Success to failure and back to success

A few months back I had finally gotten to the point where I could have amazing multiple or countless orgasms with my helix trident. I even was able to learn how to orgasm aless. But about a month ago had lost all these ability’s and I was getting frustrated as I couldn’t do it anymore. I took a step back and realized that I had started to expect orgasms from sessions and thats something you shouldn’t do. Don’t chase the orgasm let it come to you. So yesterday I changed my mindset to “let’s just see what happens“ and I started my session aless and was able to orgasm a few times but my body was telling me it wanted more. I put in my helix and as soon as it touched my prostate I was having a orgasm. I was even able to time one of them and it was about 5 min long and these orgasms just kept rolling one after the other. I probably ended up have around at least 30 prostate O’s in a 2 hour session. Sorry for the long post but I’m happy to answer any questions and give advice

Think i might need to leave this all alone for a little while.

Hey guys.

(Very) long story short: i get fairly bad post-cum hangovers. Low energy and motivation for about 2-3 days after shooting a load. i thought that this was tied to my (very shitty) refractory period but i think that i may have been wrong.

In the 6+ weeks of me entering Pgasm Land my overall mood has really taken a turn for the worse.

This could all be COVID fatigue (god knows, i think we ALL know what THAT feels like) BUT it could also be a comedown/hangover from the unbelievable rush of dopamine and endorphins that flood our systems during successful PGasm sessions (and it really IS a rush, something that i previously could only compare to coming up on a metric shit ton of Ecstasy).

For those who haven’t read some of my other posts, i am a drug addict (16 years clean) who REALLY fucked up my endocrine system. It was a wild ride but i paid a price. My body now has a very complicated relationship with dopamine and the comedown FROM dopamine.

As i said, this could just be COVID + Lockdown + No gym + Losing hard earned muscle and looking like cold shite = no happy time feelings. I hope it’s just that.

If my mood bounces back from abstaining for a few weeks though….I think that would be a pretty conclusive result.

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NJOY Pure wand, A tale from the land of O.

Apologies for posting a non Aneros subject in advance – Mod’s remove if it’s misplaced as no offense is intended.

Introduction
The pure wand is big solid heavy and beautiful to look at and touch with it’s highly polished medical grade steel reflecting back the first time users (me in this case) slightly apprehensive face.

Comparison to Progasm Ice
Totally different size wise. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Looking at both I note that other than the rounded tips of the NJOY the overall girth of the NJOY is smaller than the Progasm, so other than initial insertion and removal the NJOYS Size shouldn’t give anyone used to Progasm sized toys any great difficulty.
Being surgical steel it actually uses less lube than the progasm in my so far limited experience anyway.

Having trouble isolating muscles / feeling pleasure

I feel as if I’m doing something wrong. A lot of people here talk about enjoying the experience, and learning the contractions, and just enjoying the p-waves. But I feel no contractions; I keep thinking I do, but it’s not my rectal muscles fluttering, it’s just my pelvic muscles. And I enjoy the experience of being aroused, but it’s really hard to keep that up when I feel disappointed at not getting any kind of warm, fluttery feeling. The big issue I think is that I’m having trouble actually isolating the muscles I should be using. Like:

* should I feel muscles in my plevis, or up my back squeezing my base muscle when I try really hard?
* how hard do the actual muscles clench? is it a really sublte feeling, or does it feel like clenching a bicep muscle?
* what does the pre p-wave pleasure feel like?

I’ve been following Mindgasm, trying to deeply relax (almost like entering a trance), but I don’t even know if I’m flexing the correct muscles. At *best* I’ve felt a light pleasantness in the prostate, but it barely feels like enough to keep coming back. Any tips? Diagrams? Better descriptions of what pre-p-wave pleasure is supposed to feel like?

first poppers session and I got questions

Cheers,

after some time I tried now a different approach on using Aneros toys and used a VR-scene and tried poppers. The one thing I noticed, after sniffing from a ziplockback I got lightheaded after a few seconds, well and I was horny. Got a fuzzy feeling but it didn’t got me farther to anything prostate-orgasm related. After about an hour without many involuntary contractions or anything happening I just grabbed my cock, jerked off, took a sniff and came in the mid of the high. But I can’t say the orgasm was stronger or lasted longer.

So, just for generic orgasm-enhancement: when do you sniff the stuff? Once? Just before the PONR? While cumming?

And for gaining prostate pleasure? When do you use it there? Before you insert the Aneros? After it but before you have any involuntaries/waves? Or after?

Helix Syn Trident Question

First timer here. I have been using my thumb mostly, and have been reliably hitting my prostate with it. I was looking at the Helix Syn T rident model, as maintenance seems to be easy and the size is not too large. My preferred lubricant is coconut oil- is that compatible with the device?

Alcohol and the Prostate?

I see lots of post about illegal drugs (at least in my country) helping us to reach our goal .

What about alcohol?

Has alcohol ever been an enabler for a prostate orgasm?

First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help.

Grooming/hair management

I generally keep things trimmed low and then will shave the balls to back door. I don’t go completely bald around the butt cheeks and anus, and sometime feel like I should for better sessions.

What are your grooming/trimming habits?

Have you found one is better than the other for enjoying your session, hairy vs bald?

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