Starting point (I’m quite lost…)

Hi. As I have not had any progress, I am looking forward to some advice. So this is my story.

Last month I ordered a helix trident in order to have new experiences with it. I’m not new to inserting prostate toys, I bought a prostate vibrator last summer, but I didn’t really enjoy it and I wanted to “start again”.

The thing is that first sessions using the aneros were fine. I was able to ejaculate 3 nights in a row, but I don’t think it was because of the toy (I have been practising HFO for the last 5 years and I achieved my first wet orgasm 2 years ago. So I give credit to my experience and nipple stimulation rather than to the toy).

I’ve been trying to improve my performance with the aneros during the past few weeks, but nothing seems to work. I try not to touch my dick and watch porn. Besides, I always relax before a session and I try the “do nothing” technique, but nothing really happens. I’ve also tried to move the toy making use of my PC muscles, but it doesn’t feel confortable or pleasurable.

I am quite lost. Do you know any first step I could take?

I’m going off the toys again

Well, that’s not exactly truth. I’ve found out that the best toy for me is a finger. For those interested I’ll give more specfics at the end but let me give you context, which is more important. In a series of events I’ve been trying intermittent stimulation. I’ve confirmed to myself, that sphincter is very important and I’ve used the tips of bigger toys to do it. It was no longer handsfree, introduced hassles, silicon lubricant, in short – it required a lot of attention and activity and grew tiresome. The strategy was somewhat successful though. I was reluctant to get into the practice of using my bare hand because it never seemed perfectly hygienic but I restricted myself to external stimulation and found out that it’s good enough and felt almost hygienic. I’ve found the perfect toy and it’s not just because it’s more convenient, I think the sheer amount of nerve endings that are engaged is important. This can explain some other things that coupled with arousal would trigger waves in me – the actual principle that can be reused for new approaches and as a guide towards success. Now for the actual practice, I’ve come to appreciate putting my hand on buttocks with middle finger right in the crack but the most important thing is to use tip of finger touching and lightly pressing. Not fast, not hard and making shorter or longer breaks to relax, I feel the pauses are important too. I don’t have any set strategy yet, there are so many possible variants. Easy to change positions, some feel better than others. As opposed to toys there’s huge amount of variability and precision – where and how and how long you touch, and you can feel it on both ends. It’s been very effective.

New sensations from Progasm

I’ve had another good session last night with my Progasm. I had it in for about an hour. I started off with nothing. Left it in and did some housework. Before I went to bed I laid on the carpet on my back, knees up feet flat. Shortly I began feeling some really strong ice cold tingly sensations in all four limbs, especially my hands and feet. I felt tingly, heavy, and paralyzed. The more I breathed deeply into my stomach the more the sensations were amplified.

Now, I found some binaural beats on YouTube for prostate massage. The sound of that got me back to the sensations I just mentioned. For about a minute I lay there still and my muscles and everything felt like I was on a rocking chair being fucked. They eventually stopped and I took a shower.

Are these P-Waves or orgasms? These are new in the sense that they have never been this intense

Dealing with Arousal

What was your journey in learning to combine ejaculation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows?

If I don’t ejaculate for several days, the sessions are mind-blowing, but I am so aroused I am unable to work or study. There’s nothing else I can think about, except teasing myself through nipple stimulation or having an Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.

If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

Easy aneros mod to save your taint!

I used JB Weld PlasticWeld to thicken and lengthen the ends of the trident prongs after cleaning and roughening the ends with sandpaper.

It was easy to shape by gently forming the PlasticWeld with fingers only. It set hard after about 4 hours.

The modified aneros is comfy enough to wear for hours now.

Use a lighter to slowly soften and then reshape the arms (place under cold water to set the plastic in position) – in order to shift where the tip of the aneros reaches inside you.

Experiment,
Make your aneros work for you. https://imgur.com/DC4s9TQ.jpg

Cheat Codes

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have combined my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity, I wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Read more »

Levels

One of the times where I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle).

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

Last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance.

It is hard to define this well as I haven’t had a session for a while sadly. At the time of having these I came up with more complex, more beautiful definitions.

Levels 1-12 is my ultimate session, happens every 5 sessions or so. Sometimes requires help (weed). Not always. I only have a session about once a month. So it is rare. Most often I go 1-4. Sometimes 1-8. Read more »

Njoy Pure Wand Session- A Must Read

I love my Aneros toys, I really do. But truthfully I have a few other toys that are worth talking about. I picked up an Njoy pure wand a couple of years ago, out of pure curiosity. It carries quite a reputation amongst men and women for its pleasurable effects. If you aren’t aware of what it is, look it up. To summarize its an 8 inch long curved solid piece of stainless steel with a 1 inch bulb and a 1.5 inch bulb on opposing ends. It works great for G spot and P spot stimulation, and since its made of pure stainless its not an issue to deep clean it in boiling water. I find both ends work equally well depending on what my body is craving. The slim end is more nimble and able to touch all the good spots around my prostate. I can do circles around my prostate with the small end. The larger end is more to the point direct pressure and more filling feeling. Now lets get to the good parts. Read more »

My Only Regret

My only regret was never having a true hfwo, not from sex or from play. I guess it wasn’t meant to be, but I have surely come close a multitude of times through hypnosis, nipple play, nJoy wand, a sex machine, THC, a Theragun or sex itself! If there’s anything I haven’t tried (that doesn’t involve penis stimulation), then shout!

My big success (if you can call it that) came from squeezing my penis between my thighs so that there was very minor stimulation – this was not totally a hfwo. I used a theragun successfully and sat on it at the edge of the bed. I came, but felt overstimulated. Another time, I invested a lot into eStim equipment and finally ejaculated, but it was overwhelming. It was more shocking than pleasing.

I suppose a hwfo is not always helpful for Aneros play. Those that have it say they are tired of ending all their sessions with one, and those that don’t – always want to experience it.

A hwfo envy! But hanging off the edge is also fun. And it helps to get to the next level of pleasure.

Holding out for the weekend (retention and session length)

I’ve heard that not masturbating for a couple days before an aneros session makes it more successful.

I’ve also heard that having a long session is key and some poeple go for two or three hours which seems crazy long.

I’ve been using aneros for about a year, no O yet but here’s hoping. I’m focusing on relaxing and the do nothing technique but I allow by body to clench and twitch when it wants to.

I’ve had some success and gotten what I think are pwaves. Just two nights ago I used the aneros and my body tingled and I had a strong headrush like I was “high”. It comes and goes and eventually fades off. Maybe it would come back again if I kept my session going even longer but I get tired.

Anyways back to the topic. I had a fun session last wekend, but jerked off yesterday. So I am going to try saving myself until this wekend and will then go to bed extra early to have a long session, at least an hour. I’ll try to go as long as I can but even one hour seems very long to me, maybe it’ll be easier to do with a short break or two to drink water and apply lube.