How to build p waves to an orgasm

So if the butterfly sensations in the prostate is the p-waves people are talking about, I can pretty consistently get it both Aless and with Aneros.

But are there any tips on how to build it up to an orgasm?
I’m so confused because I just end up getting P waves in more n more successive waves but they never build up to a full on orgasm.

Shaking, Humping, vivid images and colours in my vision, warming in my groin. Milestone moment. what next?

Used the helix triden syn for about a year now, I was really enthusiastic initially but after stalling my progress I just used it as a novelty during tradition masturbation for the last 6 months or so.

Fast forward to the last few weeks I decided to revisit a structured process and see if i could achieve any type of O from the Aneros alone.

I have a small window of opportunity bi weekly when i have 90 mins of quiet time every afternoon where i wont be disturbed , sitting in a chair with my feet up on my desk. ( yes at work 😉 )

Yesterday I decided that my choice of lube (kY) was probably holding me back and i wasn’t using enough, so armed with coconut oil and one of those syringes that you get with kids medicine I gave myself a 5ml dose and popped in the Syn.

Now normally I would relax and concentrate on my breathing and enjoy some involuntary flutters of my muscles, get sore or distracted at some point and relieve myself traditionally. This time however I really got into the grove and began having leg and stomach twitching while my interior muscles where really going crazy with out any input from me. After about 60mins i was really shaking and I had all sorts of vivid strange shapes and colors in my head as if i was seeing them through my shut eyes.

Any advice for Aless progress?

Within a few seconds I can generate some Aless sensations – little p-waves, prostate seems to flutter, warm feeling. And that’s as far as I can get. Any advice? Just keep practicing?

How do I know if my Aneros is a bit too short?

I bought a medium size toy instead of large toy. I am a fairly large person so is it possible my prostate is deeper than an average person? Medium is for 160 to 175 cm people and I’m around 175 cm.

Could the toy not being long enough be why its so difficult to get p-orgasms?

Keep in mind I am able to precum drip from my toy.

But, I’m curious

1. if a bigger size/length of the toy (getting the large size) would make the p-orgasms easier to achieve?

2. would the bigger length/size be a hindrance/hurt if it ends up being too big (so my toy size was correct in the first place?

Does anyone pulse their pc muscle?

I know that people contract their pc muscle but I was wondering the rate of the contractions. I found that quickly pressing the outside of my pc muscle got me close to orgasm, so I figure something similar would be helpful for the aneros. However in reality, it seemed like the rate might be too quick and I was focusing too much on the act of contracting. Also for those who pulse, how quickly and how hard are you contracting?

Cumming hard with tense abs

I hold the aneros in place by tensing my ass and keep there, keep doing this until orgasm. Right before prostate orgasm, my abs tense up really hard and I have to grab onto the bed as I start humping uncontrollably. This has been my past couple of mornings before work. If my asshole is too relaxed then I can’t really use the prostate massager.

What’s been your setback when trying to get to the Super-O?

When using my helix syn, I have tried using porn off and on over the years. It gets me really excited but never really helps with prostate orgasm. Sometimes the temptation to just cum normal is too much and I cave.

So porn has set me back overall and not useful mainly because I have a porn addiction as is.

Anyway, I think I have a good plan this time.

I will use porn before helix is in just to get me going and excited. Then put helix in and then set a timer for 25 mins.

I think it will work and I’ll finally start getting results.

What’s been your setbacks when trying to get to the super o?