I have been using my aneros off and on for the past 6 months or so, with more frequent use (and progress) in the past week or two. I have achieved what I believe to be full body waves a couple times but they seem to only last 5-10 seconds before disappearing. I have a few questions that hopefully can help me progress with my journey.
1: how often should I have a session? I have been doing every night with a day off here and there. I am always excited to have a session to see how close I can get to a super o but I wonder if too frequent of sessions can impede progress.
2: lube… I have tried astro glide and coconut oil. Coconut oil seems to work better but I still find myself having to reapply every 10 minutes or so which totally ruins my session. Any advice on this would be much appreciated!!!
3: is it important to not have a traditional orgasm in order to preserve sexual energy/horny feelings?
4: when doing contractions, how hard should I really be squeezing? I find myself trying to squeeze too hard and then I get sore and/or tired too fast.
5: any advice for what to do when I start feeling p waves? I have had good luck getting them to arrive but it’s almost like I psych myself out and try too hard to get them to stay which makes them go away.
helix syn just arrived and I feel nothing?
I have an njoy wand already. Did it desensitize me or something? I haven’t done any butt stuff for a few days though. I never had a purely prostate orgasm from the njoy so I thought this might work. I’m contracting my pc muscles but I barely feel anything.
Position suggestions?
Hi
I’m new using Aneros. I want to know some recommendations on the best position to enjoy my Trident helix.
Because prostate is located in front, isnt it a good option to lying face down or lying with your chest on the bed and your knees on the floor? Is it not easier for the aneros to touch the exact spot? Reading the forum, many messages recommend lying on your back with your legs bent, but would not the Aneros move away from the prostate?
thanks for your answers
tab modification?
i read i should try to put papertowels under the p-tab but more than 5mm and it pops out…
i noticed though: if i pull on the k-tab backwards i get the need to pee which is a good sign. but i dont want to cut it off…. any recommendations? i feel like the helix isnt reaching my prostate…
[A first report after 3 months] Today I came twice in 15 minutes (using my hands)
I’d like to share what happened to me with the Helix Syn, I’m writing this after my most successful session.
I bought the Helix Syn about three months ago and had around 10+ sessions. I’m not completely new to anal play but I’m basically a beginner.
The first session were quite enjoyable but nothing special. I tried Mindgasm, I was listening to Binaural Beats, I tried to focus on the sensations and followed many different approaches after reading this sub. All the time I ended the session with a traditional orgasm because somehow I was aroused and the feeling was definitely more intense that normal. Therefore I knew that I was going in the right direction, tho very slowly.
The game changer was trying weed. I’m not a fan of it, I usually avoid it because it never relaxes me mentally, nor phisically. But as soon as I smoked half a joint, the sensations changed. For the first three or four sessions I was definitely feeling something new, they were probably pleasure waves but in the heat of the moment it’s hard to understand what is going on. I noticed that, when laying on my back, I tended to raise my legs and make them close to the chest and that definitely had an impact of the intensity of the feeling. I was moving my middle and base muscles, but I have the feeling I was more in control of them rather than the other way around. All these sessions were quite good and I enjoyed them all. I haven’t rally leaked any pre-cum, tho, so I’m still wondering if there’s something that I should do differently. However, since it’s vastly agreed that you need to focus on the pleasure rather than its effects, I decided not to worry about it and go on with this modus operandi.
Damage to your bum
I used my aneros every day for about a week and freaked myself out last night because I had some miner pain for a few hours. I’m fine today, how much risk is there for doing damage to your bum? I know the soft tissue is very delicate. What are some warning signs to get things checked out?
Experienced beginner recap and questions
Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since I’m now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.
Hello everyone,
Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasn’t until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.
For the most part, I’d feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.
The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. I’m a relatively big guy (6’2” and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.
Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun.
Those that own a progasm, do you recommend it?
I’ve had a syn for probably a little over a year now, and am wanting an upgrade and something larger sounds exciting. I have my eyes on the regular progasm but want to know if there are certain drawbacks I should be aware of.
Kind of a strange experience
I have the aneros helix. I love it and it has given me lots of pleasure. Nothing mind blowing yet but the feeling is very pleasant.
The strange experience was when I got maybe a bit too creative. I held a vibrator to the base of the anero and it felt really pleasant. It had me fully zoned out. But when I stopped I had gone completely flaccid which I know can happen.
However after some more play I decided I wanted to end the session just stroking off getting off that way (with the anero in this always feels amazing).
I could not get hard! Like at all. Fully dormant down there and this sort of killed the mood. Its now an hour later and I’m just leaving things alone hoping I’ll be able to reignite my dick at a later time. Still pent up but it feels like maybe I overestimulated things with the vibrator on the anero? Has anyone had a similar experience?
Worried I may have hurt something down there.
Advice on private shipping, through aneros themselves or someone else?
Im looking to buy another aneros toy, specifically the progasm. Im not sure if im ready for it or if it might be too large for me when I first get it, but I want to try it anyway (Any advice you can give about it is also appreciated). Obviously I have to get it shipped, and that gives a couple of problems to me, im currently living with my parents, and am wondering if there are any sort of alternatives to having them deliver it straight to my house.
I live in Canada, and am unsure what shippers different companies will use. I bought my first toy directly from aneros, and the shipping was kind of discreet, though a quick google search of what was on the package revealed exactly what was inside. Im not sure who can ship to PO boxes or not or if they can just ship it to the post office directly and I can then pick it up there instead of my mailbox. Any advice for this is recommended.