long time lurker here. I've owned an aneros for about 6 months. I use it about 4-5 times a month for roughly a half an hour to 4 sometimes even 6 hours. I can't seem to get the super o. I've definitely had p waves, but no super o as of yet. I'm thinking trying my aneros while rolling on mdma. experienced user, just never thought to combine the two. anyone have any experiences or tips they wanna share to help me achieve a super o?
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Am I doing it right? What feelings should I be getting? Xpost /r/ProstatePlay
I've been trying prostate stimulation for a while with little success. A couple of months ago I got a good sensation by putting a condom on the handle of a hair brush and using it in my ass. After about 10 minutes I could start to feel a small, not painful but pressing sensation. Was this me hitting my prostate? I soon started to feel the need to pee and started to drip pre cum. I stopped because I wasn't sure I was doing it right. So I decided to buy a prostate massager online. I can't remember the name of it right now but I'll edit the post when I do. So I used this vibrating massager and had a few sensations but nothing amazing. I am waiting a few days before trying again from now. What things should I do to experience a proper and full prostate orgasm? How deep should I have this massager and what feeling should I be getting to focus in during, both for the hairbrush and vibrating massager? Thanks.
Cleansing beforehand feels like a chore and a buzzkill. Any tips?
I have yet to have any luck with the Aneros products I own (Vice, Helix Syn, purchased in that order). I imagine this is mostly from a lack of persistence and practice; I'm still at the point where I don't really get any of the feelings described on the wiki and I wonder if the Aneros (especially the Helix Syn) is even reaching my prostate at all. The fact that this stage is described in the wiki makes me hopeful that this will eventually change.
Anyway, one problem I have that prevents me from practicing more than once every few months is the fact that cleansing beforehand feels like a huge chore. I'll feel like using the Aneros, but then by the time I've made sure my rectum is clean, some of that arousal will be long gone.
I used to do full enemas to clean my insides before anal play, but I guess that's overdoing it, and possibly even counterproductive. So the last few times I've resorted to only using an anal douche, but it's still quite a hassle. If I do any anal play shortly afterwards there's often some water left in the rectum, so I tend to wait 1-2 hours after cleansing before inserting anything. This means any time I want to play with the Aneros, the whole process can easily take up 3-4 hours of the day. Which is an especially disappointing investment of time when there are no results by the end of it. 🙂
My first experience
So my first experience with my new Helix syn was quite something. How it would be classified I'm not sure but god did it feel good.
Time was a bit of a blur so I'm not sure when things happened but I know I was in bed for an hour. I started off relaxing in bed while lying on my side. The first sensations I remember noticing were of the syn sliding out. After checking a couple of times I realised that it had started to move slightly on its own. I then began to concentrate on these feelings while deep breathing and really got into the feeling of the movement inside me. I then noticed a fizzing sensation in a location I can only presume is my prostate. With deep breaths and small contractions I could set off waves of fizz which was highly sensual and got me very aroused. However at this point for what ever reason I lost concentration and as quick as the feelings had started they dissappered. I was able to get back to this stage again but I got no further. At this stage I would say that was a good first session and I was very happy with my experimenting.
Is it really just like pissing? Please don’t let me down guys…
Some guy on 4chan said this:
sorry to spoil the fun, but do you guys know that it feels like shit? Jerking off plain is 100x better than doing it anally. I wouldn't even call that an orgasm, because it feels more like pissing when you have to go really bad…
Try it yourself it's not that hard, stop masturbating for a week or so and then edge all day, put a condom on a cucumber and shove it up your ass. Do it sqating but keep your back straight that's the best way to do it. Also when you hit your prostate a bunch of time it will hurt and you'll want to stop but you have to keep going and you will "orgasm" like 30 seconds after that. One time I orgasm on the floor and then decided to just plant my face in it while I keep fucking the cucumber but the most of it it's not cum it's just piss. You're basically pissing out what you had in the tubes from all the edging… Men don't have a g-spot, you don't actually get any real sexual pleasure from hitting your prostate, it's all in your mind. All of it just psychological.
Is he right? Because I, just like him, end up pissing maybe an hour or two into the session even if I pissed before starting. But some people have said that it's because you're hitting your bladder, possibly from pressing too hard(?) What is it supposed to feel like?
Experienced something new
So last night, I decided to try sleeping with my Helix inserted. I went through my normal prep and got ready for bed. I'm a fan of being on my back when I sleep and when I use my toy.
I did some gentle contractions for about 20 minutes until I started feeling with small waves. But by this point, I was exhausted from the day and just went to sleep. I woke up about 2 hours later with a rock hard erection and some pretty good waves coming from my prostate. I just laid there and let myself experience it. Couple minutes later I was asleep again.
So up to this point, nothing was out of the ordinary. Everything so far I had experience sometime before. Then something happened a couple hours later. I was awoken with a jerk and this intense feeling in both my cock and my prostate. It was something I had never felt before and unfortunately it passed rather quickly. I'm not really sure what happened but for a few seconds it felt incredible.
Oh my god !!!!
After what just happened to me I just couldn't keep it to myself. After practice with several different aneros models for about 6 months and big success recently, I just had my first completely hands free super-O without using any aneros whatsoever Came for an hour over and over again !!!! If you excuse me now, I think I will try to keep going on with what can only be described as the most intense sexual experience I had up until now.
Made some progress! :D
So after several boring sessions, I'm glad to say I've made some progress. During my last session, after 50 minutes I finally feel what it's called P-wave, I assume. My whole body was in spasm mode and the spasm starts from my thighs, and then it flow to the butt cheeks, and then around to my pubic area. I always thought the feeling of P-wave is something like a continuous prolonged orgasm (similar to the female orgasm) but apparently it's not! The spasms feel good, satisfying and subtle.
One question though, since it took my 50 minutes to get to that state, how long can I enjoy the body spams? In the manual it says between 60 – 90 minutes for each sessions for beginners but I already wasted 2/3 of the time relaxing. I just don't want to push myself too much and risk injuring my prostate.
EDIT: I enjoyed the body spasms for around 15 minutes only. I'm just too afraid to continue.
Will I Get Bored of Sex?
I just bought an Aneros Syn today and it's coming in the mail. I've done some prostate play but nothing too much. Just a finger here and there when I masturbate.
I'm wondering if I'll lose interest in sex after having used the Aneros?
I just had a Super O!
After about a week from getting my aneros, I've finally experienced it. I was focusing on the feeling of my muscles gripping and moving the thing around until I reached the point of no return. I found the first orgasm somewhat lackluster but then another one hit me and another until I was moaning and grunting and howling. I started humping the air and my cock felt so sensitive to everything. This went on for about 40 minutes or so. I was soaked in precum by the end of my session.
Honestly, though, what really threw over the edge was letting go and being relaxed. I just went with every feeling. I'm dead silent usually but that feeling will reduce you to an animal and I love it. Worth every penny.
(P.S. Is it normal to still feel tremors after you've finished?)