subtleties of prostate stimulation

New tools teaching me the intricacies and subtleties.

In my last blog post I mentioned getting some new pleasure tools. I have been having lots of fun with the Njoy large plug. this thing just sits on my prostate giving me the pressure I require without interaction since I’m a do nothing guy (but that is now changing because of these new tools) inducing some wonderful feeling orgasms. These ‘o’s are different but also the same from the ones I experienced from using an aneros product. I also love the fact that I can join in the am and go about my day feeling a constant stimulation of my anal canal and lower prostate area, gets me and keeps me aroused almost the entire time I’m moving.

I think the biggest take back is since these new tools are so unforgiving on the body if used to aggressively, I am really starting to become more mindful of the subtlety of prostate massage. When using any of my lovers and doing clenching (kegels or some type of muscular interaction) I would get overzealous without even knowing it thus chasing away the pleasure I was seeking because I had no feed back if you will, I couldn’t feel it moving inside me until an orgasm had started. Using the new tools force me to pay more attention to what and when I actively do something since I got overzealous one time using the Pfun and became fairly sore. The large seems to return a light feed back to me letting me learn the light touch required.

The Nutty Buddy Cup is Ideal for Diddling and Kegeling (with a shout out to @goldenboy!)

Hi guys,

Early this morning after a blissful night of diddling and kegeling in my BIKE CUP. I decided to the same thing with a Nutty Buddy Cup which I have had at least for a decade.

The Nutty Buddy Cup was developed by retired MLB great and baseball coach, Mark Littell, who was concerned that many baseball players were shunning athletic cups because they were uncomfortable to wear. With the help of two design scientists at Arizona State University, he created an innovative athletic cup that has two chambers for a guy’s testicles and contoured to fit a guy’s genital anatomy from right under his scrotum to just beyond his penis. Littell produced a Youtube video with him wearing this cup and being hit in his cupped area by baseball pitching machine. That was late in August 2006. I was so turned on that I jacked off to his video, and told myself I must buy this cup! 🙂 When it finally was marketed in March 2008, I was one of the first to purchase this amazing athletic cup.

Over the years, I have had an erotic dalliance with the Nutty Buddy. But it was only early this morning when I discovered for diddling and Kegeling. It is great in bed, but it is even better sitting in a chair, as right now as I am composing this blog entry!

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part V

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part V

Over the years I have visited and read many information resources which have helped me understand the complex variables associated with prostate orgasms and health, I thought here would be a good place to list some of those resources for the benefit of my fellow Anerosians. In no particular order you might find these worth reading and/or viewing.

Prostate Massage in general :

Prostate 101: The Ins and Outs of Prostate Play! narrated by Forrest Andrews of Aneros.
Prostate Massage 101: Multiple, GIGANTIC, Shaking, Full-Body Orgasms! this link also features a podcast interview with Forrest Andrews of Aneros.
Super-Size Your Orgasm – Podcast with Forrest Andrews
#183 Prostate Toys and Anal Pleasure – With Forrest Andrews Of Aneros
Prostate Health with Dr. John Bergman
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners
The Pleasure Mechanics Handbook on Pleasurable Prostate Massage
Prostate Massage 101: A Guide For Beginners
Anal play for men with Jaiya
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (I): General Advice and Manual Stimultaion
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (II): Probes, Prostate Massagers, and Vibrators
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (III): Dildos and Thrusting
Prostate Massage (I): How I Discovered Prostate Orgasms
Prostate Massage (II): Prostate Orgasms
Bedroom Insider- Prostate Pleasure with Jaiya
12 Things You Might Feel During Prostate Massage (You Won’t Believe Number 10!)
Aneros Tutorials
An Intro To Prostate Massage And Epic P-Spot Orgasms
Things to try when prostate massage isn’t working for you

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I tried to send to new Forum members prior to the switch to the new forum format. Unfortunately, I’m not able to track new members now so I’ll only be able to communicate this information sporadically.
Hi Guys, Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday. Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video formerly available on the Aneros website interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to these two podcasts #9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros & Super Size Your Orgasm, w/ Emily Morse & Forrest Andrews (on sexwithemily.com).

Nipple diddling, Kegeling, and jocks and cups!

Hi guys,

We are in the midst of winter here in DC, but it is going to get even brutally cold here for the next few days because of blast of Arctic air due to arrive late Tuesday night. Actually these blasts of Arctic air are the Arctic Vortex which breaks out of the north polar region. They are more severe some years than others. Actually we have some mild winters than others. What are Aneros guys supposed to do when such brutal winter arrive. In my case, I suspend my Aneros sessions for a while when milder winter weather returns.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s posts. He is so insightful when it comes to his sexuality/sexual experiences, his Aneros experiences, and his seasoned approach to jocks and cups! 🙂 His latest blog post, “Cup or No Cup?” piqued my interest.

Like @goldenboy, I wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. A jock and cup supports and protects my manhood for sure even in bed. Plus a jock and cup enter into my male sexual intimacy in the nighttime. Yes, like @goldenboy, there are some nights when I wear just briefs. They are OK, but nothing can compare to the raw, yet very sweet feel of a jock and cup at night!

Bringing my Progasm Black Ice out of retirement, sessions for January 27 & 29

Hi guys,

Our latest Arctic Vortex blast of winter cold arrived yesterday afternoon with the latest blast of blustery, cold air arriving this afternoon as I write this. Tomorrow early Thursday morning we shall have a low of 9 F.

However, I had sessions early Sunday morning just before sunrise and the same time yesterday morning Tuesday. I was horned for those sessions. Sunday I used MGX, Progasm Junior, and Maximus. Yesterday morning I added Progasm Black ICE which I brought out of a two/three year retirement.

Whenever I have a session, my psyche and body are longing for my Aneros models. This longing which verges on the sexual is what I mean by my being horned!

Now I just lie on my towel on my bed with two very slim chair cushions for my butt. Whenever I insert any of my Aneros models, a surge of anal pleasure that is irresistible. Also I wear a jock and cup like @goldenboy for most of my sessions, not so much to keep my hands off my cock, but rather the jock and cup (as intensely erotic items) enhance many fold my pleasure as I let each of my models work their magic on my anal musculature and prostate.

Nowadays my sessions leave me with exquisitely pleasant Aless. My Aless has a beat about it as though my Aneros models are still working away. Take care.

Deep Aneros “liquid” penetration : early Friday morning session, November 16

Hi guys,

Once again I had a session with my favorite Aneros models, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE this morning. This session happened after four days of excessive cold and two days of rain with snow and ice mixed in yesterday Thursday.

Once again my Aneros tools penetrated deeply and even reached around my prostate and “grabbed” it. But this morning I spent quality time with each of my models. It seemed that they penetrated deeply in “liquid” fashion.

I have had amazing Aless since 6:30 this morning which I am savoring. Take care!

Update at 8:50 p.m.: A little while ago, I dressed in sweatpants and a navy blue Under Armour cold gear mock, comfortable night clothes for bedtime. The Under Armour shirt ideal for nipple diddling. Wow! I have had sweet powerful and sweet Aless all day long. Diddling and Kegeling revs up my Aless. I may stay up several hours yet, but before I go to bed, I will don a BIKE jock and cup underneath my sweatpants for beautiful genital intimacy all night long. Perhaps tomorrow I’ll have another session mid morning or midday. Take care!

Update Saturday November 17 @1:45 p.m. This morning I had an Aneros session with the same models as yesterday which was pretty much the same, but it certainly felt real good. It certainly gave me solid Aless which I am still savoring this afternoon.

Cleanest way to lube?

Does anyone have any slick methods for lubing? It would be so nice to have a quick and easy way that doesn’t leave me worrying about dripping or having to take the Aneros out to re-lube. Thank you so much.

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My Super-O experience and tips

I’m typing this mere minutes after having the most intense orgasm of my life, even now my body is twitching and contracting in pleasure able aftershocks. It started as a normal session, I decided to up my dose of weed for this one and hadn’t ejaculated in the last 3 days. I watched porn for an hour beforehand then listened to asmr with my aneros in, getting the tug-o-war started. I kept clenching too hard so decided to try and keep my clench at a constant 80% after taking a whiff of amyl. This time I came, dry, the waves emanating from my P-spot and added sensitivity helped after that. I came another 6-8 times repeating that method, each getting more pleasurable. Then the 9th or 10th time I switched to a dildo and when i felt the special spot with it i rubbed it firmly, thrusting a centimetre at a time. I orgasmed, but this time when I felt the start of orgasm rack me it happened not once but 5-6 times, rapidly. Then I couldn’t do anything but writhe on my bed as multiple orgasms flooded my body, it felt like my entire body was orgasming, like fireworks of pleasure bursting everywhere, bouncing around. I was convulsing for a good 30+ seconds and then ley there twitching, still feeling the pleasure echo through me. I then finished my self of with masturbation and came for another minute, cum pouring out my dick, feeling like I’m peeing cum it was the best I’d ever felt from masturbation too.

Kinda frustrated now

I do have successful aneros orgasms and orgasms from playing with the njoy wand but it just ends up making me super horny afterwards and I inevitably end up jerking off to release all that sexual energy.

I started prostate play partly because I dont want to ejaculate from penis orgssm anymore (not as satisfying), but the horniness after a session just makes it difficult to not jerk off.

Any advice on either having a session and end up not being ballsy horny after it?