P-waves and sensations when not using aneros?

Hi guys,

Little background – I’ve been dabbling in prostate specific play the last 12 months or so. I’m gay, so anal play wasn’t something I was unfamiliar with, but rewiring and focus on the prostate was. Last January I ordered the njoy wand and really enjoyed it, reaching pgasm manually without much trouble.

Probably 2 months ago got my first aneros (heilix-syn). I always smoke a little before my sessions. At first I was sort of let down by the aneros… or at least thought I was… until I involved nipple play (I now have suckers and clamps) and it pushed me right over the edge. The sensations I got were unlike anything I’ve ever felt, and even if im playing with my nips sans aneros I still feel p-waves.

Now I’m home for the holidays and didn’t bring any of my toys. But I’ve been noticing that I get some surprisingly strong p waves just brushing my nipples or doing kegels. I laid in bed last night and felt myself spasm and shake just from these two simple actions (I also haven’t cum since the 24th).

Is this a common experience and does anyone have some suggestions on where to read up on this phenomenon? I feel like it isn’t a placebo effect, but could it be? Regardless, I’m certainly enjoying the ride, but would love to have a better understanding of my rewiring. Personal experiences and resources appreciated!

Leg Tingles

Hi there i am about 20 months into my journey,no super o’s as yet but lots of pleasurable feelings. Just recently i have noticed when trying to sleep apart from the Prostate buzzing i have noticed Tingling in my legs i am wondering if this is part of the journey or something else, With the Prostate buzzing and the leg tingles i am finding sleeping a bit of a challenge,is this part of the process and if so does it calm down eventually.

Lying position

Which lying position can you recommend? I usually lie on my back with my legs stretched out. I have the feeling that I can relax best that way (for the do nothing method). When I put my legs up, I have to tense them a bit, which hinders my relaxation. The same is the case when I lie sideways and bend my legs. Do you guys have any ideas, suggestions, what I could and should try? What works best for you? Thank you 🙂

Should I get another one?

New owner here. Bought the Progasm Ice because I wanted a full feeling. I have no issues with the size, but I feel like my prostate is way lower than where the Progasm “points” at. I’ve used it now for like 3-5 times and I only feel like I’m hitting my prostate when I don’t insert the toy fully in and then push it towards my stomach. I did this today and a bit of fluid came out of my penis. Should I buy another aneros or still give the Progasm a chance. Maybe I’m using it wrong?

Lube choice

There are durex lubes around my area, which are the aloe vera and ky. Would any of these be suitable for aneros?

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How often do you use weed?

I’ve been having sessions pretty regularly, 2-3 times a week. Weed really makes a huge difference. I don’t want to develop a high tolerance. Would it be worth it to have sessions without weed given that the session probably won’t be as good?

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New Owner here.

Just purchased the Progasm Jr. after what felt like an eternity of research. I’m excited to get started — anyone have any tips they want to share? I’ve done some scrolling through threads and I’m excited to begin my journey.

How do you know you’ve triggered involuntaries?

Hello,

I’ve been struggling for a while to produce involuntaries, but I think I’ve managed to do it. The key for me was instead of holding the pelvic floor “in” I did a light push “out” and held it, which produces what feels like a gentle pounding inside. The frequency is around around 2 per second or so and it doesn’t really feel like I’ve lost control of my muscles… in fact I sometimes try to relax through it (release my light push out) and the effect continues despite everything being relaxed. Also it doesn’t necessarily lead to more pleasure right way or the “build up” feeling which is sometimes unrelated to the “pounding”. However it seems like I haven’t found the correct position for my aneros yet so that may be an issue.

So my question is:

1. How do involuntaries feel to you?
2. How do you trigger them (what muscles do you use if any?)
3. Am I on the right track?

Core exercises enhanced my pleasure or was anterior pelvic tilt blocking progress?

I was doing some exercises to fix my anterior pelvic tilt (glute bridges, posterior tilting, lunges, etc.). It’s only been a few days so I’m not sure exactly what happened, but I started having intense tremors in my pelvis. I think these are involuntary contractions. It’s so easy to relax and build pleasure from them. It was actually kind of hard to make go to sleep cuz they were so distracting. I’ve been playing around with Aneros for 4 months and progress was stagnating. I mostly worked on building control and awareness of all the separate muscles, but it was really hard to get involuntaries, or build up any intense pleasure. Aneros strengthens the pelvic floor, but I guess it’s also important to pay attention to the glutes and abdominals since they are close by they might play a part in prostate orgasms. Or maybe this is more specific to my experience since my APT was making it impossible to relax some of my muscles.

Does hight matter when choosing an aneros massager?

I know that people have varying success with different kinds of models because of their prostate being located a bit higher or lower then usual.
So I was thinking since I am only 5’4 feet tall that my prostate may be located a bit lower the average.
I am a broke college student and can’t really afford to try different models.
Should I get the Aneros Jr. Since its a bit shorter than the other models?
Or am I overthinking?