Tag: A-less

Wait for the “whisper”

A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.

I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”

[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)

“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”

Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen. Read more »

Using a back massager to relax lead me to the Super O – IF YOU SIT IN A CHAIR ALL DAY READ THIS

If you sit all day and don’t have an active stretching or exercise routine (pretty much most of us in COVID) chances are you have some soreness or tightness around the pelvic region. Whether its’s your hips, glutes, or even lower back, tension in these areas can make it very difficult to relax.

After 5 years of trying (from 2014 onward) with only a few minor successes, a few weeks after regularly using a pressure point massager (the one I used is linked below but they all pretty much do the same thing) to loosen and work those areas I starting having consistent P-waves, leading up to my first SuperO a few days later. This was autumn of 2019. Now I am able to reach SuperO with some consistency, and recently had my first A-less SuperO.

Once I put two and two together I was absolutely astounded. It seems so obvious now that I think about it in hind sight.

Currently, my routine consists of inserting Aneros and spending at least 10-15min loosening up my hips while I get use to the toy. Personally, I find it most effective to stretch and actively move the point I am massaging. If you are especially sore this might hurt, so please be gentle.

I hope you are able to find this useful, please feel free to comment / reach out with questions and I will be happy to respond.

Massager I Use: [https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW](https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW) Read more »

First Hands Free Wet Orgasm

Just had my first hands free orgasm tonight and holy shit it was incredible! Easily one of the best orgasms of my life! I was laying there for like a good 10-15 minutes post nut, just trying to gather my thoughts of what just happened. I guess what tripped me out was the fact that I have only used the aneros less than 5 times, and I already achieved a handsfree wet orgasm. So I am by no means a pro at this, but here are a few tips that I follow that helped me achieve this….

1.) Warm up your ass and get yourself in the mood.
(I try and work up to 2 fingers before I slide the toy inside.)

2.) Take a nice hot bath/shower to relax yourself.

3.) Get rid of all expectations. Just go in with the mindset of imma relax and if anything happens, well than that’s a plus. (It’s all about mindset!!!)

4.) BREATHE!!! Make sure you take nice big breaths to help you stay relaxed and focused. (Even during P Waves and Dry Orgasms)

5.) Don’t over do it with the Kegels. This is completely subjective and it works for me, but I personally just let the toy do all the work. I will however, do some light Kegels to get things going but after that, I let the aneros do what it does. Basically, don’t be doing non stop Kegels and wonder why you’re not feeling anything. Let the toy do its thing. Read more »

Can achieve aless orgasms, no luck yet with aneros in though

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for several months now, and have had an aneros for a couple of weeks. So far I have had plenty of interesting, inconsistent, p-wave sensations during sessions with the aneros in, but nothing that I would describe as anywhere near an orgasm. I usually try for an hour or so with just relaxation/contractions but eventually I’ll give in and start stimulating my penis. At this point, I have explosive wet orgasms — and these alone are worth it — but I am still trying to achieve that super O.

But then… the other night I was backpacking with my girlfriend, she was sound asleep next to me in the tent, but I was having a hard time falling asleep. so I started breathing and doing contractions, it didn’t take long at all, maybe 10 or 15 minutes and I was feeling waves of pleasure, my muscles were shaking, and I had to do everything in my power to not moan out loud or wake up my girlfriend. I continued for nearly an hour, cresting to waves of pleasure and cutting it short just before it felt like I was about to lose control. It was amazing! Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore, and I went outside the tent and rubbed one out very quick. After that, I fell into a deep, relaxing sleep. Read more »

Had one great A less session, nothing since

As per previous post, I managed what I think was a dry a-less prostate orgasm a while back but haven’t achieved anything close to it since.

Regarding my Helix Syn, the only time I feel like that’s hitting anything is if I push it in a bit…do I need a different model that’s slightly longer?

Also, I am pretty lucky in that I do get a lot of penile action with my wife – does ejaculating pretty frequently actually mess up my re wiring process a little bit? I mean I feel I am getting somewhere the fact I have a-lessly orgasmed…but maybe that doesn’t help?

Making my regular masturbation sessions better

Last night I was laying in bed and trying to sleep when I started getting some aless type sensations. My legs were warm and fuzzy and the slightest contraction made me want to bite my pillow so I wouldn’t moan. I decided to go ahead and just jerk off traditionally as it was late and there was no way I was going to be able to get any sleep with the amount of pleasure I was feeling. The warm and fuzzy feeling in my legs got stronger and I could feel it in my prostate too as I came closer to climax and eventually I couldn’t even control my legs anymore and they started shaking like crazy. When I came, I was uncontrollably bucking my hips at the intensity of the orgasm and verbally moaned which is something I normally don’t do. I seriously think that might have been the best orgasm of my life and I didn’t even need to have the aneros in to achieve it.

A-Less Orgasm!

So I have used my Aneros Helix Syn Trident about 5 times now over about 2 months, haven’t really got further than involuntaries with it. But….I JUST HAD MY FIRST A-LESS ORGASM.

Was literally just lying on my back, clothed, on my sofa and started clenching my ass and pc together, holding, then releasing PC first very slowly after about 15 seconds and then riding out the quivers and involuntaries that started…then they just kept going….and going…until a very gentle warm orgasm like feeling took over me, my dick got hard and just kept throbbing as if I was cumming but no cum came out. It was definitely an orgasm, it definitely felt great but everyone on here is right…it wasn’t a huge release, it was just an amazing warm ride that I feel like I could have kept going forever but I forced it to stop just because I am literally lying in my living room with my wife…

So fucking happy…I’m off to try for another 👍

Question about a-less orgasms

I’ll write more about my session below, but in case of TL;DR I’ll get to the point: I get that having an Aneros device inserted leads to prostate stimulation (physical stim), but what drives A-less orgasm/stimulation?

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So like a lot of people, I saw the pandemic lockdown as a chance to make some progress on my journey. I’ve had a handful of good sessions over the past two years, 2 I suspect reached super-O levels; but overall it’s been pretty inconsistent. There’s also a lot of other barriers (roommate; mental health struggles causing me to struggle to clear my mind; find it hard to have a good session without weed and my supply dried up for a while), and to top things off I ended up with a case of gastro.

Yesterday was the first day I was feeling over the gastro, enough that my entire body didn’t feel out of whack, but not *so* over it that I thought douching and playing with the toy would be a good idea, even though I’ve really been craving a session for a while.

By late night, after I’d chilled out and blazed up, I was feeling kinda horny but wasn’t hard, so decided I’d get comfy, put on a tried-and-true porn film, and started working on kegels, not expecting much. However, it ended up being epic, even though it was completely a-less. I don’t think it was quite as pleasurable as past sessions – I would describe it as overall pleasurable, but muted – and I wonder if that’s because there was no toy. That got me wondering exactly what happens when someone has an a-less session, like what is the cause of pleasure without a toy. Read more »

Aneros vs Aless

Hi there this potentially might be one for the more experienced aneros users. I would like to hear the experiences of those of you who have experienced aless orgasms vs orgasms using the aneros toy. Are the orgasms better when you are using the toy or are they the same when it’s Aless?

A new surprise. Spontaneous leakage

I’ve gotten pretty good at ALess. Rarely I can get a super-O, most of the time I can trigger mini-O’s, and every time I can get intense P-Waves.

While on vacation with the whole fam, I did a little ALess in bed last night. While everyone was asleep I quietly enjoyed some mini-O’s around midnight in a 40min session. This morning I woke up at 7am, rock hard. I let it settle down and started another ALess session. I went for about :30. It wasn’t as good as the night time but got some great P-waves. Nothing to write home about. No precum.

Here’s the surprise. About 2.5hrs after my morning session I was standing naked in the bathroom brushing my teeth and I felt the sensation of precum, I looked down and squirt squirt squirt, three bursts of precum shot out and gave me the shivers. Woah. That was new. I hadn’t flexed a pc muscle in 2.5hrs.

I’m about 16mo into this for your reference