“Three Simple Words!”

Prologue
In my estimation, the practice of male chastity for me can be summed-up in a three-work question:
“CAN I CUM?” And the answer is equally as brief: “NO YOU CAN’T!” Is it really that simple? Let me explain….

Male Chastity
I practice a form of male chastity wherein I use “chastity cups” (athletic jockstraps with hard cups) to prevent me from masturbating and ejaculating. It really is that simple. My “urges” usually occur at night when my NPTs* are prevalent. These are automatic erections (perhaps 3 to 7) that all guys experience while sleeping. They can last anywhere from 20-40 minutes or so. I know I’ve just experienced one following a dream sequence: I will be awakened with a strong, throbbing erection. My frenulum makes contact with the inside of the cup, stimulating it repeatedly. It feels like I am near the PONR, only I cannot cum from this level of stimulation. Nevertheless, I am restrained and prevented from cumming for the duration of the erection which can seem like an eternity. Such sweet pleasure! Since I can’t touch my cock during this time, I am held captive by the feeling of being close to an ejaculation. As the erection subsides, my level of arousal slowly dissipates and I return to a flaccid (or semi-flaccid) state, ready for the next erection. Read more »

How long?

I recently started giving prostate play a try. I haven’t had a super o yet but I have experienced some pretty intense waves of pleasure (or whatever they are actually called lol ). My question is how long does the prostate area stay so sensitive? I massaged it a little this morning and I have felt a feeling in that area all day so far. Is that normal?

current findings & updates

Latest updates. Some findings, things I’m going to do different, kind of long.

Got helix all polished up, ultra shiny and as smooth as progasm jr. Going to do a little more to see if I can get that deep glass look, almost there. Joining is so much easier, glides in so smoothly and takes hardly any lube unlike before. I have also changed over to using just straight silicone lube, ‘wet anal’. Only takes .3cc prelube and a drop on the tool spread out to go all night, plus because of the molecular make up it is not absorbed into the skin, molecules are much larger than water based lubes so no drying out or having to reapply on those long sessions. A side benefit is it makes the skin feel smooth and supple even after cleanup.

I think I am starting to get a feel for my rhythm. Whether pre ejac release or full on refractory ejac I have an every other day cycle, ie day 1 nothing, day 2 things start to get moving, day 3 slightly more than nothing but not much, day 4 really picking up, day 5 caries on from day before. day 6 ok but not great, day 7 getting better but seems to plateau but duds seem fewer but not great. So based on these findings and my previous experiment I was going to start doing light pressure releasing, just enough to keep things flowing. Read more »

Dry super orgasms?

I’ve never had a dry orgasm. I’ve had my aneros for a couple of months now, and am working on my first no hands ejaculation. I have gotten VERY close to achieving this, but not yet. But a dry orgasm…. Does it feel exactly like a wet one, but no ejaculation? If so, how is that possible? Or does it feel different? The only orgasm I know is the one where my cock/anus is pulsing/clenching and out spews cum. How is dry different?

My Eighth Year and the Trinity

Once I crossed the “sexual line” with a guy midyear in year seven, the rest of that year just disappeared into the abyss of forgotten events and experiences. That event overshadowed everything else that might have happened. I can’t recall much. I know I did sessions every time I traveled, which was two times per month. I was gone three – four days for each trip. That translates to somewhere between 40 – 60 sessions per year but honestly I don’t remember any of them. By that time Aneros orgasms were a sweet and savored part of my life, but they had become as routine as sex. Some were great I am sure and some probably weren’t . None the less I continued to learn and savor the euphoric rewards my body was giving me.

In January, the start of my eighth year I reached a significant milestone, that was launching my A Less sessions in my wife’s derriere; this is something that I still do to this day. It happened one night when she was wearing a tee shirt and no panties to bed leaving her bare rear exposed. We happened to be spooning at 4 AM, my “witching hour” for MMO. My morning erection happened to slip into the warm caress of her bottom. Spontaneously unbidden the MMO just started. She was sleeping and I was lodged in her crack as tortuous pleasure made my cock root pulse and impaled my anus. These A Less sensations were subtle but strong, stronger than any other A Less orgasms I had had at that point. Key was laying still and not jumping around or twitching and waking her. Read more »

Amazing things happen with Aneros when you are relaxed : Session for January 20, 2016

Hi guys,

This morning Sunday had a rare session because of course, I would be in church. But today I stayed home I had a lingering cold which I didn’t want infect anybody at church and other places. Also shortly before noon today, an front passed through ushering excessively cold air for the next few day.

Fortunately in the seven or eight o’clock I had enough heat in my apartment to enable me to have a session. For some reason, despite my cold and the wintry weather, I have been horny, randy, and HARD, I guess of some very good exchanges and ideas shared in Aneros Forum and the blog section. Last night, I had an ardently erotic night wearing my BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 to bed and so I was HORNED for session. I decided to use one of my very favorite MGX and my rediscovered Progasm Junior.

Both models performed exquisitely. All I did was the breath rhythmically and calmly as well as to let my anal musculature work calmly together. MGX has its distinctive ribbed stem which massages the anal canal while the head of MGX massages fully my prostate.

Likewise I let my body do the same thing with Progasm Junior. One beautiful aspect of Progasm Junior are the P and K tabs which “lock” themselves in the area surrounding the anus thus the intensifying the massage action of Progasm Junior. I just relaxed and let both MGX and Progasm Junior their magic on me, each in turn. I have strong yet sweet Aless since then today. Read more »

My lifelong archetypal fascination with jockstraps and athletic cups

Hi guys,

We here in DC have entered upon several weeks of excessively bitter and cold weather along with blustery winds. Meteorologists have given us this forecast to sweep away prospects of mild temps and sunny days. In fact, after some years of mild winters, a cold, blustery and snowy winter is long overdue. I am so grateful for guys who use the Aneros and are outspoken of their experiences, among them @goldenboy who loves wearing jocks and “chastity” cups to bed many nights as well as for his Aneros sessions. He believes that wearing a jock and cup for sessions restrains him from teaching his manhood. However, I enjoy very much how a jock and cup revs up the delicious, sexual feelings of my sessions while keeping my roving hands off my manhood! 🙂 🙂 🙂 The jock and cup also helps me to focus on my sessions.

For some reason all this cold, blustery weather along outspoken, candid view of guys on Aneros Forum and Blog sections have made me horny, randy, and HARD!!!

Guys familiar with my Aneros blog here know of my intense jock and cup fetish. This fetish began for sure in my puberty and adolescence when our gym class teachers/coaches told us boys that we had to get a jockstrap for gym class. It was an essential part of our uniform. I enjoyed the elastic feel of my jockstrap how it supported my cock and balls and kept them in place. Plus my the mesh pouch of my jockstrap caressed and even massaged my scrotum, cock, and especially my Glans. Slipping on that jockstrap for the first time was a sexual awakening for me. Read more »

Does the Progasm stay in place better?

Hi all, I‘ve had some time to gain experience with my Helix Trident, and it‘s giving good results so far.

One problem I‘m still having is I tend to push out the toy when things get more interesting. I‘ve tried using less lube which has helped some but I still find myself having to keep tight boxers on or keep it in with my hand.

I‘ve been wondering if the Progasm would be better at staying in place because it‘s less mobile, or if it actually would tend to get pushed out more due to the volume. I‘ve been thinking about ordering it for some time as I think I‘d like the more filled feeling, and a shop in my area has a good deal on it now. Should I get it?

Baby Steps

Started the same way as last session – relax, contractions, lubricate. On back, deep breaths, anal massage, introduce device. Anus was slightly more accepting than last time, but it was still slightly challenging. Gently contracted anal muscles to slowly draw the device in, which it did much like last time, but more reluctantly. This might have been due to using more lubrication than before. Will consider amount next time and adjust accordingly.

Gentle, gradual contractions, then release, felt good. could feel the same gentle stimulation around my scrotum, testicles, and this time, anus. Penis remained mostly flaccid, but sexual arousal was quietly simmering in the background. Went a little longer on time to see if I got any additional effects or different sensations – this time, it was more of the same, but nothing new. Minuscule movements of the device felt good – purely using my sphincter muscles. Again, body didn’t want to give up the device. It’s like once it’s locked in place, my body wants it to be part of my body permanently. Gradually used breathing and relaxing to get it out again. Anus felt normal. Same amount of precum produced as last time, and definitely could feel prostate stimulation / “fullness” – especially when pressing on perineum. Again, did not masturbate, did not orgasm.

Wondering about device placement – how far in is a supposed to go? Past the last bulb? Leave the last bulb out? will ask on the forums and see what people have experienced themselves. Still feeling things out, but definitely want to keep going. Read more »

“It’s Not All Physical!”

Introduction
I have noticed lately that not all sexual arousal has to originate from physical touch. For example, while wearing a “chastity cup” this morning, I began to develop an erection while browsing some personal hygiene things online. And I began to think: Is there indeed a mental “component” to sexual arousal in addition to the more obvious physical one? And I believe the answer has to be a resounding “Yes!” Let me explore this further….

Analysis
What is it that enables our sexual thoughts to “communicate” with our bodies? And are we males “hard-wired” for this response? This is intriguing! Does it mean that (as related to Aneros) we need to be in the “right” frame-of-mind to achieve good results from a session? I believe that most of us here would answer this in the affirmative.

I believe that there is more at work here than meets the eye. For example, how do I feel about myself as a male? Do I see myself as a super-stud, ready to take-on any available female? Perhaps in my younger days, but probably not now as an older man. So what attributes would I possess now to embrace my male hood? I think that “Aneros knowledge” plays a part here. I am more “in-tune” with my sexual self now (post-Aneros) than at any other time in my life. I am always exploring how my body reacts sexually to different stimuli; in essence, how aroused I can become. Read more »