Not getting results, please read, need some help

Pretty much every post here is positive, or is just series of instructions that wont work for everyone. All the “craziest orgasm of my life” posts seem to have some element of luck, and more often have had some form of anal play. These people usually achieve the super o in a very short period of time and they really dont say anything specific that has helped me. I have read countless articles here and on the forum and it seems like there is no silver bullet. I get strong involuntaries that can feel nice but its rare to feel any sort of pleasure for more then a second.

All this talk about letting go of expectations was helpful and I have made headway, but after a certain point you gotta ask yourself, is this actually getting better or are am I just telling myself it is? There is definitely some kind rewiring definitely going on, and I see some kind of potential, but standard penile pleasure is still better by far.

I have tried abstaining from the aneros which has helped before, but I just had almost a week off and had a dull session. I have tried not masturbating for extended periods and honestly it doesnt help, I think I get closer when I have been mastubating more often to be honest because of a higher baseline libido. When I go without ejaculatory orgasms my libido drops noticeably. Read more »

Just got the progasm ice

Ok after a lot of reading on this forum and elsewhere online, i decided that the progasm ice looked like it was going to be the one for me so last week i ordered one online. The day it arrived i wasnt that horny so i didnt know if i should give it a go but i got too excited, so later that night i decided to try it. First impressions were good, it looks good, the hard plastic is good and the shape and size looked perfect (ive got a few toys already so decided that the larger one would be appropriate). After preparing myself properly, i put some silicone lube on it and put it in, and it felt awesome straight away. It slid straight in and both the tabs rested perfectly where they are meant to. I ended up doing a heap of relaxation kinda stuff and figured on my back with my knees up, feet flat on the floor was the way to go. I mostly tried the do nothing method to not much avail, and kegals seemed ok, i ended up getting some shooting pangs of pleasure rarely but i ended up jerking off and going to bed, pretty happy with how my first time had gone. Read more »

Full body jerks but no pleasure

Title says it all, I experienced full body jerks but got absolutely zero pleasure from it.

Anybody experienced something similar ?

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Ceiling fan

Something I found adds to the experience. Get naked and turn on a ceiling fan (other type of fan probably works too) so that a cool breeze is flowing over you. It’s like getting touched all over and as sensitivity goes up in all erogenous zones, it just cranks up the pleasure.

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Soreness?

So I just bought my Aneros HelixSyn (?) I believe lol, and used it yesterday. Felt really good but I felt kind of sore down there afterwards. I still have that feeling this morning and was wondering how long this’ll last.

What toy would you recommend Lovenes Edge or Aneros

I am a straight male but I have been interested in prostate play and anal for some time now. I have used my fingers and dildos in the past. But I am thinking about purchasing my first massager and the two toys that I saw that peaked my interest is. Aneros or lovenes edge. If you have had used any of those in the past it will greatly be appreciated if you can spread some insight.

Helix Syn not long enough?

So tonight I gave a go at my helix syn with little to no success. trying for at least 30 minutes with slightly different variations of breathing, positions and muscle movement. My girlfriend gave me her womanizer duo to try instead. I managed to hit the spot perfectly with it and had an orgasm. I clamped the length of the dildo portion and compared it to the aneros. I found that the aneros is about half an inch short of hitting the spot. Is my prostate just deeper in or is the movement just too delicate and requires more hardwiring?

Questions regarding ?maybe? my closest attempt to orgasm

Hey all – first time using any toys. I got an Aneros Syn.
First time I had no idea how this was supposed to be use, I just wanted to play with anal stimulation while masturbating. Then I realized this is something totally different which I was excited to learn!

Yesterday I tried again. I was laying on my side and following the guide of “sucking the toy in” with my anal muscles and then relaxing. After about 5-10 minutes my legs started shaking. Then like my whole body was convulsing, I was breathing super heavy and it was crazy. But I didn’t achieve an orgasm. I felt I was close, but there were “waves” where I would start shaking and feeling this “chain reaction” starting, but then it faded away.

Is this normal? If I kept going would I have had eventually the orgasm from your experiences? I was shocked how fast my legs started shaking and I really hope that this was a good sign I was doing it right!

Thanks and have agreat day:)

Finally had multiple P orgasms. Here’s how

I’ve wasted a lot of time with dildos and other large objects. Last night was my third time using the “aneros syn helix” and I had multiple hands free orgasms the likes of which I haven’t had since I was a child.

I started the session with weed and lube. Unlike my normal routine of constantly pounding my prostate with the largest dildo that will fit inside me, I decided to take things slow with the aneros. I put it inside me and laid on my back on my bed. I did keggels until I got tired which wasn’t long. It felt good but i wanted more. I laid on my stomach and flexed my butt and eventually started to twerk. Felt good but still wasn’t enough.

Finally here’s what sent me over the edge. I positioned my self at the corner of my bed so that my stomach was flat on the bed and my legs where hanging off at a 100 degree angle. I started to thrust against the bed and was immediately greeted by a wave of pleasure.
I wasn’t prepared for what happened next.

The more I began to thrust the more I felt a glow begging to form inside of me. Instead of chasing the feeling and trying to force the toy against my prostate I just relaxed. I let go of every muscle in my body except for my legs. I decided that whatever happens, happens. Read more »

Random involuntaries all day long and near aless orgasms

Lately after my sessions, I will get involuntaries, twitches, and quivers at random. If I am sitting down, all I have to do is slowly rock my legs side to side and barely contract my pc and the involuntaries will start.

They are very pleasurable and feel similar to that warm and tingly feeling that you get in your taint when having sex. I almost instantly get an erection and its fucking awesome.

I have yet to have a super o yet, but I already feel an across the board increase in my sexual satisfaction. Stronger libido, stronger erections, stronger orgasms and I am more in tune with my body. I have never been more sexually satisfied in my life.

Early this morning, I had a 40 minute session and even though I didnt orgasm, I find myself very clear and zen after my sessions. Even If I never have the super o, its been a clear positive to my sexual satisfaction.

Not to tute our own horns, but there are very few people on the planet that understand this and their bodies at the level we do. Shit, even the scientific community doesnt even understand it. I know prostate play has been around for a long time, but it feels cool to be on the cutting edge of something that people are apprehensive to. Its like being the first wave of people who got blowjobs in history before it became a standard sexual act. Read more »