I’ve been finding my sessions in the last few weeks to be lacking something. I’m unsure if it is related to the fact that I have a new job or the fact that I’m now working 2nd shift. On the flip side of this I now have a few hours of “ME TIME” that doesn’t involve just being in the shower.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve not had just duds, although there has been some, but for the most part my sessions have been just lack luster. Perhaps it’s the fact that since I now have me time time I’m pushing myself to reach the previously acquired pinical levels, or the fact that I’m not used to having me time and I’m unable to let go?, or maybe my body is still getting used to a new normal.
Lately during my sessions I’ve been spending more time being active performing clenching (kegels) trying to increase sensations even though it never got me very far in the beginning, thus I adopted the do nothing approach that has given me several super o’s. So in review of these findings I feel that I need more pressure on my prostate but still retain the do nothing approach. So I purchased the NJOY Pfun Plug. I have used this a hand full of times. What a wonderful piece of kit this is. So smooth and shiny, and incredibly heavy. The first time I went to join with this I was concerned I would have problems getting it in as it is larger than the progasm jr, but because of the shape it slid in so easily. I absolutely adore the cold of the steel at room temp once fully inserted. But all this comes at a price. Because the shaft is not a rapid taper and the fact that it is 3/4# in weight, this thing is almost impossible to keep in when standing. Now to the meaty part.
“Chastity Groin Cup: A Fapstronaut’s Friend”
Background
I am surprised that I was unable to find a connection online. While abstaining from PMO in NoFap*, it is easy for me to avoid porn (P). In fact, I have done so for over 60 days already! Yes, I will get urges and a few thoughts remembered, but in general, I am abstaining from porn for the long-haul. I can do that!
The night-time erections are starting to return stronger than during the last ‘flatline’. In fact, I had a couple of automatic, spontaneous erections during the day yesterday that really surprised me. They were so strong that I was starting to leak some precum.
Groin Cups**
Now, what does all this have to do with groin cups you may ask? Well, for me, it is only natural that I control my urge to masturbate and ejaculate (MO) while practicing NoFap. To just “will it” and keep my hands off sometimes is too difficult, especially when the arousal is strong and my SR days are increasing. To counteract the urge, during those times, I find that putting-on an athletic hard cup (groin protection) is the best solution. It doesn’t matter which one I choose, they all will completely prevent me from making contact with my package and that will prevent me from masturbating.
“Yet Another Flatline?”
[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]
Background
Stats: SR Day 3 NoFap PMO Day 59. My last SR run ended at Day 9. I wasn’t really feeling the ‘blue-balls’ (yet) but I just wanted to ‘clear the pipes’. I did a weekly prostate massage with my MGX Classic. What an awesome ride! About 30 minutes and I thoroughly enjoyed the therapy! I am pre-lubing before insertion and that is making a world of difference in my sessions! I’ll be sure to keep it up!
I still feel the need to prohibit any tendency to masturbate by wearing a cup, usually in the early-morning hours after I awake with an erection. I just find that the hard cup keeps my hands away from my package and, yes, it just feels so good!
Flatline?
Why do I think I am entering yet another so-called flatline? My night time erections are still there but they don’t seem as plentiful, or rather, they are not waking me up like before. I really don’t feel close to the PONR like I have. During the day, I have zero erections. I’m not complaining, but it would be nice to get a little bit of a rise once in a while.
My Experience Using The Aneros Vice
I picked up the Vice earlier this year since I’d heard good things on a few Reddit forums. I was first introduced to Aneros toys with the Syn Trident but I wanted to get something with a vibrator. Hence why I picked up the Vice.
The Vice is a little different to most vibrating prostate massagers in the sense that the battery powered vibrator slides into the middle of the toy and can be easily removed which has proved very useful for cleaning.
The toy itself has a nice girth to it. It’s not too wide but also wide enough to give me the feeling of fullness I enjoy from anal toys. Add in some vibrations and you’ve got the entire package required for leg-shaking prostate orgasms. The Vice never fails to please.
Overall, I’d highly recommend this prostate massager to anybody whether you’re a complete noob or an experienced prostate player like myself.
I wrote a full review here if you’re interested in reading about my full experience:
https://doctorclimax.com/aneros-vice/
“NoFap Erections: Dancing Around A Wet Dream”
[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]
Background
Now at SR Day 6 and NoFap PMO Day 54. My night-time erections (since NoFap) have been incredibly strong. I feel like I am oh-so-close to a wet dream! I know that I probably will not have one when I am awake, but I have been having rather vivid dreams lately, mostly of a non-sexual nature. Just last night, while awake with a steel-hard erection and not wearing a cup (yet!) even a very slight movement while on my stomach nudged me ever-so-close to the PONR and, potentially, an ejaculation. All without using my hands at all. I honestly believe that I am headed for a wet dream any night now. I still must relieve my ‘blue-balls’ with an ejaculation but the stimulation is less than I would received from a HJ. Technically, not really a relapse since I am completely abstaining from porn now (and binaural beats as well).
Erection Quality with NoFap
I believe I have entered and exited at least two (maybe three) so-called NoFap “flatlines” since starting NoFap. Sometimes, I will have erections during the day, other days, I will not be aroused at all. But the real ‘magic’ now seems to occur at night when I will be subject to the regular NPTs. It is just that these erections seem to be different from the ones I remember prior to NoFap. I honestly look forward to going to bed now, in anticipation of those erections!
Getting some erection benefit
Started about three weeks ago. Started getting some new sensations and just a hint of an erection during my sessions. Since then that spot gets stimulated every session and my erections are MUCH firmer and more consistent than they’ve been in many months. Not getting hard during my sessions but that is not a problem.
The Progasm Black Ice is still the ticket 90% of the time.
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LongTimeComing
Yesterday, after finishing a productive morning at home, I wanted to cap off the morning by enjoying my MGX. I took a long hot shower, squirted about 5 ml of oil-based lube into my anus, and shea butter on the MGX, and inserted. I went downstairs and sat in a rocker for about 45 minutes watching a few arousing high quality porn scenes. The couple in the scene were clearly beginning to get off on each other, which got me revved up, too! I noticed a fluttering feeling and I started to squeeze a bit harder but slower, gently rocking my hips to feel the MGX rock back and forth. I precum a fair amount, and this time was no exception. The man in the video was pounding out his orgasm inside a beautiful wet hole, and I felt—for the first time ever—the point of no return!! I orgasmed too, man! Then I replayed the last few minutes of the video one more time, and came again! And AGAIN!
It’s raining today and I’m ahead of schedule, so guess what I’m going to do today….;-)
“It’s All For Prostate Health!”
[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]
Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……
Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)
I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage.
“The Amazing Little 950!”
Introduction/Background
My recent “MO” streak ended at Day 8 of SR (“P” continues at Day 41). Sure enough, I felt the blue-balls coming on and since I would be active the next day, I decided to end the streak with a therapeutic ejaculation. This one was a little different. Let me explain. I started with a completely limp dick; then gradually began to stroke. All the while, I began light massage on my perineum and my balls. Eventually, when I was erect, I discontinued stroking near the frenulum and only concentrated on the bottom of the shaft. Well, it was an amazing feeling and I was able to “delay” the ejaculation but not indefinitely. Even with stroking near the base, only a “light” touch on the frenulum caused an immediate ejaculation. I could only imagine how this effect is also manifested during sexual intercourse. That “touch” on the frenulum would be enough to positively stimulate an ejaculation. Farewell DE (Delayed Ejaculation)!
Overnight Erections/Aneros Session
Even with an ejaculation yesterday, my night-time erections last night were (surprisingly) just as strong as ever! In fact, they were so strong and plentiful that I needed to put-on my “anti-MO” Mueller cup to discourage me from ejaculation again!