I finally got an involuntary contraction, but stuck here. help!

I am a beginner and I need help to break through wherever I get stuck. please help and thanks in advance.

– Before this session, I stopped jerking off for about 6-7 days. But I gave enough edging and stimulation so I can be horny while waiting.

– Did full enema. (took about 2 hours)

– I took edible 35 mg after a small dinner.

– Waterbased lube was injected

– Started with a finger and small dildo to stimulate the prostate. I was switching between MGX, Helix, and ProgasmJr to find what feels better. And I figured MGX hit the spot so I was using MGX for the rest of the session.

– And I stimulated my nipples (I think they are linked to my prostate?) and felt tingles around my prostate. Whenever I touched my nipples I felt a little bit of contraction and it led to an involuntary, also a little bit of spasm. I did not know what it was but I just let it happen. When it happens, my PC muscles got contracted and my abs got spasmed. Looks like my body almost did crunch when it happened.

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I felt tingles and was able to do involuntary contractions, but it was not going anywhere from here.

Am I doing this right?

Should I try to be more relaxed when it contracts?

Maybe I felt numb because I took edible too much? Read more »

Tips for dealing with leg shakes?

I’ve been having some really fun sessions lately, with almost-as-good-as-an-orgasm feelings lasting for many minutes on and off over the course of a couple hours. Occasionally my legs will shoot out and shake, or my hips will buck really fast for a few seconds. Pretty sure that’s a good sign, but the problem is, whenever it happens, the pleasure temporarily stops during the shaking, and I get thrown off of the groove I was in.

I’m guessing you’re supposed to accept the shakes and just roll with them?

That seems to be much easier said than done, though, so I’m interested if anybody else ran into this issue and has any tips.

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Secret perineum muscle?

Hi I read a post talking about a muscle that is located directly in the perineum that if contracted very lightly sends pleasurable feelings. This muscle works for me, its like I’m directly contracting the area around the prostate not the PC muscle. When I do a regular PC contraction it doesn’t really feel like anything, just makes my dick bounce. This other muscle sends an instant feedback of a small amount of pleasure. It doesn’t even feel like I’m contracting it but I can do it at will. I’m exited to try to use this muscle paired with my Aneros and see if I can finally see some success with the toy as I’ve never hit any type of orgasm.

Just wondering if anyone knows of the muscle area I am talking about. It’s definitely not the top muscle that is referenced in mindgasm it feels deeper than that like it’s directly next to the prostate.

Sore afterwards

So I had a quite long session with my progasm last week, but since then I feel a sore spot there the K-Tab was, it’s been a couple of days but I wanted to know, has anyone had that problem.
During the session it came a point where the toy went much deeper than usual causing also a very nice feeling, but thanks to that sore spot I can’t really use it again until it heals.

Does anyone have an advise or tip how to avoid it?

help!!!!!!!

Like many people here, I’ve been struggling to hit the elusive hfo for about a year. Here is some info:

1. I use the helix syn trident mostly, but I also have the pure wand and a dildo (both of which don’t do too much). Im trying to use what I have instead of buying more toys. Budget conscious to a point
2. I’ve read multiple posts and the faq over and over as well as other research on other subreddits and forums
3. I’m not rushing the process, but trying to enjoy it (which I do)
4. I give at least a week between sessions with no release between
5. I do enjoy the process, but would like to take it to the next step
6. I must admit many times I finish a session “manually” because I feel like I need a release to end
7. I know many people here get hfo within days, others after years
8. Poppers and other similar options are not possible at this time
9. I’ve used mindgasm and other tools
10. Not watching porn during sessions, etc.

Are these my only options:
1. Buy other toys (looking at progasm or eupho trident, but I’ve read other posts where buying a ton of toys may not necessarily help)
2. Just keep trying until it happens?

Admittedly i get frustrated but trying to keep an open mind and just “let it happen”. I also know there isn’t 1 golden solution that works for everyone but any additional tips?

Moving on to Eupho, yes or no?

I’ve been having good experiences with my Helix Trident which I try use about once a week with a week of abstinence in between, and I’ve had it for about the past few months. I haven’t had a HFWO yet, but I’ve been having a good time with the subtle sensations and I always get contractions that feel almost as if I’m having a penile orgasm, but obviously no ejaculation. One issue I’ve been running into consistently is that about 40 minutes to an hour into the session I feel almost as if my muscles are tired and Helix Trident is putting ***too much*** pressure onto my prostate. I’ve heard great things about the Eupho being subtle, and was just wondering whether I should move onto the Eupho or stick with the Helix Trident.

Something different…

So I have been playing around with and without an aneros for more than a decade with varying degrees of success but last night I think I finally had a breakthrough. A couple of weeks ago I discovered r/mindgasm and focusing on the first three lessons, doing them multiple times. I use the progasm jr and slipped that in backwards, hit some poppers and turned on the mindgasm wave pleasure ride. Wow wow wow!! Relaxing and trying to concentrate on my breathing I had told myself to just do what feels good and not focus on a certain end goal. It wasn’t long before involuntary contractions started. Then my entire pelvic region and my legs just started buzzing. I could have sworn I had a vibrator in my ass. While listening to mindgasm pleasure wave ride and flexing my sphincter and pelvic muscles i imagined my prostate almost as a ball floating in the waves of an ocean. The contractions of the muscles creating the waves and my prostate floating and getting tossed about in the waves. I started to focus on the muscle contractions to create bigger “waves” while swirling and grinding my hips trying to create a wave big enough to crash over the ball (my prostate). The visualization in my head and the pleasure I felt in my body were so in sync. I just let myself go and kept doing what felt good and tried not to focus on a goal (cumming, super o, none of that was even in my head). As I focused more on this visualization in my head I imagined the ball not only floating amongst the waves but that the ball was attached to a string or cable from the top as if connected to the base of my spine. I started to almost visualize this string or cable not only connected to the base of my spine but also to the idea of a tail, the tail of a very happy dog. I know this all sounds so weird as I type this but I was just so overwhelmed and in the moment that it all made sense. My body was buzzing, hips grinding, wave after wave crashing into my prostate. I also allowed myself to moan and groan as loudly as I could. Then I started to feel just a crazy amount of joy and happiness. I even started to lightly laugh and giggle, it was so weird and out of character for me. I was just happy and could not stop smiling like all my cares worries and fears were just gone. This is going to sound dumb,I know, but with this ocean wave visualization and sense of happiness, I felt as if I were in a movie. Shawshank Redemption is one of my favorite movies, and that last scene on the beach, I felt as if I were there, another world, and just happy. Read more »

First Super O Today

Yup, I deff unlocked something amazing! Wow!

26 years old and in great shape. I’m guessing that a combination of fitness and never giving up Aneros practice helped me get here today.

The other day, I had my and made a post on here about my first HFWO. It felt great but I knew there had to be more.

Today, the kind of pleasure that I’ve been imagining finally happened.

I’ve never experienced pleasure like this so as far as I know, it was deff a super O.

I started just like my last session. Deep breathing and watched some porn to get me more in the mood.

Lubed up my eupho and slipped it in.

This time, I tried using a few different muscles that I felt. I was using more of a “push and pull” gentle kind of motion.

I started to feel waves of pleasure. After sometime, my dick suddenly got super rock hard and was constantly leaking clear fluid.

The pleasure intensified not by clenching, but by resisting the urge to clench and pushing out gently. This went on and on for sometime. I actually lost track of the time.

Finally, it hit me. Dick still super hard and leaking. I felt like I was going to cum. The orgasm hit but never ended. It literally felt like I was coming. Read more »

Weight lifting, yoga or pilates with aneros in?

Title is someone self explanatory, but I am curious if anyone here has had success (or failures) willing to share by exercising with an aneros model in?

I just did some weight lifting with my helix syn trident in and it was a mixed bag, although anytime I was on the floor exercising, I definitely could feel the toy fluttering about down there.

TIA!